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2022-02-06 04:56
SPOILER BELOW — WHERE THE CHAPS GO?
imagine having not 1 but 3 annoying, nosy mother in laws? i can relate why shes exhausted from seeing them lmao. AND AN MC LEAVING HER ABUSIVE HUSBAND?? I LOVE THIS SONG. spoilers: apparently ex husband turned back the time and still acted the same indifferent, controlling prick that he is so mc, who have her past life memories intact, went to meet ian (ml) and asked his hand in marriage. BWAHAHA serves him right!! did he think that turning back time will atone for his sins? i hope u die a miserable death wo anyone mourning for u -__- and mc, u better never come back to this prick. PLS VALUE UR LIFE AND UR HUSBAND IAN LITERALLY LOVES U SO MUCH
so my question now is: why did the ex husband turn back time only to act like an asshole like before?? like whats the point dude. u literally set urself up to fail wc is good, bc he fucken deserve it
the summary is so confusing
◈ Today was my 40th birthday. After having the maids prepare for the birthday party, I woke up overslept, and my deceased mother-in-law yelled at me. “You lazy bitch!” And my second and third mother-in-law went to war, and a bearded husband who I had never seen before. … … Only then did I realize that he returned to his twenties. That the second life cycle has begun in this beggar Sea World. ‘I can’t get my feet into the trash can again!’ Don’t be like this! I shook my head to somehow escape from the trash can, and there was only one answer I found. To become the wife of Duke Ian Tyrone, widely known as the ‘People’s eunuch’! But then he grew up… I grew up… ?! ◈
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- Characters:

• Olivia (FL)
• Ian (ML) - second husband (present timeline)
• James - ex husband

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- Spoiler: Ex-Husband (from user Chunin)
Her ex-husband James was the one who turned back time.
Apparently because of this she will be tormented between her ex-husband and her new husband.

• (from user AnotherDayAnotherStory) This is what I've understood from some of the comments and reviews as well. Many readers were annoyed with this arc cause it was near the end and all the development between ML and FL got ruined. It might have been badly handled that's why even overall rating got affected.


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- Spoiler: Ch1-10 (from user Rovvo)

I've only read 10 chapters but so far:
• FL was married for 20 years before going back in time.
• The emperor needed James to marry to be able to send him to war and FL was chosen as the bride.
• Her father is trash.
• They got married without James being present, so there was no consummation.
• James (First husband) came back home after 10 years.
• James spent the next 10 years forcing himself on FL and having no other communication whatsoever.
• FL has a kid but she almost died giving birth and the ML shows no interest in her even when she's dying.
• FL returns to the time when she turned 20.
• Ian is the emperor's cousin and is rumoured to be a eunuch.
• FL asks her friend Romeo (Who will become the next emperor's husband) to help her pay someone to create a song about a secret romance between her and Ian which is quickly popularized.
• FL asks Ian to meet and the emperor is beyond himself and willing to annull her marriage for Ian.
• FL convinces ML to marry her.
• Ian tells her she can just come live with him since they'll get married. "What are you going back to that place for?"
• FL thought the emperor was scary because he exterminated anyone that complained about his daughter being emperor in the previous life.
• When they visit the emperor he greets them with the marriage certificate ready for their signatures lol.
• Turns out the three mothers in law had already sent annulment papers so he just signed ASAP. The ex husband will receive a copy while he's in the war.
• Ian asks for the emperor to open their most exclusive and grand salon for their wedding and he happily agrees.

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- Spoiler: From Ch 11 to 15 (from user Rovvo)

