are y'all okay with rape in some of these manhwas? i am asking bcz the most of the people in yaoitwt really are. they think if you don't like abuse , rape, sa you just have bland taste. personally, it makes me throw up when the victims falls in love with their abusers or rapists. like how can you?? ik it's all fictional and i still read some the stories but I still can't grasp the matter. i just skip those chapts and continue reading bcz sometimes the stories are good. anyway its everyone's own choice.
For me it leaves a bad taste in the mouth but if its used to push forward the story then i dont mind as much (i just question how will it be used to the story that they really really need to include it). But there really are story out there rn, and its becoming a trend (a kink?) that they use violence excessively and unprovoked when it doesnt even makes sense to the plot. Its giving cheap writing and shallow imagination. Also yea i think the tone of the story and the characters is used to disguise the violence as palatable i think. Its hard to be offended when the victims themselves arent offended. But no, liking sa violence rape etc doesnt make u have superior taste. It only makes u shallow and actually the opposite. Cos how come ur taste is soo one sided. For me if thats their only criteria of good stories and then best avoid them. They dont read for the beauty of literature and fiction (smut can have beautiful literature too) but for the trends.

so one day my roommate who's also a very close friend shouted at me . i still don't know the reason. after that it felt awkward and i didn't speak with her. she too didn't for 2-3 days. few days later she just called me by name to go and take the meals with her as we live in dorms. that was it , we had no other conversations later and now it has been more than one month. i wanted to resolve everything bw us bcz i was hurting and i thought she was too. we were very close and i didn't think one simple conflict could end our friendship. but it did lol. one day i texted her to come outside. she didn't, instead asked why. then i said that i wanted to speak with her. and the reply was that the matter has become much bigger , she doesn't want to talk about it and also that she doesn't want to be friends anymore.
is it this easy lol
i have been on both ends of this and i hope you are taking care of yourself; dont reach out anymore though, i’d say
thank you for worrying:))) i have decided to not reach out anymore. it would feel like begging for friendship
Definitely <3 always here if you need to talk to someone; i think your friend might have previous animosity/problems w you that she didn’t address. Hence the explosive reaction then the coldness.