Relationships sorta live and die by communication and boundaries. The reason why being around or with an ex is a bit messy is that you become comfortable with the intimacy and closeness they provide but lack the security or commitment straight up dating brings. Being in a situationship with an ex is just asking for pain, so either you figure out ho...... reply
Someone else already said this, but this is really confusing, like???
If the whole point was that you were already in a relationship but broke up just because of distance, and there wasn't any other reason besides that, yet your feelings for each other didn't change and neither of you is seeing other people, then...???
Also, I need to ask because y...... 1 reply
Umm but u only break up due to the long distance thing ?? And did u guys have lost all feelings?? No. So what is the problem? U just need to make it clear whether ur break up was temporarily or not Just define currently if ur in a relationship or not.If u do not want to be in a relationship then set boundaries as simple as that reply
im gonna be honest, i dont really understand the problem? like specifically with you two being "exes". because the main reason why people dislike or stop contacting their exes is because the relationship didnt go well, as in it was toxic or either person wasnt in love with the other, so there is reason to stay separate from this person because of t...... reply
Because wdym they opened a digital literacy center and are getting protected by the government despite the fact that they've been disrespecting the locals and causing troubles on Siargao
I thought everytime smth bad happened to me was because of that, lol. I thought that was god’s punishment. I’m glad i became free from cognitive errors like “magical thinking” and “believing in fair world”.
Since 13 I became an atheist and everything became much easier. I realised all the bad stuff was because people, including my musl...... 1 reply
Literally same. I also felt soooooo bad for ,um, "taking care of business" and I always felt soooo guilty and horrible afterwards. I wouldn't even like touch i would just grind my hips together. I come from a semi religious family, like we aren't hyper religious but yeah, still. But as time went on and i started studying about the human body more,...... 1 reply
not that extreme but yes I have a religious background that made me feel bad for sexual feelings, repression sorta does that especially when you don't have that "talk" to help explain changes and why your body makes you feel these new and weird feelings
very sad that this is a common experience 1 reply
The only time I felt guilty for gooning was when I had to go for mandatory confession 2 years ago lol. Did I tell the priest? 100%. Hey no point in lying when God already knows right^^ 1 reply
Hey yall i just watched the movie/The Last Act for the amazing digital circus and I need someone to talk to about it
Im not going to discuss here cause I dont want to spoil it for anyone but if anyone else has already seen it PLEASE DM me there is no one irl who watches it and im not posting on social media until it releases for free cause I refuse to do that to ppl but im suffering rn please someone else let me vent
No, gooning does not make me feel guilty. It is a natural part of the hormones and chemicals that god brewed us with. If he didn't want us to do it, he wouldn't have made us this way.
Anyway, I think god has better things to do than worry whether someone has been gooning, unless it is some crazy ass shit like child p. or real-life bestiality. 2 reply
so me and my ex, we’ll name him vic. me and vic used to be together, and we were together for about 3 months, and i have to admit, he is literally my first love. That man has made me feel things that i’ve never felt with any other guy and ever since him, i have never been able to talk to a guy properly without trying to find him in other guys. we broke up because i had moved away to another state. when it was the peak of our break up we didn’t keep contact, but then he broke contact to “check up” on me and ever since we been in contact with each other. sometimes we sleep on call and baby each other, and just still talk to each other in general because we both still love each other very much and we’ve talked about trying again with each other in the future. recently i’ve been back home, and i saw him a few days ago. it was very awkward at first but then we started getting more comfy with each other, he started getting touchy and then we started cuddling. while we were cuddling our faces ended up really close to each other and he was looking at my lips and then he pulled me in for a kiss, then we started making out. the makeout got intense and then his hands ended up in my pants. i’m gonna be very honest i had no intentions doing the things we did because obviously we’re exs and like i thought he would have a boundary and shit but no we ended up getting freaky and shit after he took me home, i thought he would text me bc like we just fucking did allat shit but no he didn’t. he didn’t send one text to me and was dead fucking silent, i’m just like okay, so i texted him, the convo was flowing but then he stopped replying , and the next day he started saying sorry to me for treating me like that and just being very apologetic. i honestly don’t know what going on in his head, and i want to sort out what we are but i don’t wanna lose him and start something with him. what should i do? what do y’all think i should do? helppppp
helium poisoning is literally suicide method, but tbh that seems a better way out than dying from pressure related causes by going so deep in the sea reply
I tried therapy once, and I didn’t like the experience. After I opened up about my problems and everything, it made me realize how pointless it felt to me because it seemed to revolve around money. It got to the point where the therapist said, Hmm, time is up. We can talk more in your next session and that just didn’t sit right with me. I also ...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
