Yes it's normal. We latch onto different things in yaoi than just the sex. We're latching onto the emotions, the story and relationship between two people. If you're watching two men have sex in real life it becomes a more physical, outsider act. So you're missing their relationship developing, the feelings they're feeling at the time, how they're ...... reply
Omg, seriously?
As long as your bowel movements are normal (aka, you're not severely constipated or have a GI disorder), the anus is clean. There is warning that occasionally you may get a very small amount fecal matter (on the condom you should be wearing), but that's not the standard. That's a rare occasion. On even rarer occasion, a person may ...... 4 reply
Well most of my friends know! I have explained a little bit about the genre to my mom, and my dad once saw a picture that I liked on Facebook which was really explicit, I had to block him! 1 reply
I have the 6 volume set of 10 Count in Japanese (as is the rest of my manga), and several BL drawing reference books, as well as some books about the evolution of BL. It's my interest and I do not apologize for it. This is one of the few up-sides of being an adult with my own home and really no one to answer to. reply
Yes. I have 10 Count on my manga shelf, and a section of boys' love drawing reference books. If my family can't handle it they can look the other way.
I will add that I am an adult with my own home so if my family disapproves they can keep it to themselves. reply
All my friends and family know I read yaoi and BL: this was revealed through me constantly fangirling about them. I am not sure if my ALL my friends know that what i read is explicit tho(I don't know how they wouldn't have gotten it at this point tho lol); however, without a doubt, my close friends and sister know and my parents know, (I think) but...... reply
yup, a lot of my girls read/are obsessed wt yaoi too so it be like 'girl I just read this hot ass yaoi, lets read it together' so we be in the gym when we all together reading that shit and being loud af. My mom also knows bc onetime she went through my phone and in one of my messages it said "my mom would take my phone and never give that shit bac...... reply
shiiii dawg ┗( T﹏T )┛ i have 1 friend that knows but thats only because i told her when i was on fucking drugs so like yeah under normal circumstances i would never tell anyone. plus i have sort of a reputation to uphold at my school and like i dont want any of them mfs knowing that i read/watch manga/anime, let alone GAY manga/anime 2 reply
Hi we have a nice group chat on LINE that is mostly devoted to talking about yaoi and shounen ai. We also just talk about random things. There are about 400 members but not everyone is active so I thought I'd invite people to join. Just respond to this message or send me a message on LINE, user ID is magicmau5
Nooooooooo my dad would have a stroke, (he's not homophobic or anything just all the porn...lol) my mom wouldn't care but still i just wouldn't let her know what i'm doing "oh hey mom! i'm just reading 2 guys fucking, don't mind me!"...yeah no. and actually yaoi/BL is like my special place And i wouldn't want anyone intruding on that so i don't let...... 4 reply
Yes. Yaoi manga is idealized, the men are beautiful, and the sex is amazing. Real men and real sex is quite crude in comparison.
I've probably spent too much time thinking about it, but for gay porn to come close to yaoi, the men would have to be damn near supermodels, have some feminine traits, and able to act quite convincingly, much more so t...... 1 reply
As a bisexual, I enjoy watching all kinds of porn (M+F, F+F, M+M) but I wasn't really able to enjoy porn until a while ago, since I used to read only hentai mangas (both yaoi/yuri and heterosexual). I've thought a lot about it, I just think that looking at drawings is a lot better if your mind doesn't like watching at "real people's faces" or so. L...... 1 reply
I'm also a teenage girl age 15 and I find all pornnexcept yaoi to be really boring like I literally skip most scenes cuz that shit just gets boring same for gay porn idk I'm interested in sex but porn just doesn't interest me ya know there's no plot it's just bodies moving up and down so yh not very appealing reply
There's two people that know - one friend and my little sister. My friend knows because I talk to her about anything and I've been reading all kinds of mangas for years now (and we know each other for more than 10 years now).
My sister knows as well because she reads webtoons and I eventually recommend some to her that I liked reading - even BL & G...... reply
No one knows and I think it's better like imagine telling my bestfriend I read and love BL she won't do anything but the atmosphere might be awkward UGH holding it for 3 years is hard I legit have no one to talk with about yaoi stuff reply
I don't care if people know that I read yaoi and you don't have to tell others you do. they shouldn't care, It's not like it hurts them in any way!!! 2 reply
I dont know why but some people around me also like yaoi and love to read them. If some people doesnt, they dont even care and just ‘oh’. I shared about yaoi with people who also love it, and some of my friend are gay too so yha they tolerate it so much lol.
Some people who dont know about it, they just getting disgusting at the first time whe...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