• Wedding is happening in two weeks and FL asks to help with the preparations.
• She wants to wear the same wedding dress with some alterations and to ask for her jewelry. She wanted to buy it back but they just sent a box with some of her stuff and claim to have thrown everything else away.
• She wanted her mother's necklace, that's why she asked for the jewelry. She gets it back.
• She doesn't want Ian to call her "wife" because James used to call her that. Ian calls her "Olivia" teasingly and she blushes every time.
• During the wedding she's thinking of her first ceremony (she had to be alone, James had already left) and about her shitty dad who would ask for money and embarrassed her before. She wants to bring her younger sister with her.
• Ian notices that she's thinking about something else and tells her that she chose him, so from now she'll have to stop thinking about other men.
• Ian gives her a passionate kiss in front of everyone when they're declared husband and wife.
• The emperor prepared a room in the palace for them to spend the night and the maids dress her in lingerie.
• Ian enters the room and ML is flustered because she thought they wouldn't spend the night.
• "Don't we have something to do before sleeping?" "Remember what you told me before when I called you countess Farnell? You said that and now abandon me? Who knows if you'll run off to someone else."
• Ian kisses her and when she brings the whole "eunuch" debacle he's like "Did I ever say I was one?"
• FL had told him that she didn't want to have kids, but he doesn't care about having kids and with the rumor no one will pressure him to have them.
• Ian puts her on his lap and she feels something there. *Chapter ends*

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- Spoiler: MTL Review from Tistory (from user AnotherDayAnotherStory)
Seems like this is FL's 3rd life and ex husband is a scum. The later part of story would get annoying because of ex husband's interferance. This seems to be written when novel was still ongoing.

Olivia, the main character, lives until she turns 40, with her husband James, who had a wedding without even seeing his face while going to war with his three mother-in-law. I even gave birth to a child. Then he suddenly returns to his 20s. Olivia, who returned to the past, tried to take control of the family early from her three mothers-in-law, but failed in her second life because of her husband James' indifference ^^. The discouraged Olivia makes another plan.
It was to spread a racy rumor with another duke, Ian. Children's song in the rope world! The rumor has spread tremendously and everyone knows the rumor. Of course, it get to Ian and his cousin, the emperor.
Ian, who couldn't ignore the rumor, accepts Olivia's request for meeting and the two promise to get married at the first meeting.. (It was possible to invalidate the marriage because he didn't have a first night with James.) Because Olivia's bold personality and appearance captured Ian's taste. Thus, the two hold weddings at a tremendous rate in the consideration of the emperor.
But why did Olivia choose Duke Ian? It's none other than because there was a rumor that he was a "eunach. In the past, she had lost her health due to her pregnancy and sleeping without consent between her husband and James, and she thought that Ian, who is known as a national eunuch, would be the perfect second husband.
After that, Olivia, who married Ian, finds out that he is a man far from Eunach.Hah!
And when you get used to the world's sweet Ian's happiness! Olivia, who was enjoying the happiness of the world, appears to her ex-husband James. James is stubborn, saying this marriage is invalid. From here on, sweet potatoes are added slightly to the atmosphere that used to be happy soda. ㅠㅠ And the reason why Olivia returned seems to have entered the mid-to-late part of the novel.
Sweet potatoes are stuffy in the part related to my ex-husband, but the beginning part is quite fun. I think the second half will depend on your taste. Anyway, I'm rooting for the Ianwa Olivia couple.^^ It's a novel that I want to wait until the day it's completed. Personally, I hope Ian's face comes out on the next cover. Haha

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- Spoiler: How did she have a child without even seeing her husband? (from user AnotherDayAnotherStory)
She only didn't see him on day they were married. She was married without him present and in presence of 3 mother in laws. Idk how that works. After marriage he would often visit her whenever he needs and would force himself on her.

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- Spoiler: 3 mother-in-laws?
Probably polygamy (this is not sure bc no one confirmed it in the spoilers, just a hunch)

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- Spoiler: One of the things FL's ex-husband did (from user AnotherDayAnotherStory)
fl clearly tell him she's treated like a maid and live in a small room and her husband just tell her to not make a fuss
Reading the raws, in one of the chapters FL gives birth to their child in the past and looks extremely exhausted. The husband looks at the child and then leaves again for the war without sparing a single minute for his wife and asking if she is okay.

