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Am I the only one who couldn't stand male characters with long hairs? Like, idk how to describe this feeling, maybe I'm just way too prejudiced and biased. [Personal preference (￣∇￣") ]
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The world is falling apart, and it's nothing new, but it is desperately dire--and I am struggling to cope. Anyone else? If you read what's below, where do you fall? How do you make your life a little bit more worth living?
Throw me a bone here, if you're willing--I likely won't respond to comments, but I love to read them, and for the sake of my sanity I need a little bit of human interaction.
The World is Falling Apart - A non-spell-checked rant:
The more I think about it... the more I learn about AI, the planetary polycrisis, the international rise in techno-fascism, community networks drying up, scaling illiteracy, the global pandemic in mental health... the more the global illusion of systematic function breaks, the more outrage is fanned, the more death and destruction is wrought in a world we are suffocating... the more I find myself seeking ways to insulate my life against the backdrop of literal horrors befalling the world. I want to be ignorant and blissful. I need it. But to get there I would have to deconstruct every facet of myself and the life I have lived so far.
I care so deeply, but am so exhausted, and feel so limited in my capacity to bring about change. It seems like every old fuck around me is perfectly content ignoring the issues of the world and placating their way to an easy death, before everything becomes absolutely unavoidable. I feel crazy raising concerns about AI at my job, speaking up about genocide, challenging local leaders fucking stupid decisions on environmental policy--when all everyone around me is trying to do is pacify a necrosing system and avoid "rocking the boat," to protect their own self-interests, their paycheck, or their social capital. I've been let go before for being "difficult," and am finding the same pitfalls in my current job as all the others--apathetic empathy--care for people that only goes skin deep. The scariest part is that I have sensed a slow degradation of my moral commitments as time has gone on--I feel like I may slowly become like them, and lose my own plot. In so many ways, I am just like them, just like everyone; I need money to live, I need a job for money, I need to "keep the peace" to keep my job, and thus I need to suppress what I feel is my ethical obligation to speak up.
My mental health is rapidly crumbling--in large part due to this internal crisis. Anxiety and depression drive me 24/7. Those I love are struggling and far away. Things are only seeming to get worse and worse and I feel incapable of making a difference, enjoying what little is left of the current state of the world, or committing myself to my indecision. I am living in a constant state of strain between what I feel I should do, what I must do to live, and what I want to do--and there is no clear path forward. The clock ticks, and every day my worst fears are repeatedly realized.
Amid all the shit, I am trying to carve out some stability in my day to day--but I can't stick to a routine for the life of me. I've planed and curated all the things I want to do, and when it comes time to do them, I am motionless, completely unmotivated, and drained of energy. I am lucky to brush my teeth, much less eat breakfast. Ahhh it's all so depressing, and yet I hold to the hope, I guess, that something has to get better. Right? Anything... So if you've made it this far, what are those things that make it better for you? How do you "cope," if you care enough to care?
Throw me a bone here, if you're willing--I likely won't respond to comments, but I love to read them, and for the sake of my sanity I need a little bit of human interaction.
The World is Falling Apart - A non-spell-checked rant:
The more I think about it... the more I learn about AI, the planetary polycrisis, the international rise in techno-fascism, community networks drying up, scaling illiteracy, the global pandemic in mental health... the more the global illusion of systematic function breaks, the more outrage is fanned, the more death and destruction is wrought in a world we are suffocating... the more I find myself seeking ways to insulate my life against the backdrop of literal horrors befalling the world. I want to be ignorant and blissful. I need it. But to get there I would have to deconstruct every facet of myself and the life I have lived so far.
I care so deeply, but am so exhausted, and feel so limited in my capacity to bring about change. It seems like every old fuck around me is perfectly content ignoring the issues of the world and placating their way to an easy death, before everything becomes absolutely unavoidable. I feel crazy raising concerns about AI at my job, speaking up about genocide, challenging local leaders fucking stupid decisions on environmental policy--when all everyone around me is trying to do is pacify a necrosing system and avoid "rocking the boat," to protect their own self-interests, their paycheck, or their social capital. I've been let go before for being "difficult," and am finding the same pitfalls in my current job as all the others--apathetic empathy--care for people that only goes skin deep. The scariest part is that I have sensed a slow degradation of my moral commitments as time has gone on--I feel like I may slowly become like them, and lose my own plot. In so many ways, I am just like them, just like everyone; I need money to live, I need a job for money, I need to "keep the peace" to keep my job, and thus I need to suppress what I feel is my ethical obligation to speak up.
