Who's that wonderful maaan?
Could he be any cuteeer?
I had my doubts, but I kinda liked the way this was going at first. Now? Not so much.
And I'm not even talking about the female lead's actions or decisions anymore. I'm talking about the way this webtoon is handling these complicated situations. I really thought that Woojin's self-reflection on his approach to dating Seyun would lead to him thinking more before he acts, and taking things slower. Trying to go at her pace, y'know? But the way he just pounced on the first chance to marry her despite clearly seeing her hesitation, and knowing that she was facing a difficult situation when she said all that just proves that he's barely learned anything. Like, I really thought that after that whole speech he was going to say "I don't want you to agree to marry me because you're going through something. I'll wait for you" or at least something along those lines. But nope, the next second we're meeting the parents. WTH dude?
And then he just goes ahead to arrange a meeting with his parents for the next day? Come on, he's not even giving her a chance to take it all in. It almost feels like he's just selfishly dragging her along. Imagine how nerve-wracking this must be to someone who wasn't even considering marriage 1 month ago, much less with the guy she's about to marry.
Then the way her dad seemed to be portrayed as the doting and overprotective father. Even though all the points he brought up were SOLID and I really thought we would finally get a voice of reason, but they just had him throw a drunk fit and called it a day. He wasn't even aware that his wife was setting his daughter up for marriage behind his back. That in and of itself is a problem.
And I'm not even going to get into the problematic mothers of this webtoon. They deserve their own epistle.
Anyway, this whole story is starting to look like the 8-years-ago-backstories of those webtoons where the ML and FL were in an arranged marriage, but they got divorced because they had a lot of issues, but they get back together in the future because now they can form a relationship under healthy circumstances.
I'm sure Woojin is just blindly in love right now, but no matter how much of a good husband he vows to be, no woman should ever be forced or coerced into marriage, especially not when she's so young and inexperienced. He could be the best thing since bluetooth and the marriage will still crumble, because the pressure of moving into a new environment, changing to a new status, getting used to a new lifestyle, and dealing with a whole new web of relationships (his family) is enough to stress her and take a toll on her mentally, and stress is hard enough to deal with when you're willingly going through it, much less when you feel like you've been forced. That kind of situation breeds resentment. Not just for his mom, or his family, but eventually even for him. At least realistically speaking.
Right now, I think the only thing that could salvage this plot progression is if at some point FL breaks off the marriage and tells Woojin the truth about everything, and how she never really wanted to marry him. Then maybe a year or two later, after ML has had some PROPER growth and reflection, they can start over again, and he can clearly tell that snake of a mother that he won't let her interfere in Seyun's life any longer.
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So true on all of this! Tbh, I have this conspiracy theory that the author wrote this story as a sort of disguised feminist novel to make readers realize the importance of agency and choice. Even though some part of mc might be attracted to ml, it is so wrapped in layers of coercion and manipulation that she can never be certain if her feelings are genuine. The story becomes a tragedy even though it is rofan because we know that mc will never be given the time and space to make her own decisions on her feelings for ml (and 2nd ml too) and her right over her own body is also taken away by others. The ml, although appearing like a victim at first, can’t escape blame because ultimately this a system that benefits him and that’s why he’ll never actually help mc even knowing the type of person his mother is. On that note, both of the moms are a great example of what generational cycles of abuse can do to people who feel helpless to escape and end up enforcing the same abuse on their own kids â•®(￣▽￣)â•
Wow, I didn't even notice that.
Frankly, I do still hold some hope that the author is doing this intentionally, and everything will suddenly all make sense, but it's also a Korean romance webtoon and I've been disappointed by far too many to believe in that.
I really hope your theory is right tho, cuz that would be such a great twist.
What the fuck is pit-a-pat? Is that supposed to be the sound of a heart beat? Why not use the normal ba-dump ba-dump? Is it the sound of a heart skipping a beat? It still doesn't seem right tho. It's beginning to irritate me
Had been wondering as well, guess it is supposed to be the sound of heartbeat after all. A drizzle (raindrops going pit-a-patter) would have been classy too, kinda liked my misunderstanding. :)
it is the sound of the heartbeating, for some reason I find more mangas use pit-a-pat and manwhas use ba-dump but that’s just my experience
I'm genuinely surprised that the author isn't sick of bringing Jihyeok in at this point. He serves no purpose and he's just irritating. Like, please come up with a new way to do whatever he's doing, if anything at all. He just shows up, irritates people and then someone gets rid of him.
And second, I hate this fucking trope of mistaken confessions. All it does is give a nice ML a glimmer of hope just to take it away and make him miserable. That's about it. One could say that it's also used to propel the FL into feeling something for him that she wouldn't have felt with the current state of their relationship, or to make the audience sympathise with the ML, but a better way to achieve these would be to have the ML confess his feelings to the FL, then get rejected. This also allows the audience to relate more to the FL, since she's not the one in the wrong because of a stupid mistake.
I don't mind it all that much when it's used comically, but when it takes a more somber approach like this, it's just annoying.
Another fundamental issue I have with Riftan is how he doesn't speak to Maxi directly when she does something he doesn't like. Like, he enters the room and instead of asking her what she's doing, he asks his knights what she's doing there. I don't know if that's his way of managing his anger so as not to take it out on her directly, but it just ends up looking like he's demeaning her. As if it wasn't her decision to be there.
It just goes to show how much he treats her like a child. Like a naive little baby who can't be held responsible for her own actions.
I'm honestly sick of him right now.
For the speaking to her directly part I feel like it is because he thinks it is both the knights fault she is out there (cuz they're usually always swarming her when he walks in lol) and to control himself. I noticed that when he yells at his knights he's yelling and angry like at sir herbaron in this chapter but when he switches to maxi he lowers his voice and calms down a bit. He's probably trying to control himself
What's the fuck does Yujin mean, "why don't you have one with me?" What kind of joke is that?
Tal'm bout "he loves her like a sister", WHAT KIND OF BROTHER MAKES A JOKE ABOUT HAVING A BABY WITH HIS SISTER?!!!
And buying a dress for your sister-in-law is sort of okay, depending on the norms in your family...BUT BUYING A DRESS FOR YOUR SISTER-IN-LAW WHO YOU USED TO FUCK??? Ain't no way that's not weird.
I hate how the ending is trying to gaslight us into thinking that they're all chill, when that's literally not possible with the dynamic that STILL exists between them. It almost feels like some kind of harem ending
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I read all this bs cause I really like Yura, but I skip when he doesn't appeared lol.
I can't stand Moa, but Yujin is even worse... I really really hate him, and that joke at the end, almost make me throw up.
Bro said "she's consenting to this, right?", like he's not literally endorsing human trafficking
Not me reading the first chapter and liking it, only to read the second chapter and absolutely hate it.
"Paint"
"No, I can't"
"PAINT"
"No, I won't"
"Fine then. I'll molest you"
........what?
literally, i had to pause i was disgusted to the core. he better not become a love interest.
"The worst she can say is no"