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29 06,2024
Currently having a bit of a mental breakdown/argument because I'm 100% sure this doesn't count as sa but my friends are telling it it totally is. Anyways to sun it up used to play what my caretakers son(22 at the time) would call truth or dare dirty edition (if it matters I was like 5-8 he moved when I was 8 so it stopped around then) essentially we each give truth or dare questions most of the time it he asked like have you kissed a boy do you like anyone shit like that so like innocent questions but the problem my friends seem to find is that when I chose dare he would have me so handstands( I usually wore dresses cuz my parents wanted me to be feminine or wtv) and he would ask to see my thighs or touch them a bit (never tooky clothes off) now I think it wasn't anything serious but I'm being told it was grooming n SA since I couldn't consent or wtv
but like what is there to consent to? Its not like he put it in yk? That's not sexual assault it was a game n sometimes he got a lil touchy that's all. We were all talking abt childhood games n now I kinda feel like I ruined the atmosphere by bringing it up too so I'm just wondering what others thoughts are.
but like what is there to consent to? Its not like he put it in yk? That's not sexual assault it was a game n sometimes he got a lil touchy that's all. We were all talking abt childhood games n now I kinda feel like I ruined the atmosphere by bringing it up too so I'm just wondering what others thoughts are.
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29 06,2024
what is smth that manhwa/manga readers (not just on here but on any platform) do in the comment section that annoys you?
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29 06,2024
Please please, recommend something with system + idol good shits
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29 06,2024
Hello! Please recommend stories ( the plots rn just so common Im in desperate need of smth new ♀♀♀♀)
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29 06,2024
Can anyone drop good underrated stuff even if it's not that underrated if it's good I'll read it the better the artstyle the better but if the stories really good and the artstyles simple I'll take it
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29 06,2024
A friend asked me if I were given a super power what would it be? I said maybe stopping time or something related to manipulating time and she was like eww and i explained that i really want to fall from a building and stop time just at the right moment so to feel what it really feels like falling Or to just fall asleep for a long time. She then asked me to visit a therapist ( ̄∇ ̄")
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29 06,2024
Hi a few weeks ago I had an idea for a Yaoi bl cute lil traumatizing story that I really wanna put out, I have written other short story type things in the past but I’ve never really created a whole work with art and everything, does anyone have any idea where to start. I’ve already created a basic plot and character profiles I’m just not sure how to do the whole writing a story while also drawing it like how to make them both work together.
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29 06,2024
I hate ppl who ships these certain characters in anime who most deff has no chemistry and yet call it a Canon ship? like I get yall opinions but it's kinda stupid calling it a Canon when that character alrdy has a Canon one confirmed by the author? Like r they just being delusional? also especially when they pull the homophobic word on me, saying that I'm against boyxboy when they keep on pushing them ships (sorry my English is not that good.)
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29 06,2024
my friend said that umm she keeps fantasizing marrying her girl best friend ,kissing her and when her best friend posted them together on her my day because they went to the beach together with her family she became happy because she can imagine the jealousy of her best friend ex..
That's like normal between best friends right? Haha
That's like normal between best friends right? Haha
For me it's "But maybe when you tell your friends you can tell them what you saw in me and not the way I am"
Feel free to rant, let this be a space for you.
Feel free to rant, let this be a space for you.
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28 06,2024
What manhwa/ga/hua artstyles that you can just stare at forever before you actually read it
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28 06,2024
Does anyone know the name of this BL, smutty and a webtoon (I'm pretty sure it's a webtoon).
I just remember the side story uke character was the main dude's friend who found out he was gay and was pretty chill about it. So side character uke has glasses and later falls for the main dude's boyfriend's hot scruffy beefy, and openly gay brother (I think he had tattoos?). Also, big scruffy side character seme was really clear from the get go that glasses dude better not have problems with people being gay.
I honestly can't remember the main characters and their story, I think it involved going to school and that's how the main uke met the side character with the glasses.
I never got to finishing the side story and want to, but I can't remember the name and can't find it!
I just remember the side story uke character was the main dude's friend who found out he was gay and was pretty chill about it. So side character uke has glasses and later falls for the main dude's boyfriend's hot scruffy beefy, and openly gay brother (I think he had tattoos?). Also, big scruffy side character seme was really clear from the get go that glasses dude better not have problems with people being gay.
I honestly can't remember the main characters and their story, I think it involved going to school and that's how the main uke met the side character with the glasses.
I never got to finishing the side story and want to, but I can't remember the name and can't find it!
