As the title said, what's the weirdest thing you've heard that made you uncomfy or made you sad that you're human?
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I want, something more Shounen Ai but i do like light yaois or slice of life content, specially if they have LGBT parents, i've reached a point where i feel like i've read them all, so i'm hoping to be surprised.
this is gonna be a long read so dont:
- say this is a manga site (this literally wasnt the point of me writing this)
- argue back without any backing other than your opinion and that its 'right.'
- all youtube or other links are trusted sources/videos by queer people.
- if ur straight/cis you might not understand any of this so either research abt it or move on.
1. your favorites did performative queerness. examples are some emo bands, kpop groups, and pop artists. (https://youtu.be/3umRD7SOUNw & https://online.ucpress.edu/jpms/article/33/1/121/116315/Is-stage-gay-queerbaiting-The-politics-of)
also tiktok is a big perpetuator of this??? literally i remember just last year there was some straight guy that came out as bisexual and literally used PAINTING HIS NAILS as a hint to that. but obviously that didnt last long and he was like 'no im straight.' fyi this is the same guy that cosplayed as sangwoo. (https://youtu.be/bJ59Ao5x25E)
i see this on the forum too like theres cis straight women on here that wants to be gay men??? just back the fuck off please.
2. you dont get gender. female and male are BIOLOGICAL SEXES. remember gender is what you think abt yourself in your head. man/boy or woman/girl is what youre assigned at birth. feminine, masculine, and androgyny is gender expression and usually what you first think about different sexualities because of stereotypes. also i dont get people who only identify as non-binary since thats an umbrella term??? (https://www.geneseo.edu/lgbtq/gender-identity)
3. the mogai sexualities like pansexual, omnisexual and demisexual dont really make sense and has no real need for them to exist. the mogai definitions are also way too in the box like how would somebody even know if theyre only attracted to two genders or more?? just let someone explore how they are instead of just having them go by textbook definitions written by other people/person whos experience might been COMPLETELY different. besides hetero and cis people make up the majority of the earth and youll probably have to date online to meet a more diverse group of people. i do think that specific terms arent bad though because different people can find them comforting. (https://youtu.be/XiuHsugRgNQ & https://youtu.be/DoZFZto6Wqg)
4. yaoi is just east asian gay fanfiction written by straight cis women. shounen ai is also the same because of literally heteronormative that shit is. literally change the more timid partner into a woman and itd be any other straight shoujo. this is pretty obviously because theyve only experienced straight romance/sex. like no your ass CANT libricate itself... the only thing that ive ever found relatable in these supposedly 'queer works' is that theyre afraid of being outed as a gay (in some stories). also like just please the SMUT ong its the covered all of the seven sins.
5. straight cis saviors please just erase yourself off this forum. IM LITERALLY BEGGING YOUUU. just listen to what the actual marginalized group thats harmed by this shit has to say.
anyways thats all i have to say for now and heres the link to my profile: https://www.mangago.me/home/people/510045/ if you want to block.
- say this is a manga site (this literally wasnt the point of me writing this)
- argue back without any backing other than your opinion and that its 'right.'
- all youtube or other links are trusted sources/videos by queer people.
- if ur straight/cis you might not understand any of this so either research abt it or move on.
1. your favorites did performative queerness. examples are some emo bands, kpop groups, and pop artists. (https://youtu.be/3umRD7SOUNw & https://online.ucpress.edu/jpms/article/33/1/121/116315/Is-stage-gay-queerbaiting-The-politics-of)
also tiktok is a big perpetuator of this??? literally i remember just last year there was some straight guy that came out as bisexual and literally used PAINTING HIS NAILS as a hint to that. but obviously that didnt last long and he was like 'no im straight.' fyi this is the same guy that cosplayed as sangwoo. (https://youtu.be/bJ59Ao5x25E)
i see this on the forum too like theres cis straight women on here that wants to be gay men??? just back the fuck off please.
