I see there is no communication or boundaries given.. even if it’s not technically SA but i kinda get what you mean, you feel kinda “robbed”, however, they should told you from the start if they are trans, they can’t just assume that everyone would know, like it or accept it whatever reasons if it’s due religion or preferences but at the ...... reply
I'm sorry about what happened, I know it can be difficult to be in a relationship with someone and they don't tell you something like this , but this is not SA , this person was wrong, did a mistake , but this is not SA , wherever happened you need to talk about it with this person, to understand more details , Sometimes things that seem very impor...... reply
Nnaaah girl, we all have our sexual fantasies , just jack off to it if u want and stop guilt tripping urself
It's rather normal , having a period puts you in different stages of hormones & energy & lust & functionality, it affects just about everything and it's different for people , can vary from month to month
It might help if you keep track ...... reply
kind of sick of people on this website just say "nuh uh" and being rude about this shit and it's not even hard to explain.
the way how sexual assault and sexual assault by fraud is evaluated is usually by whether or not the "lie" directly harms the person, i.e. hiding you have an std. because being trans, afaik, does not bring any direct harm to ...... 2 reply
yeah let’s joke about SA??? fucking weirdo, and no it’s not SA. if your partner was trans and they didn’t tell you, that’s a sign of fear or trauma from what might’ve happened to them, you could communicated with them instead of throwing up screaming crying and throwing a tantrum, and honestly i don’t get why them being trans matters th...... 1 reply
"I'm throwing up screaming" 'Tis transphobia I smell with mine own nose? Okay, this isn't entirely an inherently transphobic sentiment but I digress
But, while it very much is a betrayal of trust, it is not sexual assault. Let's NOT toss around serious terminology, thank you. reply
whatever makes u happy. i eat my fav dessert (doesn't have to be cake), my fav food, listen to my fav music, and watch my fav movie while munching on my fav snacks. if u have a fav place to go then go there too. but just anything that will make u smile since it's ur bday and u deserve to smile :) happy birthday!
for my 18th specifically i got drun...... 1 reply
No you're not stupid, and your feelings are very very valid. How insensitive can your mother be to cancel your own party to go to another's??? And ask you to come on top of that? I'd understand if it was an important and urgent engagement that she can't miss on. Like it'd suck but it'd be a valid reason yk. But this is crazy omg she can't be seriou...... 1 reply
How the fk is that considered sa? i mean i understand they should have told you beforehand but why you throwing up? Just admit you're transphobic reply
No your not overreacting, I would genuinely be upset and super pissed like how do you expect me to stay chill during someone else's birthday when it's my birthday as well? And you didn't even get me a gift?! tbh you should sneak out with your friends and throw a mini party in a park or in one of their houses (≧∀≦) reply
You are definitely not overreacting because this is just plain unfair. No matter how old you are, birthdays are special because they celebrate you. Just because someone is having one of those special birthdays doesn't make you any less important, in fact to your mother YOU should be the more important one compared to someone else. As a MOTHER, YOU ...... 1 reply
I recommend reading the book Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies ny Dr. Michael J Bader for a psychoanalytic approach to explaining your issue.
Bader argues that from a psychological perpsective, sexual fantasies are not mysterious and happenstance but are an attempt of the mind, using imagination, to solve some sort of problem. For me,...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
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