My mental health is rapidly crumbling--in large part due to this internal crisis. Anxiety and depression drive me 24/7. Those I love are struggling and far away. Things are only seeming to get worse and worse and I feel incapable of making a difference, enjoying what little is left of the current state of the world, or committing myself to my indecision. I am living in a constant state of strain between what I feel I should do, what I must do to live, and what I want to do--and there is no clear path forward. The clock ticks, and every day my worst fears are repeatedly realized.
Amid all the shit, I am trying to carve out some stability in my day to day--but I can't stick to a routine for the life of me. I've planed and curated all the things I want to do, and when it comes time to do them, I am motionless, completely unmotivated, and drained of energy. I am lucky to brush my teeth, much less eat breakfast. Ahhh it's all so depressing, and yet I hold to the hope, I guess, that something has to get better. Right? Anything... So if you've made it this far, what are those things that make it better for you? How do you "cope," if you care enough to care?
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I’ll start first. I fucking hate them, and i’m starting to be on my breaking point. it’s so fucking annoying pulling up to any bl that looks mildly interesting and then being disappointed that the only teams translating it are Kaizen Mythtoons or Siren scams. They fucking ruined this site bro.
And I fucking hate when someone says smth like “just be grateful that we’re getting these translations for free” sybau. these fuckass AI scamlators are PROFITING off of translations that A. they don’t do any of the work and B. THEY PAYWALL. THEYRE TAKING MONEY OFF OF THE FUCKING ARTIST. the whole reason why ppl read on these sites is bc we aren’t able to read on official platforms usually because of money reasons.
i also hate when someone says smth like “just read another BL that hasn’t been translated by them” LIKE WHAT. GENUINELY WHAT. going to find any bl that’s been updated in 2026 and not seeing these fucking scamlators on it is like asking me to find Santa. IT DOESNT EXIST. U literally just have to hope and pray that ur BL gets officials so that Jujucat or someone else uploads it bro.
and because of the Bato shutdown, it seems like mangago has become the new BL uploader site, so the uploads you get here are going to be the same uploads u get anywhere else. fml.
Let me just say that i’m fine w MTL. I am NOT fine with their bitchass ads with some ai generated character saying “come to our [blank] and read ahead!” FUCK YOU. and then these greedy mf’s have the audacity to make you pay for “their” chapters.
They also just fucking take so many manhwas at once? like god i think the only non ai fan translators for BL manhwa i ever see anymore r dindin and rnerne. like bro mangago at least put a limit to how many projects ppl can pickup at once or smth, or have users be able to report other users or uploaders or smth man
And I fucking hate when someone says smth like “just be grateful that we’re getting these translations for free” sybau. these fuckass AI scamlators are PROFITING off of translations that A. they don’t do any of the work and B. THEY PAYWALL. THEYRE TAKING MONEY OFF OF THE FUCKING ARTIST. the whole reason why ppl read on these sites is bc we aren’t able to read on official platforms usually because of money reasons.
i also hate when someone says smth like “just read another BL that hasn’t been translated by them” LIKE WHAT. GENUINELY WHAT. going to find any bl that’s been updated in 2026 and not seeing these fucking scamlators on it is like asking me to find Santa. IT DOESNT EXIST. U literally just have to hope and pray that ur BL gets officials so that Jujucat or someone else uploads it bro.
and because of the Bato shutdown, it seems like mangago has become the new BL uploader site, so the uploads you get here are going to be the same uploads u get anywhere else. fml.
Let me just say that i’m fine w MTL. I am NOT fine with their bitchass ads with some ai generated character saying “come to our [blank] and read ahead!” FUCK YOU. and then these greedy mf’s have the audacity to make you pay for “their” chapters.
They also just fucking take so many manhwas at once? like god i think the only non ai fan translators for BL manhwa i ever see anymore r dindin and rnerne. like bro mangago at least put a limit to how many projects ppl can pickup at once or smth, or have users be able to report other users or uploaders or smth man
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The idea of modeling for love figure drawing has recently been extremely appealing to me. Nude also isn’t really a problem for me so we’re good there I’m just not really sure where to start.
Another thing is that I’ve got quite a lot of scars from SH on my thighs. Although it’s not bad enough to be repulsed while looking at it and also not dark in color (they are all white) they are quite deep and there is a lot. I wonder if that is a discouraging factor?
Weight seems to be fine and accepted but I wonder how scars of that nature might be perceived.
Internet do your thing!
Another thing is that I’ve got quite a lot of scars from SH on my thighs. Although it’s not bad enough to be repulsed while looking at it and also not dark in color (they are all white) they are quite deep and there is a lot. I wonder if that is a discouraging factor?
