Eh it's not affecting his life in any way, so why should it matter? It's not like I'm reading it purely for the porn aspect. Plus the yaoi I read is intertwined with all the other non-bl I read, so I'm just an overall manga/manhua/webtoon reader that just so happens to like bxb. reply
I wouldn't hide nor would I give a shit what the guy would think. I also wouldn't give a shit if he watched porn. If he has a problem, the door is always there. No man is worth my BL reply
I think the reason for most of these (other than queer fetishizing) is that when you have a main character that's relatable, the scenario becomes a fantasy for the reader subconsciously, making it seem as if the reader is saying "I don't mind this getting done to me".
as for the seme rapist, there are a lot of irl cases where the victim don't spea...... 1 reply
For me, I have a thing with rape fantasies so I don’t mind if the seme or other mob characters are the one raping the uke. I never ever think of a real life victim’s story as ‘hot’. For fiction, it just hits me differently.
In short: I just had to have the rape kink aka I give free pass to any rape story as long as it’s fiction reply
I always tell my boyfriends :)
The fear of being judged as weird is normal, but I know almost all of them fantasize on two woman (and watch porn of it), so I just use this to explain my liking is the same as their. reply
I never thought of that because each time I convince myself thinking that people are facing worse situations as compared to mine and I should be happy about my situation and life. But accidentally one of my friends thought I was trying to kill myself and it became a big issue in my school while I was just holding a cardboard cutter and imitating a ...... reply
I hate rape in stories and real life. When I read stories, I do take the concept personally and so if the MC is raped, I would very much mind it. reply
Short answer. Yes, I do enjoy rape in fiction. No, I HATE rape in real life.
The thing is, I've read rape yaoi since I've started with yaoi. One of my firsts were Viewfinder, 'Kichiku, Encount', Fujimi Orcestra, Maiden rose and so on. All yaoi with rape, and I wasn't even searching for it. My first encounter with BL ever was a really hardcore Nar...... 1 reply
It‘s not that I tried it but my life is such a mess right now. I never felt this bad and even If I was sad in the past because of something I just forgot it. I am so exhausted and have lost all my motivation for life since a few months. I just lie in bed and cry every second. My problem is not even that bad and people will probably think that I a...... reply
Well anything is dangerous if it becomes an obsession. If most things you read(including books, comics and etc.) consists of yaoi, then taking a break may be a good idea.
You also sound fairly young, if you're too young you probably shouldn't view any sexualised media at all. Gay or straight doesn't matter much in this.
Another thing that caught...... reply
I guess it depends on your outlook on yaoi manga?! Like I really enjoy it too becuase the plots are super funny or ridiculous, or bc it’s hot. If you read to though to the point on chronic masturbation or where you fetishise gays then maybe I’d cut back on it. reply
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