if only 0,0000003% of ppl are fated, that means there are only 12 fated couples worldwide?? lol
i mean he can't complain, he did it first
What a weird thing to say...
Nah these people don have any sense of humor
would've loved for heesung to be a bottom for some dude ╥﹏╥
would be a lot more interesting to have a manipulative selfish bottom dumping tons of tops instead of this temu version of jkxdan, like potato is anything but mingwa's standard bottom and heesung her bad top lol pass
ohhh just was thinking about s2 this morning, and now it's here!
and i wanna see etienne's jewel eyes, they're already fcking but his eye drops are still working （/TДT)/
y'all thirsting and forgetting that oohlala had sth going on with yoona, course he ain't ugly lol
dear ppl, they aren't done talking yet, they will talk more in ch18
(and minato loves shizuma, including his kindness, so y'all projecting feelings into minato he doesn't have)
Fr tho
'you're so fcked seyeong'
yes, when that day comes he will be fcked by you heejae lol ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
yeah sure he's a little dense, but that jealousy is not rooted in his boss or his own actions, but in minato's experiences and huge insecurities.
minato is triggered here by shizuma SMILING at his boss. that's unhealthy and unreasonable. he didn't bring the boss to the date, he caught a ride from work, the work with the same boss, minato is aware of that lol. going out of his ways to not interact with the boss is not a healthy boundary, it's monopolising shizuma. the boss hasn't done anything yet that makes hard boundaries necessary. and they also know shizuma has a lover, which is def. setting the most important boundary. the boss is only a catalyst for the insecurities minato has anyway.
even if shizuma would try to accommodate minato more (and he does try), the jealousy would not stop. now he's jealous of the boss, despite shizuma not showing any interest, but eventually minato would be jealous and insecure of someone or something else. it doesn't serve a relationship by giving into your partners insecurities, because nothing you do will make them truly less insecure unless they work on the issue. shizuma can't stop being bi, and shizuma shouldn't feel like he has to change who he is (friendly) to appease his partner's jealousy either.
and before judging so hard, ppl may wanna read the next chapters where both minato and shizuma explain and explore their issues (heads up, minato knows he's a lot) and it's definitely NOT minato giving into shizuma like another commenter here claims. relationships take 2 and this situation isn't black and white, ironically shizuma and minato are more aware of that than the comments.
(i also hope some of you guys have higher standards for your own relationships geez, if your partner would want you to change your workplace or would want you to never smile at others like that, that's unreasonable af.)
Well, I don't know, she clearly doesn't hold a distance with him, taking his underwear and even teasing him about it is over the line and it's not like Shizuma draws the line either. I think it's understandable that Minato is insecure. His behaviour is another thing though
Well, just like how insecurity is Minato's flaw, naivety and being too kind are Shizuma's. What she did can actually be considered a sexual harrassment, but he probably didn't think anything of it and let it pass through his mind. Sometimes people like that can't see that they're wronged until someone else points it out. Even then they still try to think positively at times because they just don't want to think badly about others, and prefer to blame themselves instead. We can see that Shizuma is that kind of person by how he tolerate his cheating ex and even how he quickly forgave Minato for turning his feelings into a bet. He blamed himself for Yuka cheating on him, and as soon as he heard about the reason for Minato's bet, he blamed himself too. That's just how he is. The same flaw that made Minato insecure is also what brought them together in the first place. Both of them have flaws, as any other people in the world, and they need to work it out together.
Well, here's a different perspective from me. Minato is being unreasonable, that is true. But if you remember the whole story from the very beginning, Minato has serious trust issue due to his father's infidelity and abandonment to his mother, which in turn cause their whole family into a trainwreck. His insecurity is not coming from a random place, it was rooted deep inside of him. Even years of therapy and medication wouldn't make that kind of PTSD magically dissapear. Please cut the guy some slack. He's learning to be a better person albeit slowly. But even people without that kind of trauma would find it hard to not be consumed by jealousy and misunderstanding sometimes, let alone someone like Minato.
Obsessive jealousy is toxic and it will ruin a good relationship. But the reason why Shizuma has been so understanding and empathetic to Minato (despite him being insufferable sometimes) is not because he doesn't have a standard in his relationship, but because he knows Minato is still learning to love and to trust again and Minato never have malicious intent towards him. Minato loves Shizuma very much, and Shizuma knows that.
Did you read a comment, it's 2 pgs after the pg with your comment, it's pg.4 right now!!
Read....@Ahwyahua's comment
It's under CathyBlover
If you ever find the time, I hope you take a look at it, it's a beautifully written, addressing why majority of people support minato and the real issue in this relationship.
Nobody said Shizuma has to stop being friendly. There’s a difference between being friendly vs trying to please using unnecessary words such as the time when Shizuma COMPARED Minato to the boss, about how the boss’s social skills are more pleasant than Minato. He didn’t need to say that at all. It’s not helping. I get that he’s trying to please the boss but he didn’t have to. He’s a worker, he should stay work related.
Those are boundaries he needs to set. Work friends are fine but never try to compare your partner to a stranger, it’s rude and unnecessary, although I understand Shizuma was trying to be nice. He went too far.
Minato himself is aware of his childish antics, that’s why he’s trying to repress those feelings. And Shizuma told him in future chapter to be more selfish with him since Minato is being selfless more than asking for what he wants Shizuma to do.
Trauma isn’t easy to overcome and had he heard Shizuma comparing him with someone else, that would’ve probably turned for the worse. Shizuma has a big flaw which is not making boundaries, it’s also said in the future chapter that he’s way too nice for his own good.
And I agree that it’s toxic to not want your partner to express emotions to others like smiling etc. but I doubt Minato really wants that to happen, it’s his trauma that’s making him like that. I’m sure Minato wants to see Shizuma happy. But his insecurities rooted from trauma is preventing that, hopefully they work it out.
And Shizuma being happy about him being jealous is NOT a good thing. that’s quite disappointing of him.
disappointed. i mean everyone thought silon had something going on with the dad or his partner and views jun as a substitute.
but it's even worse considering he was with the sister of jun and that's who jun resembles so much. poor jun. feel like silon didn't even remotely feel sorry enough for his actions in those 2 panels he felt guilty. (also explains why he got so horny when jun was giving him a BJ, basically looked like the sister) sure his sister had a secret life but he could have at least disclosed that he knew her? not like jun's world will be more shattered than it is now.
also surprised he had a kid with his manipulated genes (if it's actually his), and how come jun doesn't know?
honestly, not sure if i will continue reading much of s2. it's so hard to tell what are plot holes (silon's age, jun's family, etc.) or will be a plot twist later on. especially since i definitely hate that twist. the only special thing it that his dead ex was the sister, not a man.wow
PS: he kissed the sister's forehead just like jun's. right in the feels, jun will be devastated.