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Recently I been reading the most from the fantasy genre. I’ve been obsessed over the novel remakes where the main charcter is reincarnated as a villainess or a character from a book, theyre fun and really aggravating sometimes. Anyways other than that I read a lot from the action genre too.
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I know this isn’t the best place to ask this, but I’ve been planning to make a post about why yaoi is bad and I really need some opinions on it (preferably from gay men) here it is:
Disclaimer: I have nothing wrong with men watching lesbian porn or women watching gay porn, as long as they can realize porn doesn’t equal real life or people and keep it private
There are 3 main problems with yaoi; it’s stereotypical and heteronormative, it romanticizes a lot of bad things, and it’s catered toward women, not gay men. The fact that it’s just porn is not the problem, again, I don’t care about your porn preference.
The stereotypes and heteronormativity
One of the biggest stereotypes I’ve seen in yaoi is the top being masculine and rough and the bottom being feminine and gentle. This usually leads to heteronormativity, which is also rooted in misogyny, where they make a gay relationship seem like a straight relationship, by making one more “womanly” and the other more “manly” by giving them traditional roles of a man and a woman.
The whole point of a gay relationship is that they’re the same gender, so there is no “woman” in an MLM relationship and there is no “man” in a WLW relationship. While there are tons of gay relationships where one is more feminine and the other is masculine, not all of them, if not most, are like that. It also enforces the stereotype that gay men are predatory and “sex fiends” due to the fact that most of the stories are just sex.
The romanticization of rape and pedophilia (TW)
Most relationships in yaoi stem from the top raping the bottom. Not only is this unrealistic because no victim would date their rapist, let alone interact with them, it also makes it seem like rape is okay and it’s something the victim can just “get over.” Pedophilia isn’t as common, but it’s still there, and both of these further perpetuate the "gay men are predators" stereotype.
The target audience
Yaoi is a whole genre about gay men, but it’s catered towards women. If a story or show is about a minority, then that minority should at least be the target audience, if that’s not the case, it’s exploitation. It’s similar to how lesbian porn is catered towards men and not women.
Some other issues:
1. Bi, pan, and etc. erasure
3. Giving characteristics to top and bottom
4. Sexualization of minors
5. Some fans straight up fetishize gay men
6. Reduces gay relationships to sex
7. Makes it seem like you can “turn” someone gay
8. Gay men have said that it’s fetishization
I know this isn’t the best place to ask this, but I’ve been planning to make a post about why yaoi is bad and I really need some opinions on it (preferably from gay men) here it is:
Disclaimer: I have nothing wrong with men watching lesbian porn or women watching gay porn, as long as they can realize porn doesn’t equal real life or people and keep it private
There are 3 main problems with yaoi; it’s stereotypical and heteronormative, it romanticizes a lot of bad things, and it’s catered toward women, not gay men. The fact that it’s just porn is not the problem, again, I don’t care about your porn preference.
The stereotypes and heteronormativity
One of the biggest stereotypes I’ve seen in yaoi is the top being masculine and rough and the bottom being feminine and gentle. This usually leads to heteronormativity, which is also rooted in misogyny, where they make a gay relationship seem like a straight relationship, by making one more “womanly” and the other more “manly” by giving them traditional roles of a man and a woman.
The whole point of a gay relationship is that they’re the same gender, so there is no “woman” in an MLM relationship and there is no “man” in a WLW relationship. While there are tons of gay relationships where one is more feminine and the other is masculine, not all of them, if not most, are like that. It also enforces the stereotype that gay men are predatory and “sex fiends” due to the fact that most of the stories are just sex.
The romanticization of rape and pedophilia (TW)
Most relationships in yaoi stem from the top raping the bottom. Not only is this unrealistic because no victim would date their rapist, let alone interact with them, it also makes it seem like rape is okay and it’s something the victim can just “get over.” Pedophilia isn’t as common, but it’s still there, and both of these further perpetuate the "gay men are predators" stereotype.
The target audience
Yaoi is a whole genre about gay men, but it’s catered towards women. If a story or show is about a minority, then that minority should at least be the target audience, if that’s not the case, it’s exploitation. It’s similar to how lesbian porn is catered towards men and not women.
