I liked it, and it made me aware of many good and bad things since a young age. So I was never confused with alot of things, like emotions and with dealing problems. It kind of made me develop a superiority complex though 1 reply
It didn't change me at all, it's literally just a hobby. I'm the same person I was before, was it supposed to do something to make me different or more special than other people like?? ️
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It's made me admire Japanese, Chinese, Korean cultures, and want to know more about those countries, I also now want to learn Chinese, so I can read all the danmeis and watch many BL donghuas and just be able to understand and speak the language. I don't think I would have this kind of interest to learn a new language, if I didn't read mangas, manh...... 1 reply
I've always wanted to ride motorcycles ever since I was a kid but my friends, family, coworkers, partner and just the entire world in general said to not do that :( do u guys like motorcycles or nah cuz I'm saving up for lessons behind every ones back lol 5 reply
I would say set boundaries first because it seems like you don't want to take things too fast and that your not looking for anything serious! For example you can say , “you seem cool but I'm not looking to rush into a relationship, I want to get to know you first and maybe we can take things slow and see from there” let him know early on so he ...... 1 reply
One that helps me the most is learning English. It's not perfect bcs hello it's fan translation. But im glad that i can speak English well. Grammar is out of the window tho lol idc about that as long as i understand what i read and able to interact with people online.
I became knowledgeable. (￣∇￣") shit legit funny asf when people asked me s...... 1 reply
It stopped me from kys multiple times. Truly. At the time, I had suicidal depression but no-one in my family really cared 'cause of some of the other stuff going on. So I found comfort in these characters md these stories. And I am still alive today! Really goes to show it's the small things are n life that matter 1 reply
it helped me before to overcome things and still helping me now to continue living, waiting chapter by chapter help me have something to look forward to everyday. the variety is endless thats why im trying to live longer so that i could consume more and when my time comes i hope im satisfied because at the very list iv traveled world while live jus...... reply
It has taught me to be less judgmental. I used to hate toxic stories and get super angry when people shipped the main characters with a super toxic second love interest instead of with the green flag ML.
But over time, I finally realized that all I can do is live my live the best I can. But I wasn't even doing that right. Who the fuck am I to judg...... reply
Genuinely think I might have an addiction to bl and it concerns and embarrasses me. When I'm crying or angry, my first go-to is reading gay smut. I think it's doing me more harm than good. I can't go about my day normally like I used to without thinking about bl T-T 2 reply
It pulled me out of depression 3 years ago. I cried all the time because my family didn't pay attention to me, I felt alone, and I found refuge in the bl. Also, when I had a relapse because I couldn't communicate with my friends, it also helped me a lot. I really appreciate reading manhwa and manga (It even helped me learn english because I actuall...... reply
Oblivious MC’s (in romance) always had me frustrated and I swore up and down I would never be like that.
I was exactly like that.
My current lover had been pursuing me for two years and I had no idea! We’d hold hands, practically kiss-goodbye, and she’d write me letters on valentines. Until one valentines I asked, “Is this a love letter...... reply
bad it stunts my imagination this is all i do 24/7 gets no joy fom anything elsse. other than psychological stuff lowered my attention span cant even watch anime anymorre. i barelly sleepp anymore i objectify relationships real easy i start to accidentally see feminie guys and call them femboys in my heads r slightly imagine what relationship theys...... 1 reply
Rainbow city and my dearest misery made me realize that it’s not art or any fandom that I’m dedicated to, it’s fiction as a whole….so now 2 years later I’m here with a creative writing degree and ten thousand WIPs
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It has helped me a lot! Gave me new perspectives on human relationships which helped me out with my own relationships with people. I like to think deep about a lot of things and reading stories help with it. There’s so many more good things too. I love reading and talking to people in the comments. I feel like I can be myself here. 1 reply
It improved my English, it also made me more observatory of my surroundings and also things I didn't know about before that I knew now, such as medical stuff, cooking and logic. I'm not sure about the bad changes for now reply
The changes can be good or bad. This randomly just popped up in my head while tryna sleep. As for me it made me more curious about the world and try to see things in others perspectives just like the MCs in mangas(just generalizing it since its too long to seperate them) Ive read. It also made me true more new things compared to before where I limited myself to the things I was used to or liked. But it also made me doomscroll more lol and kinda made my memory worse with how much I read
Honestly I’m just now starting college the 17th as a freshman enrolled into a super competitive nursing program and I’m beyond stressed without even staring yet️️️ but I just know things end up working out in the end, getting easier the more you understand! Hopefully that works for me too but I guess you just gotta find your ground. reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