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- Spoiler: FL is traumatized about childbirth (from user bananaanna)
Idk how she got pregnant (wether it was forced or not, but all points towards rape) but the thing is that in the 1st life she had 2 kids. Each of the births were so complicated and she was on the verge of death in every childbirth that it left her profoundly traumatized. She also says that after nearly dying each time she was weaker afterwards. She told her 2nd husband she didnt want to have kids, and acknowledges that separating from 1st husband means she wont see her kids ever again but she says she prefers not seeing them ever again than going through that (can also mean the overall pregnancy was a nightmare) again.
Also!!! On the manhwa it shows how she had a baby and was almost dead but concious still, and the 1st husband just came to the room saw the baby's face and also MC's pale face and returned immedeatly to war. like idgaf about MC. Just from that and the fact that 1st husband never spoke to her lets me know that he's trash.

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2022-03-27 07:15
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From user, "tempekemul"
I found Korean spoiler included the ending and side stories. It seem this spoiler from manhwa reader after reading chapter 19 and binged the novel. I might messed up some when editing MTL of this spoiler so take a grain of salt.
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Characters
Olivia Florence = FL
Ian Tyrone = ML
James Parnell = FL's ex-husband
Viscount Florence = FL's father
Annie Florence = FL's sister
Kenin = ML's aide
Crown Prince Statis = ML's cousin (woman)
Romeo Alkigers = FL's friend and crown princess (man)
Eric = Annie's savior in past life, commoner
Melissa Orlando = FL's mother
Liliana Whitefall

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MTL Novel Spoilers with Edit (Random)
[ I believe it would be lengthy to put it all here ]

Part 3. Ma'am, Come Here
- On the day of the Emperor's Birthday, Ian and Olivia get on a carriage and prepare to enter the palace. Ian asks Olivia what she does when her makeup is ruined, Olivia replies that the maid brought cosmetics for reapply the makeup. Ian kisses her.
- At the royal birthday, Emperor announces the engagement of Statis and Romeo. And he reveals that Duke Ian Tyrone is not actually his nephew, but his youngest brother, and that he'll treat Ian and Olivia with the courtesy of the Imperial family (That's why he gave tiara to Olivia.)
Ian becomes Grand Duke, Olivia becomes Grand Duchess. (Olivia finally understand, what happen if Ian has a child. He was afraid the child would lose his life in a battle for succession of the royal family). If Ian has a child, there can be a dispute with Statis over the right to inherit the emperor.
- Suddenly, Duke James Parnell appears and calls Olivia his wife, he calls her out to come. The Duke of Parnell shouts that the annulment is invalid because it's not the Duke himself who put the seal on the annulment. (James says he has detained mothers-in-law who used their seals without permission from his housekeeper.)
James claims that Ian looted his wife and that his marriage is still valid. Statis ends the fight between Ian and James, saying that we should decide later since it's Emperor's birthday.
- Ian sees Olivia trembling in fear when James calls her 'wife' and intuitively feels that James is the reason Olivia hates calling her wife. Returning from the Emperor's Birthday, Olivia suffers from her nightmares when she sees James hugging her forcibly in her dreams and her mother-in-law tormenting her. Ian hugs Olivia and comforts her. Olivia says she wants Ian to hug her.

Part 4. The Salty Return of James
- Actually mtl title this part (짠내나는 제임스의 회귀) in papago is Glamorous James' Regression but google translate is funnier.

<Past>
- James Parnell (a graduating student) falls in love at first sight with Olivia (a freshman) who asks for directions at the academy. However, he only secretly watches Olivia studying in her library, as he is forced to go to war soon after his graduation.
- In his previous life, Emperor simply married them, saying James and Olivia had the same birthdays. - In this life James asks Emperor to marry Olivia.
Actually, it's James third regression. In his first life, Olivia was murdered by foreigner. Duke Parnell has return the time, and in his second life Olivia is poisoned by one of her mothers-in-law. Present is third life.
- James sacrifices his life force to return his time and has less than 5 years left. Olivia had two children, but she had a bad relationship with their children because mothers-in-laws. Olivia was poisoned by her mother-in-law in the past, and he was indifference letting her live with bad mother-in-laws again.
- The truth is that was only a minor misunderstanding with Olivia, and that James didn't know there was constant bullying.
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- Olivia writes a letter to James to talk alone, and they meet in Aramir (Olivia packs something to make her bag thick, just in case).
- Olivia doesn't understand why James is so obsessed with her. James doesn't understand why Olivia married Grand Duke Tyrone. James grabs Olivia for a chance, but Olivia says she's fed up with Parnell and leaves. (James says that Ian is incapable of having children and that he cannot have a perfect family. But in a past life, Olivia never had a perfect family with James, despite having children.)
- Ian asks Olivia what she took in her bag, she feels shy and answers that it was 'tiara'. Ian laughs out loud (She chose diamond tiara as her weapon to swing James).

