non's Things

I think everyone here has good suggestions of taking a step back, finding other hobbies and interests. I will say if you are feeling out of control (and I say this with all the kindness in my heart) it wouldn't be a bad idea to seek out a professional. A licensed professional would hear what you have to say without judgement, and maybe pinpoint wh......   1 reply

I'm a non American, so this is an outsiders view, but I find it interesting that my European and Asian friends don't have this morality stance that many Americans do. They are able to separate fiction from reality. I think (again just what I've observed) somewhere a lot of Americans began to equate social activism with the content they consume wh......   3 reply

I've got a bit of an interesting story. My brother used to be against feminine things and he was a little homophobic. I think it was little things in our life, and our dad definitely prioritized masculinity, and it didn't help having a sister like me who would make fun of him if he played with dolls (Trust me, I've reflected on it). He became frien......   1 reply

Depends who my partner is. If my partner is shy or insecure, I want them to gain confidence and be more dominating, but macho/dominating guys I would love to humble.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~   reply

Mmm I wouldn't say it's hypocritical. People just like what they like. I would guarantee you most people that read yaoi and see that the seme rape the uke would know it's wrong, but it's a fantasy and a safe fantasy because it's written and not experienced. Also there are people that like hardcore stuff too, and that's fine too. I would only be wo......   reply