2. you dont get gender. female and male are BIOLOGICAL SEXES. remember gender is what you think abt yourself in your head. man/boy or woman/girl is what youre assigned at birth. feminine, masculine, and androgyny is gender expression and usually what you first think about different sexualities because of stereotypes. also i dont get people who only identify as non-binary since thats an umbrella term??? (https://www.geneseo.edu/lgbtq/gender-identity)
3. the mogai sexualities like pansexual, omnisexual and demisexual dont really make sense and has no real need for them to exist. the mogai definitions are also way too in the box like how would somebody even know if theyre only attracted to two genders or more?? just let someone explore how they are instead of just having them go by textbook definitions written by other people/person whos experience might been COMPLETELY different. besides hetero and cis people make up the majority of the earth and youll probably have to date online to meet a more diverse group of people. i do think that specific terms arent bad though because different people can find them comforting. (https://youtu.be/XiuHsugRgNQ & https://youtu.be/DoZFZto6Wqg)
4. yaoi is just east asian gay fanfiction written by straight cis women. shounen ai is also the same because of literally heteronormative that shit is. literally change the more timid partner into a woman and itd be any other straight shoujo. this is pretty obviously because theyve only experienced straight romance/sex. like no your ass CANT libricate itself... the only thing that ive ever found relatable in these supposedly 'queer works' is that theyre afraid of being outed as a gay (in some stories). also like just please the SMUT ong its the covered all of the seven sins.
5. straight cis saviors please just erase yourself off this forum. IM LITERALLY BEGGING YOUUU. just listen to what the actual marginalized group thats harmed by this shit has to say.
anyways thats all i have to say for now and heres the link to my profile: https://www.mangago.me/home/people/510045/ if you want to block.
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i'm sorry this is so awkward but like do you guys a favorite(s) yaoi umm sex position you like? or maybe a situation?
like maybe you like the fact that the yaoi couple are doing it in public. or they're doing it on the dinner table. do you like it when they're missionary. something like that. so my question is, what would be your preference? or maybe you have an idea you wanna share-
this is so awkward i'm so sorry
like maybe you like the fact that the yaoi couple are doing it in public. or they're doing it on the dinner table. do you like it when they're missionary. something like that. so my question is, what would be your preference? or maybe you have an idea you wanna share-
this is so awkward i'm so sorry
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happy pride month to every one in the community !!
to my fellow non binary lesbians (we tend to forget us too often when talking about lesbians but ofc a happy pride month to every lesbians) !
to non binary gays (non binary love male) !
to my beloved non binary people in fact !
to ace people !
to aro people!
to aroace people!
to bisexuals and pansexuals !
to the queer POC !
to the trans WOC !
to the trans men of color !
to people that are still in the closet <3
to queer women!
to trans people in general!
to gay men that struggle with AIDS!
to non-cis people that use neo pronouns !
to people for whom it is their first pride !
to people that are still figuring themselves out !!
in fact happy pride month to every person that is part of the community!!
just know that you are loved, even if you don't think so. you're an amazing human being and i love you !
and thanks to every allies that will come to pride (or just support us on social medias and stuff!) with us <3
remember : the first pride was held by a black prostitute trans woman ! so let's not exclude them during this pride shall we :)
much love; sum soup
to my fellow non binary lesbians (we tend to forget us too often when talking about lesbians but ofc a happy pride month to every lesbians) !
to non binary gays (non binary love male) !
to my beloved non binary people in fact !
to ace people !
to aro people!
to aroace people!
to bisexuals and pansexuals !
to the queer POC !
to the trans WOC !
to the trans men of color !
to people that are still in the closet <3
to queer women!
to trans people in general!
to gay men that struggle with AIDS!
to non-cis people that use neo pronouns !
to people for whom it is their first pride !
to people that are still figuring themselves out !!
in fact happy pride month to every person that is part of the community!!
just know that you are loved, even if you don't think so. you're an amazing human being and i love you !
and thanks to every allies that will come to pride (or just support us on social medias and stuff!) with us <3
remember : the first pride was held by a black prostitute trans woman ! so let's not exclude them during this pride shall we :)
much love; sum soup
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well since ive talked about fujoshis ill talk about yuri too and non con in general
tbh i genuinely thought yuri was only read by wlw but i guess thats not the case? since im an wlw i just thought that way lol apparently i was weong, though ive never seen one (doesnt mean i think it doesnt happen though) fetishizing goes both ways, whether its bl or gl. i just didnt talk about yuri in my earlier entry because i was talking about fetishizing of rape, before i posted that entry i was reading a manhwa and saw a topic of someone saying they are okay with rape in manhwas, specifically, it was bl, and i only ever see it happening in bl manhwas, that's why i only talked about how fujoshis fetishize rape.
