People with high emotional intelligence. Someone who knows themselves well and strives to be a better person. They are independent, but wouldn't mind listening to someone who needs a shoulder. I'm particularly fond of people who are mysterious as well. They don't open up very easily since they prefer to handle stuff their own way but when they do, ...... 1 reply
Right now I'm having an anorexic episode but I'm more bulimic. Usually I purge (in the form of starving because I can't vomit on command) and then I get hungry and crave food and eat a ton for 3 days and then purge again.
Right now I haven't eaten properly/enough for like 3 weeks and I'm actually okay with how I look right now so I don't like it w...... 1 reply
Hi,I'd love to have some fujoshi friends so we can talk about yaoi stuffs and recommend each other some (yaoi,shoujo...)manga. There is my insta@lo_lissakhi So let's be friends(◍•ᴗ•◍)
I'm 1m 67 i'm 55kg and i'm really skinny, i have a friend (same eight) that is 65 and she's smil too, so in the end it all depends on your anatomy, is it 65 kg of fat? muscles? bones?? (yes some people have heavier bones XD)
Some people have "fast" metabolism and some other have "normal" or "slow" ones, i'm one of the "fast" and i never gain weigh...... 1 reply
Bright and honest personalities are super cute to me. Humor is nice but no fun when they are pessimistic and grumpy all the time. Also, Dark curly hair is a huge + 1 reply
I'm a gay dude and like? as long as you don't fetishize the problematic stuff and the people themselves then I honestly don't understand what's the problem with it. Like yeah a lot of the times bl written by cishet women is problematic but there are really good ones written by them too. Like without yall we wouldn't have "dark heaven" which is one ...... reply
My first Anime(s) was Fairy Tail/ Heavens Lost Property/and Nana
And My First Manga Was a Manhwa Which I don't remember the Name of But it was a Romance/Supernatural Genre reply
I wanna start of by saying I love the diversity on this thread!!!! I’m an 18 year old Black/Nigerian-American woman from Chicago and I started reading yaoi like 6 months ago. I decided to read yaoi after watching Junjou Romantica on Youtube and I been obsessed every since reply
i honestly think reading and liking yaoi is okay, as long as you don't impose your fantasies on actual people. ppl should rlly know how to separate their yaoi preferences from everything else. i get why ppl are saying it's fetishized, it's bc some ppl apply these fictional yaoi stereotypes to actual people, and it's insensitive and disrespectful es...... 1 reply
Yaoi’s target audience is straight women...and honestly, people that say “yaoi is fetishizing gay couples” are being dumb. Look at how popular lesbian porn is...look at how women are constantly being objectified and sexualized in porn, manga, and irl. Yaoi manga is fictional. Nobody was harmed in the process. If there’s women who read yaoi ...... 1 reply
Get a gym subscription. I don't know how things are at your country with mrs rona going bananas, but if you can go outside then you better get a gym subscription.
Staying at home, as you can see, doesn't help. Then you need to get out. I had the same problem and honestly going to the gym is great. Seeing all these people around you exercising will ...... reply
you’re fully allowed to read and enjoy BL, as a straight girl, but saying you don’t fetishize gay couples is straight up wrong. the whole concept of “yaoi” is fetishization. you may not like it because it sounds like a bad thing, and it really is a bad thing, but you’re still technically allowed to enjoy BL. reply
Loads of people have it without realizing, because the "face" of eating disorders is that severe skin and bones anorexia. But really the rule of thumb is that if you think about calories or your weight more than 3 times a day you should watch out. It's sad because we (especially girls) are raised to be obsessed with our weight.
thankfully i don't ...... 1 reply
I don't know if a have an eating disorder either...But i do know that i have a bad relationship with food! Some days i'm normal, and i try to eat mindfully, not too much, and not too little(which is very hard, but i think everybody goes through this as well so ???)
But sometimes i just obsess over every little calorie that i eat, and try to exercis...... 1 reply
ED’s will kill you man, and it’s something society pushes boys and girls to have. I haven’t had a normal relationship with food for about 7 years now, and now I’m back on my restriction bullshit with less than 500 calories a day and I’ve lost 30 lbs in two months.
It’s tough out there. Especially since the only real treatment for eati...... 2 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