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2022-02-06 05:13
SPOILERS BELOW
WAITING FOR THE CHAPTERS..... She has 3 mother-in-laws??? .looks her her father-in law scored a hat-trick ..her previous husband was pathetic atleast she score a hot husband this time

It was supposed to be Olivia's 40th birthday...she overslept but when she woke up her deceased mother-in-law yelled at her “You lazy bitch!” .Her 2nd & 3rd mother-in-law went to war & saw a bearded husband who she had never seen before. … … Only then did she realize that he returned to her twenties. that's how her 2nd life begins ...‘I can’t get my feet into the trash can again!’ Don’t be like this! I shook my head to somehow escape from the trash can, and there was only one answer I found. To become the wife of Duke Ian Tyrone, widely known as the ‘People’s eunuch’! But then he grew up… … . I grew up… ?!
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Olivia, the main character, lives until she turns 40, with her husband James, who had a wedding without even seeing his face while going to war with his three mother-in-law. I even gave birth to a child. Then he suddenly returns to his 20s. Olivia, who returned to the past, tried to take control of the family early from her three mothers-in-law, but failed in her second life because of her husband James' indifference ^^. The discouraged Olivia makes another plan.

It was to spread a racy rumor with another duke, Ian. Children's song in the rope world! The rumor has spread tremendously and everyone knows the rumor. Of course, it get to Ian and his cousin, the emperor.

Ian, who couldn't ignore the rumor, accepts Olivia's request for meeting and the two promise to get married at the first meeting.. (It was possible to invalidate the marriage because he didn't have a first night with James.) Because Olivia's bold personality and appearance captured Ian's taste. Thus, the two hold weddings at a tremendous rate in the consideration of the emperor.

But why did Olivia choose Duke Ian? It's none other than because there was a rumor that he was a "eunach. In the past, she had lost her health due to her pregnancy and sleeping without consent between her husband and James, and she thought that Ian, who is known as a national eunuch, would be the perfect second husband.

After that, Olivia, who married Ian, finds out that he is a man far from Eunach.Hah!

[A little spoiler]

And when you get used to the world's sweet Ian's happiness! Olivia, who was enjoying the happiness of the world, appears to her ex-husband James. James is stubborn, saying this marriage is invalid. From here on, sweet potatoes are added slightly to the atmosphere that used to be happy soda. ㅠㅠ And the reason why Olivia returned seems to have entered the mid-to-late part of the novel.

