It was kind of like a sudden revelation, like a puzzlement solved or something clicking and making sense. I wouldn't say I was distressed in the same way though. I had this indifference to my gender since way back (and i still do; they call it Apagender / Agender). It never became a major conflict partly because I didn't feel it growing up or it wa...... reply
i knew i was bi when little 9yo me started making my barbies scissor, and yet i still struggle with internalized homophobia towards myself because I fear how people will react. I hope I can overcome this shame one day and I hope you can realize your truth girl reply
Im 19, turning 20 this year. Gay man, somewhere in the asexual spectrum, but not too invested to find out/put a label on it.
I grew up in a family with religious values, but not strictly religious per se. Like we would go to church every now and then and we dont usually pray before eating type of religiosity.
Being gay or being some form of quee...... reply
honestly i think i am straight but that can always change in the future. I did think i was bi for a while but i think that was just admiration and not rlly love. reply
i think i sent it wrong and to somebody else by accident so i’ll try to resend
dw sis i can try! i’ll ask a few questions so i can have a general idea during my search
-what did they look like? (if you can’t really remember, simple things like hairstyle and colors are good enough)
-were they high schoolers or adults?
-did it have a lot of ...... 1 reply
i know im pan (romantically) because i have a boyfriend (for more than 3 years now) and i realised that i would love him the same no matter his gender, and i just dont care about gender to begin with. i see people as person, not gender and genitals it just doesnt matter at all to me reply
im in the same situation lol been reading behind my religious parents back ever since however long i can remember. but you wanna know something? there's probably a ton of people around you who do it secretly too (˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶) ‹ 2 reply
god is letting pedophiles roam free. im sure god wont give a shi if u kiss another girl. thats what i told myself and now ive accepted that im bi-myself. reply
my religious parents did a REALLY bad job at raising me to like girls because my first ever crush was rock lee from naruto, I just always thought being gay is like. ok. normal if I dare say? but apparently it was not my dad almost killed me when I told him I wanted to date this guy at the school. I had a small existential crisis after that but I th...... 1 reply
I mean yeah, I think of bl as just another romance sub genre, one of my childhood friends, we actually became friends bc of our mutual past obsession (WE WERE LIKE 12 OKAY)
But now it's more like, I read it bc I just love romance, and just bc a story has smut, it doesn't mean it's porn, one of closets male friends actually really likes all the reco...... reply
I used to have a close friend who would consume ANYTHING, but had a strong leaning towards BL. he wasn't straight though so I guess duh? one time he tried to share a fanfic with me (dude was rlly into fanfics, plus he lived with parents who wouldn't ever knock so it was a safer choice ig), and I was really scandalized because at first it was very r...... reply
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