He can't think of anything? Anything at all? Really?
i laughed out loud when he said that
We need more webtoon artists to realise how sexy consent, respect, and foreplay are.
wait when was the rape?
Latest chapter. Uke was saying he can't do it any more. Seme ignored him and forced himself on him, even though the uke wanted to stop. That's rape.
That’s right! Shit was getting good, but ruined ir
Exactly! And the second time he did it without condom...
For not saying she likes Yeonwoo ... There's this thing some mature people do. It's called thinking before you answer and taking care not to lie to other people just to make things seem fine. Lying is usually very disrespectful, though most people make it seem like it's nothing.
She clearly likes him but she doesn't seem to know what the feeling is, especially in a romantic sense. It would have been worse if she had told him yes when she wasn't sure if it herself. Some people are naturally not very in touch with their feelings, and there's nothing wrong with that, but I'm sure her past has a lot to do with it too.
I still feel sorry for Yeonwoo, of course. I feel sorry for both of them. But maybe try to hold off on the judgement until you see how she ended up like that in the first place.
She is far from mature to have progressed this far into a relationship without understanding why she's doing it. I actually think this is a case of immaturity, she doesn't understand her actions enough to say the three words that sum up everything she's doing, she doesn't understand or worse, is ignoring the emotional toll not understanding those words mean in a relationship where they matter so much.
Lack of knowledge doesn't equal immaturity. I think she felt something for Yeonwoo from the beginning and might have agreed to go out with him to find out what that something was. Not everyone is born emotionally intelligent and those who suffer from trauma often have their ability to understand/process emotions stripped away.
She's not going to be 100% mature because she is still a child, just like Yeonwoo. Some adults aren't even 100% mature despite their experiences. Why expect so much from a child who's trying her best?
Its not about her lack of emotion, but rhe fact she she is mature enough to say i shoul break all my relation if you want to acting like a alpha bitch in heat , being possessive and all they turning all questions on yeonwooa head , she doesn't do this to other characters. Just want her to do this lack of bullshit with a less traumatize person , doesn't even allow him to come to her home then goes to his home unannounce, everyone has a idea of Right and wrong even if you lack emotions
Not entirely sure what you're saying here but it still seems like you're expecting her to be mature about everything even though she's a teenager who is also traumatised. It looks like her trauma started even earlier than Yeonwoo's. At least he had loving parents who took care of him when he was a child and are still there for him. Haesol has no one but her friends.
There's no such thing as right or wrong when it comes to feelings. Feelings happen and disappear whether you want them to or not.
Even the positive ones. That's not easy for everyone, you know . It's awkward and embarrassing. Give poor Mugyeong a break.
The only thing I don't agree with is him answering that guy's calls all the time, especially when text messages are a thing. He's being dumb about that to be fair. But Yohan is way too possessive/clingy. After seven years he should know what his boyfriend's personality is like and shouldn't expect him to change himself just to suit his own needs.
I do agree Yohan was doing too much, but at the same time, when you’re in a relationship you have to learn to compromise. Feeling embarrassed or awkward over showing your love to your partner is not an excuse to simply not do it. It’s also kinda fucked up to say you’re embarrassed over smth like that when your partner shows you affection all the time. After 7 years of being together, it’s going to get to you, even if it’s subconscious. He even asked him to not hug him so his cologne doesn’t rub off on him I wouldn’t react like Yohan, but I would def be upset and anxious too
omg thank you. I love them way too much to see any fault in either of them at this point lmfao they were my first manhwa. I just can’t
It's not f***ed up to feel awkward or embarrassed by physical or verbal affection at all, or to struggle with showing your feelings. That's just how some people are and there's nothing wrong with that.
Mugyeong's hasn't been very expressive from the start so Yohan shouldn't expect him to suddenly change his whole personality just because he's in a relationship. That's not loving a person as they truly are. That's loving your idea of them.
If he wanted someone expressive, he shouldn't have chased Mugyeong and become his boyfriend in the first place with those kinds of expectations.