Sweet potatoes are stuffy in the part related to my ex-husband, but the beginning part is quite fun. I think the second half will depend on your taste. Anyway, I'm rooting for the Ianwa Olivia couple.^^ It's a novel that I want to wait until the day it's completed. Personally, I hope Ian's face comes out on the next cover. Haha from user AnotherDayAnotherStory
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Q.How did she have a child without even seeing her husband?
How does she have 3 mother in laws?!
And why the husband treated her this way? i saw in the pictures that she sent a letter and he answered something like don’t make trouble and listen to those people…
Ans -She only didn't see him on day they were married. She was married without him present and in presence of 3 mother in laws. Idk how that works. After marriage he would often visit her whenever he needs and would force himself on her. from user AnotherDayAnotherStory
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- FL was married for 20 years before going back in time.
- The emperor needed to marry James to be able to send him to war and FL was chosen as the bride.
- Her father is trash.
- They got married without James being present, so there was no consummation.
- James (First husband) came back home after 10 years.
- James spent the next 10 years forcing himself on FL and having no other communication whatsoever.
- FL has a kid but she almost died giving birth and the ML shows no interest in her even when she's dying.
- FL returns to the time when she turned 20.
- Ian is the emperor's cousin and is rumoured to be a eunuch.
- FL asks her friend Romeo (Who will become the next emperor's husband) to help her pay someone to create a song about a secret romance between her and Ian which is quickly popularized.
- FL asks Ian to meet and the emperor is beyond himself and willing to annull her marriage for Ian.
- FL convinces ML to marry her.
- Ian tells her she can just come live with him since they'll get married. "What are you going back to that place for?"
- FL thought the emperor was scary because he exterminated anyone that complained about his daughter being emperor in the previous life.
- When they visit the emperor he greets them with the marriage certificate ready for their signatures lol.
- Turns out the three mothers in law had already sent annulment papers so he just signed ASAP. The ex husband will receive a copy while he's in the war.
- Ian asks for the emperor to open their most exclusive and grand salon for their wedding and he happily agrees. from userRovvo
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Her ex-husband James was the one who turned back time. from user Chunin
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Wedding is happening in two weeks and FL asks to help with the preparations.
- She wants to wear the same wedding dress with some alterations and to ask for her jewelry. She wanted to buy it back but they just sent a box with some of her stuff and claim to have thrown everything else away.
- She wanted her mother's necklace, that's why she asked for the jewelry. She gets it back.
- She doesn't want Ian to call her "wife" because James used to call her that. Ian calls her "Olivia" teasingly and she blushes every time.
- During the wedding she's thinking of her first ceremony (she had to be alone, James had already left) and about her shitty dad who would ask for money and embarrassed her before. She wants to bring her younger sister with her.
- Ian notices that she's thinking about something else and tells her that she chose him, so from now she'll have to stop thinking about other men.
- Ian gives her a passionate kiss in front of everyone when they're declared husband and wife.
- The emperor prepared a room in the palace for them to spend the night and the maids dress her in lingerie.
- Ian enters the room and ML is flustered because she thought they wouldn't spend the night.
- "Don't we have something to do before sleeping?" "Remember what you told me before when I called you countess Farnell? You said that and now abandon me? Who knows if you'll run off to someone else."
- Ian kisses her and when she brings the whole "eunuch" debacle he's like "Did I ever say I was one?"
- FL had told him that she didn't want to have kids, but he doesn't care about having kids and with the rumor no one will pressure him to have them.
- Ian puts her on his lap and she feels something there. *Chapter ends from user Rovvo
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Idk how she got pregnant (wether it was forced or not, but all points towards rape) but the thing is that in the 1st life she had 2 kids. Each of the births were so complicated and she was on the verge of death in every childbirth that it left her profoundly traumatized. She also says that after nearly dying each time she was weaker afterwards. She told her 2nd husband she didnt want to have kids, and acknowledges that separating from 1st husband means she wont see her kids ever again but she says she prefers not seeing them ever again than going through that (can also mean the overall pregnancy was a nightmare) again.

Also!!! On the manhua it shows how she had a baby and was almost dead but concious still, and the 1st husband just came to the room saw the baby's face and also MC's pale face and returned immediately to war. like idgaf about MC. Just from that and the fact that 1st husband never spoke to her lets me know that he's trash. from user bananaana

2022-02-06 05:15
At first, I thought she change to Ian (ML) after she return back in the past because of how active *cough* James (ex husband) is lol, or that they also had some sort of misunderstandings like other series xD but seems like... Its different
2022-05-20 10:59
But but... the first husband seems utterly clueless and puppy like, of course that could change but he never took his ring off!
2022-05-29 05:38
Hell with the first husband. He likes her but didn’t do anything, that’s a heck of a deadly marriage
2023-02-04 14:42
These couple is refreshing, especially since I got tired of stoic-looking men. Now, he has more personality that would often be the second lead (which was also the first lead before the trend of stoic MLs. How fun, ). And I am happy that the FL speaks up when she needs to speaks up, basically knowing what she wants and letting go of what hinders her. The foreshadowing are actually predictable, but the tension is there. Especially with her ex coming back and having a twisted affection towards the FL.
2022-05-21 02:33
Welp. You lost your chance dude. If you liked her then why da fuck did u not protect her!?!?!? Fbisbaj