Some other issues:
1. Bi, pan, and etc. erasure
3. Giving characteristics to top and bottom
4. Sexualization of minors
5. Some fans straight up fetishize gay men
6. Reduces gay relationships to sex
7. Makes it seem like you can “turn” someone gay
8. Gay men have said that it’s fetishization
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I'm still hungry for KFC, man.
I really want some KFC.
Is it just me?
am I'm the only weird one here.
after all, I am that one guy technically speaking.
And as that one guy, I shall now say goodnight, buenas noches, oidhche mhath, usiku mwema, bonne nuit, Oyasumi, buona notte, s gute Nacht.
I really want some KFC.
Is it just me?
am I'm the only weird one here.
after all, I am that one guy technically speaking.
And as that one guy, I shall now say goodnight, buenas noches, oidhche mhath, usiku mwema, bonne nuit, Oyasumi, buona notte, s gute Nacht.
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opinion: what is a moanable name cause the only thing on the internet says becky and steve and imagine moaning steve. like what?
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A soggy old man walks into a barn. He's wet because of the rain and is searching for shelter. The barn is old and filthy, but the interior is dry enough to sleep in.
The man shuts the door and hears loud coughing behind him in the darkness. He turns around knowing that it's a person and walks as if a single movement would make enough noise to give away his movements.
However, contrary to his expectations, it's a dollar note coughing, ripped in shreds. His heart aches at the sight and howls. The man stops in his tracks to look at the dollar bill, wondering who ripped it up.
Yet, as he checks the whole barn for clues on who the culprit is, he sees a big hole on the floor. He peers down into the hole and notices what looks like a human heart, balling its eyes out.
His heartbeats in sync. Was it a curse from the barn? or an old fable taking its roots?
The man staggers back, taken from his daydreaming, after hearing a loud banging noise coming from the door he just shut. Upon opening he witnesses a familiar face, the visage of his long-gone wife, Maria.
The crystallization of pearls and swooning embers in her eyes give way for his beating heart. Yet, unaware, the hole keeps widening...
He begins to grow tears in his eyes, worried she would find out the secret he'd been keeping from her this whole time. The fact that he knows she is going to die, the fact he could've stopped it, but was too much of a coward to do so.
A weasel who solemnly gazed on through the window of loneliness. his dishonesty had turned him into a mere dollar bill who coughed up the cash. He hated all the solitude he had brought upon himself, but there is no going back now, it is almost too late for them anyway.
The man looks back at the doorway, to Maria, but there is nothing left of her except the end of her skirt which would soon fade away like the rest of her.
The hole opening up inside of him, the mere idea of being worth a dollar. The constant knocking of the door, "do u wanna build a family?".
He wanted to desperately have children, but the only woman he would ever love was disappearing in front of his blurred by tears vision.
He soon realizes he doesn't deserve children, or anything at all, he doesn't even deserve to be a dollar—as that was a horrible overestimation of the universe.
Yet, he feels he deserves to be alive. Maybe this barn wanted to tell him so as well... that if you ever get lost. You will find your way back home.
And as he walks home, he contemplates everything that has happened these past few moments.
Alas, he opens his eyes and in the bright white light, there stands Maria, holding her hand out to him, mouthing "Ready to go?"
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The man shuts the door and hears loud coughing behind him in the darkness. He turns around knowing that it's a person and walks as if a single movement would make enough noise to give away his movements.
However, contrary to his expectations, it's a dollar note coughing, ripped in shreds. His heart aches at the sight and howls. The man stops in his tracks to look at the dollar bill, wondering who ripped it up.
Yet, as he checks the whole barn for clues on who the culprit is, he sees a big hole on the floor. He peers down into the hole and notices what looks like a human heart, balling its eyes out.
His heartbeats in sync. Was it a curse from the barn? or an old fable taking its roots?
The man staggers back, taken from his daydreaming, after hearing a loud banging noise coming from the door he just shut. Upon opening he witnesses a familiar face, the visage of his long-gone wife, Maria.