moving on, ill talk about non-con in manhwas in general. no matter what you say, its WRONG. if its a coping mechanism for trauma, then let it be, but it doesnt change the fact that non-con is wrong no matter in fiction or irl and ive seen so many people who dont have trauma and just get off to rape and ?? that doesnt sit right with me? getting off to a character raping another character? ofc if it was cnc thats cool, thats alright, because its still consensual, but getting off to two characters where the other is being raped feels so wrong. you can attack me and say "get over it its just fiction" i KNOW its fiction but it shows things that are major problems in real life like i dont know, RAPE.
tbh i genuinely thought yuri was only read by wlw but i guess thats not the case? since im an wlw i just thought that way lol apparently i was weong, though ive never seen one (doesnt mean i think it doesnt happen though) fetishizing goes both ways, whether its bl or gl. i just didnt talk about yuri in my earlier entry because i was talking about fetishizing of rape, before i posted that entry i was reading a manhwa and saw a topic of someone saying they are okay with rape in manhwas, specifically, it was bl, and i only ever see it happening in bl manhwas, that's why i only talked about how fujoshis fetishize rape.
moving on, ill talk about non-con in manhwas in general. no matter what you say, its WRONG. if its a coping mechanism for trauma, then let it be, but it doesnt change the fact that non-con is wrong no matter in fiction or irl and ive seen so many people who dont have trauma and just get off to rape and ?? that doesnt sit right with me? getting off to a character raping another character? ofc if it was cnc thats cool, thats alright, because its still consensual, but getting off to two characters where the other is being raped feels so wrong. you can attack me and say "get over it its just fiction" i KNOW its fiction but it shows things that are major problems in real life like i dont know, RAPE.
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Personally it’s:
- Todoroki
- Tamaki
- Sukuna, because he’s apparently popular.
- Sasuke
You?
- Todoroki
- Tamaki
- Sukuna, because he’s apparently popular.
- Sasuke
You?
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Um, I am looking for some um manga / manwha / manuha to read. And I thought that I would check out some of other peoples favorites. So um please uh write you favorite one.
about first yaoi
EVERYONE STFU STOP MENTIONING THE WHOLE ASS FIGHT AND GO FINNISH THE MANGAS YOU STILL HAVENT
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Bro okay i know myself that i love drama and something like that but it's like as if the whole mangago site is fighthing with each other like children i mean bro just calm yo ass down lmao i love drama but that's a bit to much, damn girl do you know how much fuck i gave? I even forgot about my mangas i forgot to continue reading my manga damn! But it's not like i'm forbidding you to have conversations i don't have anything against that i love your conversations there is so much drama and fun. But like calm down and get some rest. Chile anyways so imma go continue my manga love yall
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So there's been a lot of discussions on mangago lately and I just wanted to post this because I wanted to try distracting you a bit from all this drama. I've been feeling down a lot lately, even though I always try to view everything around me positive. I wasn't as confident as before when posting stuff on here and I felt that there was an invisible wall between me and the other users, mostly because of our gap of interests. When I finally came home after school and I opened my laptop, I saw the answers to one of my questions that I wrote yesterday. The users thanked me for writing something appreciating towards them, even though it is natural to thank the people around you and compliment them. It wasn't a big deal, but I smiled as soon as I scrolled trough all of your answers. I'm very happy that you found my small written question good and that it helped you feeling happier. I really hope that you continue being my favorite community and that I will be able to make friends on here. A lot of people already reached out to me first and interacted very friendly with me and I'm really thankful to you for that.Maybe there are other users on this website who have the same thoughts as me and I would appreciate it if at least one appreciating and wholesome question could be posted on here per day so that we can support each other by complimenting each other. Doing compliments maybe lightens up the mood on here and it would help us getting along on here better without having to argue about all the dramatic opinions and topics anymore. I hope you have a great day/morning/night and feel free to tell me if you find me posting this kind of questions annoying or it bothers you. Goodbye !
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mfs always like "we r on an illegal manga website u dont need to talk about that on here" actually shut up??? why would they make a forum if people weren't supposed to talk on it