You're welcome
if we talked in irl relationship, I do get what yohan felt, he's anxious, his partner is not too different from before and after the relationship, heust need to be secured by little affectionate here and there, it's not like he asked for 24/7, at the same time mugyeong should noticed his partner too, that's a relationship, if you did say that yohan shouldn't catch him, it's not going to go up either, as partner we shouldn't be too clingy but at the same time, we had to pay attention too to our partner, from what I see it's yohan the one that worked hard on that, that's why I guess yohan is the real one here, had it been not yohan, mogyeong might hard to find a stable partner if he's like that, who wanted a partner that indifferent to you imo (≧∀≦)
Yea sorry I meant more so it’s messed up to not show effort in that department after 7 years of your partner constantly showing that to you
Your spouse 100% should be accepting you for who you are, but everyone has flaws and I would say that despite it not being a major problem, being non-affectionate after years of being in a relationship is a flaw for someone like Yohan who clearly needs reassurance in some aspect, just like most ppl would in that position. Most ppl wouldn’t react like Yohan ofc, but either way, it’s normal to go out of your way in some manner for the person you love
For example, someone I know is an introvert and he’s dating a major extrovert, but because he loves her, he goes out of his way to hang out w her and her friends despite him not wanting to. And in return, she decides to stay in w him at other points. It’s balanced like any relationship should be. This one isn’t as balanced. One is affectionate and the other is the complete opposite, not being able to say the words “I love you” out loud confidently. That’s bound to hurt the feelings of your partner when it happens time and time again over the span of years. And Mugyeong’s also been asking him to not leave anything on him that may make ppl assume he’s in a relationship which is another blow to Yohan
I do wanna make it clear that I’m actually rlly bothered by the way Yohan’s acting and would’ve broken up w him a long ass time ago if I was Mugyeong; being that jealous unnecessarily constantly is actually disturbing and I’ve seen plenty relationships end because of similar reasons. I just wanted to expand on why I think Mugyeong was also fucking up their relationship too
Why should anyone expect their partner to be different after being in a relationship? That's a recipe for disaster and why most relationships fail. Being in love and/or loved in return doesn't magically turn you into a whole new person. It's supposed to enhance the person you already are.
If someone really loved you for who you are, they shouldn't expect you to change just to please them, which is what Yohan is doing.
Mugyeong is making mistakes but they make sense because it's in line with his personality and how he thinks. He's never shown any signs of disloyalty so it's not his fault that Yohan doesn't trust him. And it's clearly not the first time this has happened.
And he is paying attention to Yohan. He even bought him bread because he knows he likes it, and lets him do things in bed even if he's awkward. Yohan should be more grateful that he's being so expressive.
Thanks for explaining. Like I mentioned in my last comment to the other person, Mugyeong is making mistakes but they're in line with his personality and how he thinks. He's never shown any signs of disloyalty so it's not his fault Yohan continuously doesn't trust him.
He pays attention to Yohan in his own way such as by buying him bread because he knows he likes it, and letting him do things in bed even if he's awkward. Yohan should be more grateful that he's being this expressive and tolerating his obsessiveness.
you see, I'm not talking about mugyeong should change, what he need to is to secured yohan for knewing that yohan is also loved by him, the way I see it, Yohan think he's a FwB by Mugyeong, that's why he always doing here and there, not that I said that Yohan is not wrong, but I do get his insecurity of Mugyeong's action, see that recent chapter, Mugyeong is not having a problem with being leaned by his friend, but he said not to hug him in front of the said lover, who will not feelng sad by that? and once again, I'm not saying yohan is right, the only thing that mugyeong lacked is only to say love, I met several people broke just because the person said they felt awkward to expressed it, that's why once again, I said this is only a manhwa, if irl relationship people like mugyeong won't last long with their partner, but that is if he did it to everyone since yohan is not his first love afterall (●'◡'●)
Love his duality. The story and the art is great too. Proof that you can make an amazing webtoon without filling it with unnecessary smut scenes.
To forget what the love of your life looked like and not recognise someone who looks almost exactly the same
In a place where he's supposed to be secretly recording and gathering evidence?