The crystallization of pearls and swooning embers in her eyes give way for his beating heart. Yet, unaware, the hole keeps widening...
He begins to grow tears in his eyes, worried she would find out the secret he'd been keeping from her this whole time. The fact that he knows she is going to die, the fact he could've stopped it, but was too much of a coward to do so.
A weasel who solemnly gazed on through the window of loneliness. his dishonesty had turned him into a mere dollar bill who coughed up the cash. He hated all the solitude he had brought upon himself, but there is no going back now, it is almost too late for them anyway.
The man looks back at the doorway, to Maria, but there is nothing left of her except the end of her skirt which would soon fade away like the rest of her.
The hole opening up inside of him, the mere idea of being worth a dollar. The constant knocking of the door, "do u wanna build a family?".
He wanted to desperately have children, but the only woman he would ever love was disappearing in front of his blurred by tears vision.
He soon realizes he doesn't deserve children, or anything at all, he doesn't even deserve to be a dollar—as that was a horrible overestimation of the universe.
Yet, he feels he deserves to be alive. Maybe this barn wanted to tell him so as well... that if you ever get lost. You will find your way back home.
And as he walks home, he contemplates everything that has happened these past few moments.
Alas, he opens his eyes and in the bright white light, there stands Maria, holding her hand out to him, mouthing "Ready to go?"
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It can be tmi, but I just tried to masturbate for the first time ever (I'm 18) AND I DIDN'T LIKE IT I'M NOT EVEN SURE WHAT Happened.
It was just some muscle contraction? Which made me quite uncomfortable btw, and then nothing? I'm not even sure if it hurted or that was "pleasure". I'm not relaxed AT ALL. I was very gentle too, if that matters.
Idek, it's not worth the hype, too much work, no reward 2/10
It was just some muscle contraction? Which made me quite uncomfortable btw, and then nothing? I'm not even sure if it hurted or that was "pleasure". I'm not relaxed AT ALL. I was very gentle too, if that matters.
Idek, it's not worth the hype, too much work, no reward 2/10
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I’ve read tons of stories about isolated, picked on mcs, with no friends for their whole school life trope. Do you know people irl like those? I’m curious cause I haven’t seen anyone like that in my whole school life. Like sure, there might be people who prefer to stay alone but they still have friend groups or at least one friend or classmate to talk to during breaks or in class that they hang put with. And I’m not talking about those “go with the flow” people who you don’t see belonging to any friend group but talks to all friend groups occasionally. I’ve never seen anyone that detached from the batch.
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Does mangago let y’all use the upload chapter button? I have been trying to upload some new chapters mangas but when I press upload chapters it’s say “ Sorry, You do not have permission to access this page.” Does that mean mangago suspended me from uploading?
And then i take some ties from around the house (the ties always get lost somewhere so i might as well) and then just put them on top of the knitted bracelet
I mainly use this bracelet to hide the scars from my cuts tho, or freshly made cuts
And whenever my parents ask about it i either say "I like it" or "Its where i put all the ties i find cause our ties always get lost" and then they believe me because its half true hehe
Lying is really useful
I mainly use this bracelet to hide the scars from my cuts tho, or freshly made cuts
And whenever my parents ask about it i either say "I like it" or "Its where i put all the ties i find cause our ties always get lost" and then they believe me because its half true hehe
Lying is really useful
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https://uquiz.com/quiz/QSDT7d?p=82249
I got Yandere, despite choosing choices what most people would assume would be normal.
I got Yandere, despite choosing choices what most people would assume would be normal.
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so I had my final exam for one of my classes, j just received an email from one of my professors, the dude told me that I write with an accent, just like I speak with an accent... And I'm confuse to what the fuck does that mean.
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The day had finally arrived for them to face each other. People at school were whispering as they saw Connor walk in through the front entrance. He tried to walk casually and pretend nothing happened, but it was obvious no one would forget the incident anytime soon.
Jake had saw Connor walking into the school building that morning. Jake could tell how nervous he was, and it seemed as though he was stiffly making his way through the doors of the entrance. He decided it was best if he went in through the back. Besides, it would be awkward to face him right now. He was still thinking about what had happened in the hallway, and seeing Connors face made him feel anxious and flustered.
