who tf asks someone in a professional setting wether they watch porn? also advise don’t pursue a friendship with him
don’t send more photos or personal info
if he contacts you keep replies short or ignore trust your gut that uneasy feeling matters cause that's already a sign that you are BOTHERED AND FYI a safe person wouldn’t make you uncomf...... 3 reply
Idk about yall but i got an ick when a 20-30 year old women came up to me to show me bl videos and went crazy saying shes visiting the country because of the gay show and she loves the country (like dont just go there to fetishized at least be educated about the culture/country) She even assume I watch yaoi all day just bc im asian. Turn the reward...... reply
i am a 18 years old girl. Some time ago, i was very curious about a baking course i saw online and decided to check it out and signed up with my number. About a week ago, i got the call from the councellor and we kinda hit it off? After chatting about the course a little, our conversation drifted to talking about ourselves and other stuff. He then called me from his personel number and we talked for like 7 hours. It was some of the most fun i've had talking with somebody in a purely platonic way. As you can guess from the website we are on, i am not shy about my interests and hobbies, so i kinda started talking about manga, boy's love and stuff 'cause i really don't wanna befriend a bigot, and he was surprisingly chill about it. But after that i kinda regretted talking about it cause it is pretty taboo topic where i live. At one point he kinda straight up asked me if i watch p*rn? and i felt a bit scared you know. I hadn't drifted the convo in that territory really, i was strictly "PG" you can say. We ended our call a while after but all in all, it was genuinely pretty nice but now i am conflicted; should i be freinds with him or no? what do you guys think i should do?
P.S: He is 25 years old and yes i obvi told him my age. He asked for my pohoto and i sent him a group photo. He hasn't contacted me since.
nah bro ive always jus been like if i like it ima read it, if im intrested ima read it, if im shocked ima read it, if im disturbed ima read it moral is i will read anything reply
god forbid i like to read yaoi with cute twink bottom and some rando new gen fujoshi calls me misogynist for liking heteronormative stuffs. if you think being cute and petite is a woman's trait thats on you. 2 reply
wow so did everyone really go through this??????? i was a big controversial fujoshi when i was 9 until like 12/13, and then i started being like really being such an some kind of elitist????? like mind you i WAS into some diabolical yaoi shit, but when it came to social media i was telling ppl to kill their selves when i was literally liking the SA...... 3 reply
This legit happened to me. My user id is proof of that... I used to avoid taboo or just dark themes in general. After being an adult ofcourse it changes a lot of perspectives and you understand it is just fictional, nothing to do with real-life if you don't condone it. Though I never harmed, cyberbullied or hated anyone in those half puritan years...... reply
Hey guys OP here. I spoke to him and i feel a lot calmer now and ready to talk. I’m Indian and culturally its basically impossible to move out at my age. Thanks for those who said i need to gets my needs met first. I will be working on getting a job that gets me out of the state and out of obligation my mom will not have any control over this (th...... 3 reply
I remember I saw a pinterest post that said "bl" is fetishizing so everyone should switch to mlm and wlw so I said why bl is literally boys love what's so "fetishizing" about it and that was the moment I was called the most slurs and the most people asked me to kms (in the most creative ways) that I honestly felt like I was being taken to jail with...... 1 reply
LMAOOOOO reminds me of my teenage years help, I was so strict with what fiction I consume that I be telling my friends that I dislike their ships because it's toxic and I wouldn't even talk to them (it's not even a toxic trope, the guy is just a playboy trope)
Policing them until one got tired and revealed she actually does like those stuff and tol...... 1 reply
the great fujoshi silencing was crazy oh my gawd .... in 2021 if you said the word yaoi instead of bl you have to apologize to your ancestors and commit seppuku for ur sins 2 reply
reading yaoi for a year: wow reading yaoi is so fun!! the seme and uke are so cute together!!!
reading yaoi for 2+ years: the word yaoi is FETISHIZING you should KILL YOURSELF if you read (problematic yaoislop). stop GLORIFYING , ROMANTICIZING, FETISHIZING (spins the roulette wheel) HETERONORMATIVE dynamics. ONLY ever ever read FLUFFY, NON PROBLEMATIC BL. if you still use seme and uke YOU ARE A GAY FETISHIST .
reading yaoi for 7+ years: wow reading yaoi is so fun!!! the seme and uke are so cute together!!!
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