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28 06,2024
Genuine question ik this stupid to ask on here but literally how do ppl find love on dating apps like I deadass just went through 9 of them and like they were all trashy lesbian dating apps like most ppl just want hookups and half of the girls on there don’t even respond back and like are sugar mamas like I’d have a better chance finding a gf on here LIKE how do even find lesbians who actually wanna be in a relationship??!! (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸
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28 06,2024
i kind of grew bored with every fandom i'm in right now, so does anyone have recs for good original works? i'm down for anything(ofc the longer the better)
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Im not very fond of dogs, and when I express this some people act like ive throw their newborn into a lake while making direct eye contact.
I used to like dogs, I owned two dogs (-1 cause she died) I still have one and he is the most annoying little shit. I love him, but I would never get another dog after he passes. He stinks, no matter how much you wash him. He howls and howls to be let inside whenever I get home if i don't let him in right that second. He wont go outside at night unless you bribe him, he lets out these ROTTEN. AND I MEAN ROTTEN. farts which you need to evacuate for. He doesnt understand that I dont like getting licked, especially in the face.
I used to like dogs, I owned two dogs (-1 cause she died) I still have one and he is the most annoying little shit. I love him, but I would never get another dog after he passes. He stinks, no matter how much you wash him. He howls and howls to be let inside whenever I get home if i don't let him in right that second. He wont go outside at night unless you bribe him, he lets out these ROTTEN. AND I MEAN ROTTEN. farts which you need to evacuate for. He doesnt understand that I dont like getting licked, especially in the face.
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28 06,2024
Don't ya guys think sex scenes romance whether bl, gl, or straight, is good? But which sex scene better though, that fits in romance, Like a sex scene smtimes it kinda looks like porn all the time? Or sex scenes that looks super romantic, like it doesn't appear 3/4 of the story, just a bit subtle, and when it's shown, it looks beautiful? Like it really looks like they love each other, they embrace each other with love? Like, it kinda wanna makes u think u want a relationship like that..
For me, it's the latter, how abt you?
Please don't hate me for asking I'm just bored
For me, it's the latter, how abt you?
Please don't hate me for asking I'm just bored
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28 06,2024
This is gonna be so long. So, i have a group assignment where we had to do community satisfaction index survey in an government office. My group has 6 members, including myself. So at first, our lecturer told us to have a leader in the group. I obviously didnt want to because i'm aware that i dont have the capability to be a leader. In the end, its undecided that theres a leader in my group.
Second, we then need to present 3 choices of what public service office we want to do the survey at so the University could sent a permission letter to the office (basically asking them for permission to do the survey) No one offered their idea except me. They said, "i dont know what kinda public service office i had in my area" or "my place kinda far, idk if yall want to pick the place if its far" and they goes silent. I then offer 2 office, 1 where i worked at, and another is purely my suggestion. The 3rd added by another member. Even after we had 3 choices, i asked them if they want to change it. No one talked and urged me to give it to the lecturer.
After the letter was sent and we got the permission (note that it was ME who did the whole coordination with the Office side including sending the letter and talking to them and communicate. All of them? Just standing behind me. And yes, i did give them chances to talk), we started to do the survey at the office. NO ONE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING. No one bring the questionnaire, no one bring pens. They literaly came with empty hands. Fortunately, i copied the questionnaires and bring 2 pens. I was upset at this point.
And for the whole gathering the sample, we had an aggreement to fake the questionnaire at least 10 questionnaire for each of us (because the deadline is not even 1 month when the data that we gathered was for 3 months. How the heck we gather 3 months sample in less than 1 month? So we did that) and yknow what? NO ONE did that and when its near the deadline, they did.
Atp, i am so upset cuz i also helped for inputting(?) the sample with another member (it was easy, just time consuming) And yknow what? NO ONE even had the initiate to search and find what kind of excel format we input data in. I was practically begging to another group member to sent their file cuz i literally had no idea what we should do with the data. And yes, i did ask them (my member) to find the excel so we can started to input the sample data.
And then one member did the report (thank God). But then again, i dont know that the data need to be processed (like i said i had no idea). She (the one who did the report) told me to process it so that it has result. I aggree to do it.
After that, she sent me the report. She wrote that i'm the leader, and i refused ofc bcuz i dont want the responsibility. She said, "correct it yourself". And then another group member told me that our report need to be corrected (theres some misplaced stuff and adding the questionnaire format). So ofc being in charge to do the report, i asked her NICELY, "hey (name), can u change this part and add the questionnaire?"
I guess she misunderstood my question bcuz it was in chat and i was busy at that moment. She replied that with hundreds of questionnare, she cant do it. And she said that, "and pls read the whole report, the content is the same even if its misplaced. If its misplaced, is it wrong?"
I WAS SO MAD. Like i understand that she misunderstood at the questionnare part and i correct it, but is there a need to replied so aggressively??? BRO I DIDNT FORCE HER TO CHANGE IT!! I asked her "can you—" but she was so defensive abt it.