But, they would be going into 1st period soon, the class they share together. It seemed as though it was the only thing the school was talking about. The fight had been infront of many people, and lasted a good 5 minutes.
As 1st period got closer and closer, the more and more people whispered. It was bound it happen anyways, especially since Connor had a black eye. Jake knew he had given him that, but he felt awful just looking at it.
The bell had finally rung, and it was time. Connor and Jake stood by the first period door, locking eyes once again. Before Jake could say anything, Connor rushed into the classroom, and sat firmly down in his seat. Jake had never felt worse in his life.
He wanted to apologize soon, but he didn’t want to do it infront of all these people. As Jake made his way to his seat, he made the plan to talk to Connor after class.
Also I won’t be posting part 4 until later tonight or in the morning (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ This is also partially a real and fake story. The fight was real, but the enemies to lover trope was not, this is all for funzies
Jake had saw Connor walking into the school building that morning. Jake could tell how nervous he was, and it seemed as though he was stiffly making his way through the doors of the entrance. He decided it was best if he went in through the back. Besides, it would be awkward to face him right now. He was still thinking about what had happened in the hallway, and seeing Connors face made him feel anxious and flustered.
But, they would be going into 1st period soon, the class they share together. It seemed as though it was the only thing the school was talking about. The fight had been infront of many people, and lasted a good 5 minutes.
As 1st period got closer and closer, the more and more people whispered. It was bound it happen anyways, especially since Connor had a black eye. Jake knew he had given him that, but he felt awful just looking at it.
The bell had finally rung, and it was time. Connor and Jake stood by the first period door, locking eyes once again. Before Jake could say anything, Connor rushed into the classroom, and sat firmly down in his seat. Jake had never felt worse in his life.
He wanted to apologize soon, but he didn’t want to do it infront of all these people. As Jake made his way to his seat, he made the plan to talk to Connor after class.
Also I won’t be posting part 4 until later tonight or in the morning (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ This is also partially a real and fake story. The fight was real, but the enemies to lover trope was not, this is all for funzies
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The best way to stop yourself from crying while your parents are in an argument or screaming at you is to hurt yourself like biting yourself really hard or like pinching yourself hard enough that it bleeds and causes bruises, now i have bruises all over lol
I once bit myself so hard that it bled and it started to swell up
I told nobody tho, i just hid it with a sleeve :3
I once bit myself so hard that it bled and it started to swell up
I told nobody tho, i just hid it with a sleeve :3
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about being gay
My friends are questioning my sexuality and I don’t wanna come out.....there nice and there all in LGBT+ community but I just don’t want to come out... how do I get out of the situation?.. ╥﹏╥
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What's the weirdest fanfic you've read? Can't be anything from this site, though.
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both were suspended for about week, and when they went back to school, they would have to apologize formally to each other.
During the span of that week, Connor couldn’t stop thinking about how long they had locked eyes for. He had finally noticed how pretty his eyes were. Jakes eyes always seemed cold and hard, but they were so soft in that moment.
Same went for Jake. Connor had always been loud and obnoxious, but when he fell on top of Connor, he looked flustered and not composed. He wandered around his house, trying to get the image of Connors face out of his mind. But he couldn’t and eventually gave up.
As rumors flooded the school about why they fighted, the pressure between the two friend groups was growing larger. It was soon going to be time for Jake and Connor to face each other at school.
HERE IS UR PART 2
During the span of that week, Connor couldn’t stop thinking about how long they had locked eyes for. He had finally noticed how pretty his eyes were. Jakes eyes always seemed cold and hard, but they were so soft in that moment.
Same went for Jake. Connor had always been loud and obnoxious, but when he fell on top of Connor, he looked flustered and not composed. He wandered around his house, trying to get the image of Connors face out of his mind. But he couldn’t and eventually gave up.
As rumors flooded the school about why they fighted, the pressure between the two friend groups was growing larger. It was soon going to be time for Jake and Connor to face each other at school.
HERE IS UR PART 2
