I think everyone here has good suggestions of taking a step back, finding other hobbies and interests.
I will say if you are feeling out of control (and I say this with all the kindness in my heart) it wouldn't be a bad idea to seek out a professional. A licensed professional would hear what you have to say without judgement, and maybe pinpoint wh...... 1 reply
I'm a non American, so this is an outsiders view, but I find it interesting that my European and Asian friends don't have this morality stance that many Americans do.
They are able to separate fiction from reality.
I think (again just what I've observed) somewhere a lot of Americans began to equate social activism with the content they consume wh...... 3 reply
I've got a bit of an interesting story. My brother used to be against feminine things and he was a little homophobic. I think it was little things in our life, and our dad definitely prioritized masculinity, and it didn't help having a sister like me who would make fun of him if he played with dolls (Trust me, I've reflected on it). He became frien...... 1 reply
1) I definitely think it's because of the romanticized stories they see in BL. That or maybe someone wants to try out a penis for a day. I don't think its abnormal to think about what your life would be like as the opposite sex.
2) And I think this has more to do with how we still view masculinity in a healthy light in men, vs femininity. It's a s...... reply
Depends who my partner is. If my partner is shy or insecure, I want them to gain confidence and be more dominating, but macho/dominating guys I would love to humble.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ reply