I was 15, with a guy in my neighborhood that I had a crush on, but he wasn't interested in any kind of relationship - so I felt used after. I also didn't have any adult role models I looked up to, so I think I was being careless and acting out a bit. I wish I had waited longer. I think young people are so influenced by media into thinking that se...... reply
Be careful when you want to have sex and don't rush. If you feel like it masturbate. I masturbate a lot lol - buy dildo or soemething like that. It's fun. reply
I lost mine at 14. It wasn't fun at all it was actually very weird and awkward and very painful. The pain actually pertained to the fact that my partner had no idea what he was doing as well. There was jazz music in the background and SpongeBob was on TV and it was just two awkward ninth graders going at it. My friends in my circle lost theirs fro...... 1 reply
My first time reading yaoi I immediately liked it. I was 13 at the time (4 years ago). Before I started reading it I was a fan of the series 'Supernatural'. I first found out about the shippings for the characters, which were all gay by the way, then I was introduced to anime then manga and I found my way to yaoi. I can't seem to read shoujo and s...... 1 reply
I'm an uber seme but I'm female, so frustrating. Finding a straight male uke seems impossible in my corner of the world. It seems I've been this way from birth, I am girly and will wear pretty dresses and heels and makeup but I just have a really dominant personality. It's even worse when sex is involved, I just have no pleasure in being pushed d...... 11 reply
It's really comforting seeing all of these other virgins in the answers. I've always felt like the fact that I'm 18 and still a virgin was something unusual or shameful but honestly, what's the rush? If you can't trust someone to make your first experience comfortable then you shouldn't feel pressured to do it. It's not fun if it's not comfortable....... 3 reply
I'm 26 and still virgin. It seems that I can't trust anyone enough to let him do it. Even when when we start doing something, I panic and it doesn't turn me on. So I have some kind of bad experience, even if we never did it all way. Losing my virginity seems rather impossible for me :/ 3 reply
I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin. It's not even that I want it, it's just that I consider myself unlucky in love because I have never met a real person who I like and to whom I want to please, while full of my friends chose a full of boyfriends without even looking for them ! It's too unfair sometimes, and it makes me scared and sad ;( I am pleased to...... 1 reply
When I started reading manga about two years ago (I was 15), I preferred romance and sometimes I saw yaoi, but always avoided it thinking "I'm not really into that. I wouldn't like it." Then I somehow ran out of good things to read (I am quite picky) and I tried my first yaoi, convinced that I can imagine the uke as a girl. I was wrong, I couldn't....... reply
It seems a lot of people here are still virgin and I am too. And I do not ever consider losing it. It's because I don't feel attracted to people, not girls, not boys. I am actually a lot disgusted by human bodies and the thought of touching anyone in any way (not only sexual) is very unpleasant.
But some people from my class (15-16, though I am 17...... reply
26 as well still virgin. still waiting for the right person it's as simple as that.. For being virgin I don't think I'm lacking somthing it's just an experience I'll reserve it for the person with whom I'll spend the rest of my life reply
I was 16 at the time with a friend. He was nice and really took his time to prepare me although he was as inexperienced as me i can say that he really made sure I was comfortable with everything. A little sloppy though (both virgins) but it was an amazing experience. We're still friends till now ^^ reply
almost 30 still virgin i liv in europe but i come from a relegious background so no sex before marriage... and so i hav a question 'old' virgins like me do y feel embarassed talking about it like i am so embarassed people with me 10 years younger and experienced and me still virgin when my friends my age talk about their sexual experiences i feel s...... 5 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
did dislike age gaps
