So this will probably be long so please bear with me. Actually, I think I'm living behind a mask and I no longer recognize myself. I mean ever since I can remember Ive always acted towards people the way I know that will please them. Its been so long that I think Im forgetting what I really am. Some of my friends even describe me as someone like this and that but I dont remember being what they describe me as. Its like they are talking about a whole different person. I know I should stop putting a mask and just be myself but at this point I kinda dont know who is "myself". That its actually taking a toll on my mental health .
Im like you as well, I have a low libido and I have a partner. Although sex is not a major factor it is still a part, its like a different kind of intimate moment that you and your partner shares. Well as for me, my partner really didnt mind much if we dont have sex in a week or such as long as we cuddle and give kisses. reply
If you hate yaoi with rape plot/scene why read it anyway??
Im triggered to those people who read these stories then rant in the comment section even bash the manga itself because of rape scenarios. Then why read it in the first place?
Some asks why do others tolerate it?? and say that we need to be checked up cuz there is something wrong in our b...... 3 reply
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Tell him he doesn't have to like the same things you do, and if it makes him uncomfortable you won't talk about it with him anymore, but that he can't call himself your friend and then say he'll cut your relationship for watching a genre he doesn't like.
If he still insists on it, I can only see it as him being extremely homophobic, or having never...... reply
When i was a kid, i like this hair tie and i tied it around my wrist because i thought it was pretty. It was quite tight. Then i sleep with it without knowing that it could get in the way of your blood circulation. When i woke up in the morning, my hand were all blue and bloated, and i cant feel anything on that hand. Thank god it went back to norm...... reply
It's understandable if you're like twelve or sumn 'cause kids around that age don't really know any better. But if you're a grown ass adult doing this shit idek what to say.
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i used to do it "a lot" in junior high and high school. but honestly.. it was only one ship in junior high and another two in high school. there were also some of my friends who also shipped them so like... it just stuck with us. it's weird. we just randomly think someone's friendship is cute and said "omg i ship" and we just went along. the people...... reply
i don't know if u got it resolved already cuz its been a while but if not I'm worried if he might start some type of rumor so just tell him that it was a prank and if he's like " ooh ok" or sum shi you can quietly drop him by distancing yourself yk ? he should be able to respect what you like bc its common human decency （￣へ￣） reply
Bro be straightforward and be like are you kidding or not because if you asked is that a joke then you could have passed it as a friendly way of saying what the heck are you saying while also clarifying your relationship status 1 reply
I never answer questions but I felt the sheer frustration in this as I was reading and imma go ahead and give my 2 cents. I'm also gonna jump the gun and assume your crush is a boy, bc they are the only mfs ik who pull this kinda shit.
*psa* I'm blunt as fuck, but I mean no ill will. sorry if I sound like an ass
first things first, y'all are NOT...... 1 reply
I don't know other alternatives. But the best way for a good healthy relationship is always two-ways communication & understanding. In this case, ask him directly, BUT take your time first to be prepared for upcoming answers. After you asked him, then be honest. Tell him properly about your thoughts of the whole situation. This way, he'll know what...... 1 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
