Yaoi is heavily romanticized for a mainly female audience and shouldn't be compared to actual gay relationships (including the sexual aspects of gay relationships). Honestly imo, you're probably not old enough to consume sexually explicit content if you're trying to relate works of fiction to real life sexual content. reply
hm yeah? i mean yaoi is constructed different than gay porn, i feel people that likes yaoi are people that likes drama romance scenarios, emotional stuff but also with that smutty goodness. As for gay porn i feel it immediately gets right into sex. My fav kind of smutty manga is yaoi but my fav kind of porn is actually straight and japanese (they h...... reply
I think it also depends on the target demographic and who the creators are. Most directors in the porn industry are male so the gay porn may appeal more to gay men.
I've heard lesbians complain about lesbian porn cuz a lot are made by men so it feels objectifying and from the male gaze. Better to watch something created by lesbians for lesbians. reply
I've watched gay porn out of curiosity and idk if it's the algorithms but there are hardly any that haven't been so bizarre/had weird moments that I just burst out laughing. It doesn't really feel hot or anything.
https://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/hilariously-ridiculous-gay-porn-moments
Here are some examples. 2 reply
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I like both, but I'm very picky. Typical BL stories with uke-seme roles aren't really my cup of tea, but I also feel a strong aversion towards porn with very masc!!! men straight outta gym who fuck like some rabbits. Guess I like it being somewhere in between, like, just normal dudes. That's my type.
You're asking if it's normal that y...... reply
Yes. Maybe. It is for me. I don't like how bulky men in gay porn often tend to be. Also. Hairy ass legs are very common. I do not like hairy legs. Or hairy arms. Very off-putting. Even with yaoi I'm very picky lmao. Get out of here with that realistic stuff. I like my boys unbelievably attractive. I like my eyes to be blessed with men that are so h...... reply
omg samee!!lowkey no offense to people who enjoy watching gay porn,it's hot but it feels wrong and find it extremely weird to watch two realistic beings have sex.i'm just stating my opinionnn,dont come after me reply
I think it is completely normal. I prefer manga but I like the written version even better. Porn is kinda meh - it is hard to find one that has the fetishes you are into while also looking realistic (or at least not completely fake) and have actors that look good to you. Not to mention, they also need to have decent sound and video quality and good...... 1 reply
I'm quite bias here, because I'm gay, but what the hell, I'll answer this one too xD
I think it's actually normal (even though I don't like this word) and also nothing bad. Even me, when I was in phase of "discovering" myself didn't really like gay porn that much. Or some aspects of it to be precise. Why? Well, some gay sexual acts are hmmm... not...... 3 reply
Guys!! I made this account just to answer, cause I saw seeing a psychiatrist being recommended to OP hehe. You don't need to see anyone for this specific thing, because we all have different fetishes. As long as it doesn't negatively impact your life (like if it bothers you so much that you can't perform your daily deeds), then there's no need to d...... 1 reply
I enjoy reading yaoi but I've never managed to watch real porn 'cause it feels wrong in the sense of like "these are real people I'm going to watch" so it feels like I'm intruding and gives me the creeps lol
On the other hand yaoi manga, hentai & bl cds are fictional and I can only hear the voices in the latter two so it's less awkward ╮(￣▽�...... 1 reply
you let your shit sits in your anus? Clean them lol. Shit's stored in sigmond colon, I personally can't stand it when there's shit in my anus. You can dig my ass and I promise you wont find anything but pleasure. 3 reply
IRL though, it is kinda, somewhat, probably, maybe, possible... as long as the Bottom eats lots and lots and lots of Fiber foods, no spicy foods, drink lots of water, and maybe not eat a whole day. xD This is manga though so it's magic.
Seriously though, it is a little possible to be somewhat clean if you eat healthy, drinks lots of water, and l...... 1 reply
i can see why...
i am not like this, but i can see why
this is what i think the reason is :
there is a difference between irl porn and hentai. i know this is about yaoi and gay sex specifically but im an using this to explain myself, and yaoi is a genre in the hentai/more ecchi spectrum and where shounen ai is the relationship. (yaoi can have h...... reply
In my opinion, I think it's normal bc I'm a rlly big fujoshi and I can read yaoi for hours but I don't think I would be able to watch gay sex irl reply
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