Pesky33's Questions (2)

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I know right? Asking people to respect other people is obviously really controversial.

suujin is a good person, the other is a groomer and unstable person who has a pathological liar disorder, so.. no

Are they? Is that why this is a controversial opinion? Can you give sources/evidence? I’m being genuine here, I’m always open to learning stuff and changing my opinion.

ofc ! here you can check this account and look thru the albums. i haven’t updated it but its the same user https://www.mangago.me/home/people/4308386/home/
maybe don’t engage with him because he’s not too well in his head.. i’m sure he will try to deny every proof lol

also, the favourites on this account are from the people he groomed/harassed, they all shared their POVs

was that the same hajun with jigustar pfp

of course, hajun was his og name

Okay I’ve edited the post to take that user out for now, because I think the point still stands and if that user has a question mark over them, that might be why some people disagree

yes i think ur point is very valid too, i don’t get why ppl r mean to suujin cuz shes doing God’s work they are ungrateful

Thanks for the information. That stuff you sent me is indeed worrying. How do you know it’s the same user?

because i was his friend before and he harassed me and my friends, he actually had a bunch of other alts too. he’s easy to recognize

Okay, thank you for sharing

its giving unemployment

girl.. he has over like idk 1300 posts and idk 300+ experiences on the forums. he IS unemployed

FAQ - https://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/21080691/

To an extent i get that, but most of our lists stopped after the already read loaded… nothing else has been added so were just a bit anxious

they have too much time on their hands to be looking at their lists all the time holy

It’s not those posts so much as the ones asking where their lists are. There’s SO MANY. First thing I did when I saw my lists were empty was check the questions not ask another one. I think we’re all just kranky cause we don’t know if they’re coming back but there were about 12 posts asking “has anyone else got empty lists?” and I just got so frustrated!

ok but why are ppl not checking if other ppl have asked the same fucking question already? like i see 10+ of the same question every hour, its pmo

sameee, its genuinely getting annoying how ppl keep asking the same thing over and over again without bothering to see if anyone else has asked the same question, like i literally see 10+ of the same question every hour, it's getting ridiculous at this point

That’s exactly it. I’m posting faq on every question and it’s just… I’m tired my dude

Well quite. I think a lot is chatgpt’s fault, everyone just asks a question now instead of searching (not just on here, but bloody everywhere)

100%. the amount of times I've told a person to Google the question they are asking and they just regurgitate whatever the Google ai tells them is insane. I'm sick of tech at this point. I think we need to go back to when you had to actually search for your answer

People just want to feel supported in the community via new and fresh discussions about a problem. Your comment too containing the FAQ will be gone, washed away into the next pages of posts and no longer helpful. Who here actually scrolls to the next page to look at old posts? Genuinely people can't have community support now without someone being mad? That's so sad.

stfu "new and fresh discussions"??? LMAO there's nothing new and fresh about asking the same question 100x in a day, and how can u be so lazy that you can't even look on the next pages of posts? thats some bs right there

As I said above it’s not the support, it’s the “where have my lists gone?” questions. Also I’m not mad, I’m tired of it. I think it’s sad people can’t manage two weeks without their lists, or the idea that maybe the lists are gone forever, but I’m still trying to be helpful. Can I not get community support of my own from other people who are sick and tired of people who cba to LOOK for five minutes?

That's sad of you.

Well I think we all just have to agree we find different things sad and leave it there.

You've never had a hard time and simply seeking to talk about it with people who are going through the same thing, huh? It's similar to group therapy. Simply sharing experiences, even if repeated experiences, help ease the worry and anxiety a bit. That is the support I'm referring to. Not 'support' as in seeking answers to a question. That's not very tact of you and lacking empathy.

There’s literally a new post asking about where their lists have gone and this post was at the top of the list, atp it’s laziness, there’s no scrolling needed

EXACTLYYYY

wtf "group therapy"??? "empathy"??? what the fuck are you talking about? it's not like we're discussing someone's traumatic experiences here, we're talking about how ppl keep reposting the same fucking questions all the time these past couple of days without bothering to check if anyone has had the same problem. what are you on about anyways???

I don’t have to explain my life to you but I’m 50 years old, autistic, my husband is paralysed, so I’m a full time care, and I suffer from ptsd, so I’m pretty insulted by this bs now. How dare you suggest I haven’t ever had a hard time, or that I’m not empathetic, just because I’m not sympathising with people about a website going down. I know exactly the kind of support you meant, and I’ve said MORE THAN ONCE that my issue is with people asking the FIRST question not the other posts. I made this post because I want community support from other tired frustrated people. maybe you’re the one not being tactful about my feelings.

I've seen a lot of questions and alot of devastation over lost lists. This is still an experience, even if not a "traumatic" one. Furthermore, I'm not saying it is exactly like group therapy to warrant you pulling up a "someone needs real trauma to use therapy" card, I was simply making a comparison. You genuinely need to calm down and stop harassing people.

The only person here harassing people is you tbh. I tried to finish this discussion earlier, you carried on

if people are devastated because they lost a list of mangas they want to illegally read on an illegal site then they need to get a grip respectfully. it’s not “lacking empathy” to point out that repeating the same questions over and over again is pointless and annoying.

"devastation over lost lists" LMAO, uh, if you literally can't function and get traumatized by losing ur lists on this site, ur clearly not mature enough or mentally well enough to be on this site at all and u need actual therapy. its that much of a devastation bro, stop acting like it is. I also didn't say that you need real trauma to use therapy either, don't put words in my mouth that you pulled out of your ass.

I did first day of this chaos and got my answers for the moment.

I absolutely agree with you!! It was covering up people who were responding to those questions anyway. But I do understand it from both sides too.

Okay bro calm down I understand it from both sides. It’s annoying YES. But I think everyone’s on edge right now so rather than read they’re choosing to ask. I personally went directly to reading before asking questions too, but it is what it is. No need to get angry tho, hm? I’m chill rn I just wanted to see it from both angles.

Okay so I hear anal_fissure made a whole post about me being mean after I blocked them so this discussion would end. I unblocked them and tried to reach out privately, but theyve blocked me now so I guess I’m doing it here. This is what I tried to respond

I didn’t read your post because it was 3am here and I wanted to sleep. Basically I tried to disengage from you and you ignored that so I blocked you. That’s what I do now in online discussions. It’s part of my therapy which helps me set boundaries and manage my anger.
I was frustrated by all the posts asking where lists had gone but instead of being rude on those posts I made a separate one to vent the frustration.
I 100% understand everyone”s upset otherwise I’d have had a go on every post. I need to vent my frustration where people understand, just like you were saying how people want reassurance. I tried to explain that, but you didn’t listen. You continued the discussion and insulted me so I blocked you. Maybe I should have said I was doing that before I did so.
I read through this post, and I’ll always apologise if I think I’m in the wrong, but quite honestly I’ve not said anything here I regret. I haven’t been mean to you anywhere, and I don’t know any of these other users, so saying me and “my friends” were bullying you and making a whole post complaining about me when you know I’ve blocked you is unfair and a bit pointless.

Their post is either deleted or it’s because I’m blocked, so I can’t read or respond there either btw

heyy, uhh what about the new posts about someone sending an email to mgg and getting a reply back that they lost the files??

I haven’t seen that yet, this is from a couple of night’s ago