Weight seems to be fine and accepted but I wonder how scars of that nature might be perceived.
Internet do your thing!
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Personally, I don’t know what I would do if my partner has. I don’t know if I want to pee on someone, have someone pee on me, pee inside someone, or have someone pee inside me. So what would you do if your partner had one or do you also have one?
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earlier i was on the bus and i tripped on the stairs. this fat ugly greasy cunt laughed at me.
i am not okay guys
i am not okay guys
I finally found out how to do this through the most amazing mangago guide ever (after almost 2 years on here but whatevs) wohoo!!! Also it is so horrible when I want to rub one out but I can get multiple tags so I just have to make do with whatever.
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is there a soul kind enough on this god forsaken website to lend me an ear and talk with me because i need to talk, like, right now i need to tell someone how i feel i dont care who just someone who wants to listen to me and talk with me
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I’m a straight girl but I envision sticking up my fingers in my man’s ass while he pounds me. I’m a virgin and my lips are untouched
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I want the best panels or pages (as in art) i want beautiful things that could pass as paintings!
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Okay I need to talk about this fujoshi internalized misogyny thing because I am losing it. I was looking for yuri recs and stumbled on a post captioned “thd.” And I’m wondering is this a dog whistle? Turns out it stands for “total himejoshi death.” I sighed, then went to the comments and found the op’s justification,“I’m lesbian and I prefer yaoi.” so you wish death on people for liking yuri because you personally prefer yaoi? Make it make sense.
And the comments are worse, people going “total himejoshi gang bang” like it’s a joke. You hate yuri fans enough to joke about them being assaulted? And half these people have never read a single yuri in their life. Yuri and yaoi are both queer media, just with the genders swapped. I genuinely don’t understand the hostility.
For the record, I’m not a fujo or a himejoshi, I’m a herbivore, I consume all romance regardless of the characters genders, so this isn’t me being defensive about my own thing. But honestly the worst part was that these weren’t just chronically online teenagers, they were grown adults
And the comments are worse, people going “total himejoshi gang bang” like it’s a joke. You hate yuri fans enough to joke about them being assaulted? And half these people have never read a single yuri in their life. Yuri and yaoi are both queer media, just with the genders swapped. I genuinely don’t understand the hostility.
For the record, I’m not a fujo or a himejoshi, I’m a herbivore, I consume all romance regardless of the characters genders, so this isn’t me being defensive about my own thing. But honestly the worst part was that these weren’t just chronically online teenagers, they were grown adults
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I’ve been wondering this for a while and talked to a few people about it but I still don’t have a solid opinion on cnc, so please tell me what you think about it. Ik it’s a very controversial kink and I’ve seen people say that it’s fine since it’s just more of an extreme subcategory or whatever of S&M/BDSM and others just finding it gross.
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Like they genuinely get online and write "well this man is fem that obviously means he's a bottom!" Guys... that's not how it works it just about liking it up the butt
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soo i read this a while ago on bato and i cant find it on any site so bear w me
it had a title with something along the lines of the boundaries/borders of love and it had an action storyline that was PHENOMENALL but i cant remember the exact name and cant find it i really want to read it again
the mc was a brown skinned man(probably black but god was his skin colour ashy) and the ml who is the uke was a fair skinned man with black hair i think i partially remember a scene where the white one was admitted to the hospital and it was something about some hidden cameras or mics idk PLSSS share some details if you know what im talking about!!
it had a title with something along the lines of the boundaries/borders of love and it had an action storyline that was PHENOMENALL but i cant remember the exact name and cant find it i really want to read it again
the mc was a brown skinned man(probably black but god was his skin colour ashy) and the ml who is the uke was a fair skinned man with black hair i think i partially remember a scene where the white one was admitted to the hospital and it was something about some hidden cameras or mics idk PLSSS share some details if you know what im talking about!!
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Can BL stop catfishing me with their covers? I’ll find one with a beautiful cover and an interesting premise, only to read the first chapter and immediately get hit with rape.
It really isn’t that hard to write characters who consent. And why is everything tagged “psychological” now? I don’t know where people got the idea that psychological = rape. You can write manipulation, obsession, trauma, toxic relationships, etc. without relying on sexual assault every time. It gets repetitive
It really isn’t that hard to write characters who consent. And why is everything tagged “psychological” now? I don’t know where people got the idea that psychological = rape. You can write manipulation, obsession, trauma, toxic relationships, etc. without relying on sexual assault every time. It gets repetitive
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Like if you wanna nut, nut it out you don't gotta play by the rules of others, play by your own rule it's a free country masturbate as much as u want
