Can we acknowledge the top is a dunce? I get liking someone but please stand up and have some self respect. He's the one that obsessed over someone he mostly knew on screen and thought he'd be a prince when he's a selfish shithead. Woojoon will be strung along forever cz he's too much of a pussy to let go of a high school romance that given ten years wouldn't matter. In his own right he's a loser and thinks holding onto those feelings makes him a romantic guy.
Jo was always going to be hot enough to be desired but not to be chosen. I love the ending for him regardless of how painful it was. He is free from being Ian's option B. If he had stayed together following how the story played out Ian would definitely cheat on him and eventually leave him for tj. If you really care for his character you should at least try to see that he isn't stuck in a cuck chair. Mans already had a nightmare walking in on Ian being fucked by TJ. If we consider how Ian and tj were always lusting for each other was that nightmare not going to become a reality at some point? Jo is free to live his life and most of all find love that will choose him always. Even if you love the joian chemistry you can't deny it was very one sided and in season three it's unbearable to read through cz Ian was just so over what he and Jo had going on and was sticking around out of guilty.
Fated mates give me the ick cz it's just the embodiment of entitlement. I remember this one bl where the MC was dumped by his ex for the so called fated mate who ended up abusing the ex. They came back cry to the MC apologizing and not knowing what to do. They didn't know how to leave and the MC intervenes and saves her and tells her she doesn't have to tolerate that shit for something that destroys her regardless of how much her instincts are screaming at her to stay.
Another thing loving is knowing. Getting to know someone is how love should always be. Being driven by very animalistic instincts and calling it love just defeats the purpose. That is just two beasts fucking. Nothing romantic about that destiny/fate bs if you literally have no freedom of choice.
Champion athlete and his physiotherapist kneeling on the street confessing their love for each other. The tabloids would have a field day with this. Joo jaekyung biggest scandal.
I know it's not the definitive end cz we'll get their side stories and potato-heesung stuff I'm looking forward to all that.
I have my criticisms about this story but I was entertained and to me that is what matters most. Doyak said it was gonna be different and it really was cz for once the MC wasn't a Mary Sue that you feel you have to constantly make excuses for. Ian is so flawed and that's why he's one of my all time fave MCs. He makes poor choices, he's unpredictable and just a human who is trying to get it. I loved it all even the angst was worth it. I know they'll never be side stories but I hope doyak changes her mind one day. We didn't get enough old men yaoi out of this. I wanted to see what their normal everyday routine as just regular civilians looks like like who does the domestic work, who does the taxes etc. I know TJ is probably the one who plans dates and vacations but I wanted to see Ian's romantic input too. Maybe one day but who knows. All that being said this was enough cz it's enough to at least fill in the gaps. Bye wetsand.
I saw someone say tjian aren't married and I genuinely don't get how y'all just ignore the obvious for your egos. They've been together so long and they already had an equivalent of the couple rings with the earrings and chains. I don't know how y'all think they'd just be living together till they're old with just couple rings. Ian bought TJ a house no one does shit like that for couple rings. That's some permanent shit right there. And he did it even before TJ got out of prison just goes to show Ian was a man on a mission. He always wanted the normal quiet life just with tj and no one else. I don't know why y'all think both would settle for anything less.
Another thing I saw was a Jo fan saying Ian be cheating on TJ and I laughed at that. Given the context of the story who was the one being played? TJ knew about Jo and Ian and even though he was jealous deep down he knew Ian wasn't serious about that man and that's why they continued to fuck cz Ian especially didn't really have that much respect for his relationship with Jo. That shit wasn't happening bcz of TJ, Ian was the common denominator. If this man liked Jo he would have pushed TJ away instead of them indulging each other. For most of the series Jo is the main who isn't taken seriously and just played by Ian with tj. And they weren't going to stop even if Jo and Ian got serious cz Ian is heavy on his love and lust for tj. He's so shameless and unapologetic about it that's why even in the end he doesn't discuss his relationship with tj to Jo even when Jo wants the truth. Another thing Jo's own jealousy and insecurity keeps him from accepting the truth that he's a substitute and the moment Ian gets what he wants from TJ he'd be dropped. It's something that he acknowledges when he asks Ian if he's found what he was looking for. Jo, deep down always knew ,something he acknowledges again, that his end with Ian was coming but he didn't have the courage to let go.
Y'all are obsessed with the switching thing when it's clear that cheol didn't want to do it and doesn't want to do it and his feelings on it are absolutely valid. Like I get the appeal of it but him puking put me off from ever wanting to see that shit. If it is not consensual and met with enthusiasm please just keep it.
This is why convos about consent on here are always performative cz y'all only care about consent when it's your fav bottom but when a top doesn't want such boundaries crossed all of a sudden it's "he could have just lubed him up." Utterly disgusting.
Consent can be taken back it's not absolute. The moment he puked and showed he didn't like it, consent was immediately rescinded. If your understanding of consent is this shallow you shouldn't be reading this story. Also he wanted to try it to please minyoung not because he was buzzing with excitement to get his ass pounded. That also matters. So yet it has everything to do with consent.









No one was a saint in this story but the way some of you pretend like Cain didn't try to manipulate jooin into accepting the past life stuff for months when joo made it very clear from the beginning he didn't want it will forever flabber my gast. That whole shit was so toxic yet people claim it was the most romantic part of the story. Don't bring up yahwi bs cz he is consistently crucified and rightfully so. I just will never get how Cain was the better man when he lied his way into jooins life and lied to stay in it as long as he did. Jooin telling him at the end he doesn't know who he is is easily one of the most well written parts of the series. It's makes so much sense. Cz fr how can you know someone who just lied always about who they truly were? The realest we see Cain is when he's being a spoilt entitled brat to his family. Maybe it's just my personal opinion, I'd never fuck with someone who treats his family like that especially when they've accomodated him always when he's so weird.