Bruh... I was expecting them to kill her father, for not only disrespecting the duke and duchess but also have the audacity to harm the duchess and demand for money. Honestly, usually that's a criminal offense in this types of stories
2022-07-27 04:14
We've seen a lot of the "left-for-war-on-wedding-day" trope, especially for the main couples. But this is the first time it actually falls down. Maaann, we've been getting so enraged at these time of MLs but we persevere, just because said male is THE ML. But now that he's not, maaaaaaannn what an absolute TRASH BUCKET.
2022-10-03 10:31
Ch43 kinda feel bad for the ex husband, but he also deffo deserved it
2023-05-04 12:55
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Ouch ouch ouch.....her first husband is an asshole who never took her defense. He knew she was having a hard time but It was okay for him to just ignore it as long as he could take her whenever and however he wanted. She was obedient and always available so he was satisfied. And even though this is his 3rd regression he was still expecting things to be the same so now that she married someone else, he's kicking a fuss about it.
Ian is a wonderful second husband and I wholeheartedly agree with the MC for choosing him. I wonder if they'll have kids anyway despite both of them not wanting any or if they'll stick to their decision (which would be refreshing).
Finally, Romeo is a precious and lovely man and I hope the princess makes him happy.
2023-05-15 19:37
So far, the story is fine. But i really felt being duped. The Cover picture toh....... it's totally different art style..... very attractive to me. Not that i don't like the current art...... its simple and fine but i was summoned by the cover picture so i do feel duped now.

Honestly James's design is totally my type (i love black hair guys). His face is also my type and he's so fucking attractive plus his personality looks like Kuudere + yandere type and i am a fan of Kuudere type. Sadly, he ain't our ML and instead the bad guy.

I do feel pity and sorry for him (knowing story from his side) but seriously he need to leave our FL alone now. He had his chance but he lost it...... seriously, how much of an idiot he is to not know how to treat and cherish the person they love. How could he let her go through all those shit and suffer. Plus they never had proper Communication...... Bastard, Communication is the Key. Now suffer

Shit!! I feel so bad for FL, the things she had to suffer and go through in her past and her children treatment towards her......... No wonder, she doesn't want to have babies...... even i wouldn't want to see those shitty kid again. But deep down i am hoping and looking forward to see her Babies with our ML. Don't be afraid FL, not all kids are shitty like your kid in 1st life. Plus this time the daddy is the ML, your 2nd husband, who loves you desperately.

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2022-02-06 04:58
Omg, the cover is nice
2022-04-23 10:14
FL is kinda annoying, she's got a quirky confident personality which kinda just makes her cringe. She's quite strong tho, being able to withstand all those mothers-in-law and that neglectful husband while also barely surviving childbirth. ML is quite interesting, hopefully we get more HEALTHY relationships then glamorized toxic ones.
2022-04-24 23:59
Why did everyone think he was “impotent” when he didn’t get publicly hard
2022-07-29 17:17
29. FL actually knows what she wants and a supportive ML that helps her. It’s healthy despite the crappy plot. I actually like how James (Ex-Husband) design is identical to the ML from Under the Oak Tree in not just looks but also rough attitude. He is also unhealthy but people ignore it bc he’s drawn well. This feels like revenge.
2023-06-30 17:42
2. AAAAAA WHY IS THE FIRST HUSBAND SO HOT?! I really prefer black-haired male lead huhuhuhu
2022-11-05 01:42
Although the story is excellent, the art style gradually changes
2022-02-07 09:06
This isn't you dzaddy putin
2022-02-07 18:07
Waiting for more chapters
Name: My Second Husband Desperate and Depressed
Status: Ongoing    RSS
Author: Jimmy Shin 2019 released.
Genre(s): Webtoons / Josei / Drama / Fantasy / Historical / Romance
Alternative: My second husband desperate and depressed; I Can't Keep Up With My Stallion Duke
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