I was friends with the weird kid. Introvert, self-proclaimed loner. He had niche interests, all of which he dragged me into. I ended up spending 5 years listening to his rambling, forcing myself to read his fanfictions, and putting up with his lack of proactivity. Whenever I set boundries, he would compromise them. Being the person I am, I always g...... reply
im guessing you never had other friends who treated you better that’s why youre full of doubt whether dropping the person who bullied you was the right decision. yall may have had a ‘love-hate’ friendship judging by the way she defended you from other people too. very toxic imo because there would be good days and bad days— now you’re co...... reply
nah the thing is that the negatives outweigh the positives in relationships
even if it's a friend it's real easy for them to perform for you when they're in your face if they're the type to gaslight/be manipulative, but it's what they do when you're not around that matters more
i've cut off so many people i thought were friends (and some family too...... reply
Even if u hadn't dropped the friendship, u guys weren't in a place where you could completely trust her. Even if u kept her around, it would have been at an awkward distance, with a fake "we r fine" smile. So just let go and move on. U can fight with friends, but someone keeping neutral stance with your bullies, is not a true friend. An acquaintanc...... reply
I've dropped so many people over the years especially some of my closest friends. Key take is that people rarely change, if ever, if there was something to throw you off in the past, it's very likely that's it's happening in the present and will continue to happen in the future.
Also it's always a grey area with such people and you're gonna miss t...... reply
Regret? No, not at all.
But sometimes I wish that the person I hung out with every day for almost 7 years would not have gone to Israel and then joined the actual damn IDF, like genuinely wtf
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So the girl is a piano major in college and the boy plays basketball/volleyball and the boy is a sunbae to her and they both have dark black hair and her friends/roomate/sunbae(Girls) a short hair one gets together with a blond guy that is also the male lead’s friend and a long haired girls who’s kinda a pervert gets together with a blond long haired guy from the male lead’s dept as well and….. that’s all I can remember
Nah, I don't regret it. After my dad passed away in 2025 I went a bit quiet online because I was mentally fucked. She moved on so quickly and when I did come back she was a completely different person. She used to be nice and a bit shy and she liked a lot of the same things I did. I texted her but the conversations seemed so robotic. The only reaso...... reply
No lol. Sometimes I think abt how she mightve felt but thats abt it. I've been friends with my bsf like 2 years now and using her as a comparison to that other friendship i broke off, I realized that actual friends would never do some of the stuff she she did to me. It doesn't really matter how minor it may have seemed or if its in the past bcus it...... 1 reply
I'm trying to find a short run - maybe 10-15 chapters in total. It ends up with the uke being in a threesome with two mafia/Yakuza seme's. The uke losing their job as an journalist after being set up by the Seme's friend/sibling. As the uke was trying to expose the Seme's.
Does anyone know the name of this run? I can't remember a lot of the unique/identifying details.
Yes, I have (though i don't have such a friend like yours no offense lol). Had a fairly recent friendship breakup around late 2024/early 2025. We've been friends for 14 years. Rather than regretting the choice, i guess i regret the way i handled it or how it happened. But i made peace with it because i made that choice for a reason, however faulty....... 1 reply
I blocked one of my bestest friends in January. I dont regret blocking her as she crossed my boundaries multiple times and defend her bf when he harassed one of my friends. But we been friends for 7 years so it hurt really bad and sometimes I think about unblocking her but me having good memories dosent outweigh the bad ones. I just miss who she u...... reply
Don't regret it , not one bit. You are just second guessing it because you somone who was a part of your daily life is gone so you can feel the empty space. But it's shitty to be friends with somone who was a direct cause of your friends sufferings , even when the friend didn't mind and going behind you back and taking just shows she has no respect...... reply
no I don't, they didnt like me the way I liked them! babe, protect yourself and be selfish, cause at the end it's only you who you should worry about the most! Most of my friendships ended cause I always had to put so much effort while they never did 1 reply
I mean, he's definitely interested in you if that's what you're talking about. If you think he's a creep then you can either slow your replies until he backs off or lay cards down. He might not realize he's being too much but I'm always team trust your gut with stuff like this. reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