It was my last straw, really. I really want to be mad at her but i decided its not worth it, so i just said "if you dont want to change it then thats okay" No one cheered up for the completed assignment or sent chats in the groupchat after that.
I wouldnt be this upset if they initiate things and do their job, really. I also dont know how things work. This is really the first time i did survey, but how the heck they are that dumb? And to fuel my already upset self, they even had the audacity to said "if only we didnt choose this place and choose (my workplace)" bcuz we had some difficulties. It really hurt me fr.
But what irritates me the most is when i ask them to input the data or do the report, their reasons are "i dont understand how to do it" "i dont have a laptop" or just flat out "im busy".
Its my first time to do this assignment and i also dont understand stuff but i LEARNED IT. I also busy bcuz i worked, but I MAKE TIME TO DO THE ASSIGNMENT....
Welp, do yall think im an asshole for getting mad to my group member?
Second, we then need to present 3 choices of what public service office we want to do the survey at so the University could sent a permission letter to the office (basically asking them for permission to do the survey) No one offered their idea except me. They said, "i dont know what kinda public service office i had in my area" or "my place kinda far, idk if yall want to pick the place if its far" and they goes silent. I then offer 2 office, 1 where i worked at, and another is purely my suggestion. The 3rd added by another member. Even after we had 3 choices, i asked them if they want to change it. No one talked and urged me to give it to the lecturer.
After the letter was sent and we got the permission (note that it was ME who did the whole coordination with the Office side including sending the letter and talking to them and communicate. All of them? Just standing behind me. And yes, i did give them chances to talk), we started to do the survey at the office. NO ONE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING. No one bring the questionnaire, no one bring pens. They literaly came with empty hands. Fortunately, i copied the questionnaires and bring 2 pens. I was upset at this point.
And for the whole gathering the sample, we had an aggreement to fake the questionnaire at least 10 questionnaire for each of us (because the deadline is not even 1 month when the data that we gathered was for 3 months. How the heck we gather 3 months sample in less than 1 month? So we did that) and yknow what? NO ONE did that and when its near the deadline, they did.
Atp, i am so upset cuz i also helped for inputting(?) the sample with another member (it was easy, just time consuming) And yknow what? NO ONE even had the initiate to search and find what kind of excel format we input data in. I was practically begging to another group member to sent their file cuz i literally had no idea what we should do with the data. And yes, i did ask them (my member) to find the excel so we can started to input the sample data.
And then one member did the report (thank God). But then again, i dont know that the data need to be processed (like i said i had no idea). She (the one who did the report) told me to process it so that it has result. I aggree to do it.
After that, she sent me the report. She wrote that i'm the leader, and i refused ofc bcuz i dont want the responsibility. She said, "correct it yourself". And then another group member told me that our report need to be corrected (theres some misplaced stuff and adding the questionnaire format). So ofc being in charge to do the report, i asked her NICELY, "hey (name), can u change this part and add the questionnaire?"
I guess she misunderstood my question bcuz it was in chat and i was busy at that moment. She replied that with hundreds of questionnare, she cant do it. And she said that, "and pls read the whole report, the content is the same even if its misplaced. If its misplaced, is it wrong?"
I WAS SO MAD. Like i understand that she misunderstood at the questionnare part and i correct it, but is there a need to replied so aggressively??? BRO I DIDNT FORCE HER TO CHANGE IT!! I asked her "can you—" but she was so defensive abt it.
It was my last straw, really. I really want to be mad at her but i decided its not worth it, so i just said "if you dont want to change it then thats okay" No one cheered up for the completed assignment or sent chats in the groupchat after that.
I wouldnt be this upset if they initiate things and do their job, really. I also dont know how things work. This is really the first time i did survey, but how the heck they are that dumb? And to fuel my already upset self, they even had the audacity to said "if only we didnt choose this place and choose (my workplace)" bcuz we had some difficulties. It really hurt me fr.
But what irritates me the most is when i ask them to input the data or do the report, their reasons are "i dont understand how to do it" "i dont have a laptop" or just flat out "im busy".
Its my first time to do this assignment and i also dont understand stuff but i LEARNED IT. I also busy bcuz i worked, but I MAKE TIME TO DO THE ASSIGNMENT....
Welp, do yall think im an asshole for getting mad to my group member?
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28 06,2024
So, Uhm, how do y’all feel after the debate between Joe Biden and Donald Trump?
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Character you hate so much that you want to isekaied to their world just to beat that bitch up
I js completed last chapter of "How to get my husband on my side" and I already know who to kill like idgaf if I die in process I'LL TAKE HIM W ME IM SO PISSED
I js completed last chapter of "How to get my husband on my side" and I already know who to kill like idgaf if I die in process I'LL TAKE HIM W ME IM SO PISSED
