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Bruh at least assess the situation they've been when they first met again, you think you wanna lore drop a guy who almost shot you on your first day and forgot who he slept with way back?

Calm down, why you getting so mad? Girl if you like the story that’s fine but you can’t pretend this lore drop now is any better

I'm not md tho

Did you forget the part where Maxi did what she did to avoid a civil war and/or Riftan and her running away to another country abandoning everything he worked so hard for??

A divorce would make no damn sense plot wise and would be the dumbest thing ever! When be said he wouldnt wait for her it was more of a “Im going to stop loving you” type thing because he doesnt want to be a fool for love like his mother which makes much more sense then a stupid dicorce

Oh the 13 year olds have woken up, alright sweetheart idk why you find the “I’m not going to stop loving you” so novel when it’s the plot of 173894929393 manhwas

Sweetheart come on at least TRY to read the previous chapters, we literally had a monologue from Maxi about them being trapped by each other. Maxi WANTS TO LEAVE TOO FOR HER GROWTH I literally said it was PARTLY why, open yo damn eyes. Why are you so against Maxi choosing this partly for her growth? Damn yall only care about romance

I am not against Maxi leaving for her own growth, never did I say that. I only clarified it wasn't her sole reason or even her initial reason for going.

Eh, it honestly wouldn’t make sense for him to leave just like that I mean the man spent his whole life pinning over maxi to the point he worked his way up. If he followed with a divorce not only would it have been for nothing but his character would’ve been stuck in an awkward position because everything he did was for her. If he followed with a divorce it’s like what is he gonna do now? Idk I just don’t think it would make sense but I get what you’re saying as it would give an opportunity for both to grow but idk it’s hard thinking about what riftan would do next since his whole thing is being devoted to his wife Maxi.

yeah right u see a women could never xD

Girl you came here spitting facts

Except they're married? You're just going to divorce your spouse because they have to go away for a few years? They're not bf/gf going off to different colleges or some shit. Not to mention Riftan had gone off to battle (which was going to take who knows how long and he might die) and was more than okay making Maxi stay behind.

She's just going to magic school for 3 years. It'd be like your spouse having to go away for work or something. It's fine if he leaves her at the castle for X amount of days/months but she can't leave the castle without him? Any time Maxi tries to take initiative with something (even if it's dumb) he doesn't try to understand her and shoots her down.

huh.. when u put it like that it gives a different perspective. but the thing is we only have Maxi's pov.,and she is right.. its a character development and growth for herself.. Riftan on the other hand.. loves Maxi so immensely that he would burn the world only if they could stay together. kinda pisses me that he's only thinking of Maxi and what he thinks is best for her.. he's not listening to what Maxi is saying..at all.. i understand that he doesn't want to be apart from her, but c'mon man.. you have a whole territory to run too.. and a knighthood to lead. yes he might have trauma ,and he doesn't want to be like his mom.. waiting.. but.. i am hoping.. he will have growth too.. because thats just sad that he'd rather die than to let Maxi go

Uh why don’t you read this and answer it. If you share the same view in that Maxi is unfair to divorce Riftan were he to leave on some self improvement journey, then that’s fine. The only problem is if you are a hypocrite. Note: If you say “ohh but Maxi didn’t leave Riftan whem he went off to war?”, that’s irrelevant. There’s a diff between Maxi not leaving of her own choice and Maxi being forced not to leave, which we have no evidence of.

“Let’s turn the tables: if Riftan had told Maxi he wanted to grow as a knight and asked her to wait while he goes off on a 4-year journey, would you not agree that Maxi has EVERY RIGHT to say that’s not what she wants as his wife, and get a divorce?”

Yeah definitely, like if your partner decides they need to grow and have to be apart from you as a consequence, you have every right to decide you can’t wait for them. I think some readers romanticize relationships as “oooh true love can overcome anything” and then they ignore the practical difficulties. Being away from your partner with little contact can be hard for some people. I’d never fault my own partner for deciding an LDR wasn’t for them.

“Except they're married? You're just going to divorce your spouse because they have to go away for a few years?” yeaa i don’t like this. you’re minimizing and invalidating people’s needs in a relationship. idk if u know but usually it’s husbands who tell their wives that they need to work overseas and move up in their career, and the wife is expected to suck it up or uproot their family to be close with the husband.

You ahe forgotten something... Riftan DID leave for quite a while and told Maxi to sit like a cute doll and wait...

What is wrong with you people seriously. Zero reading comprehension skills. They are married in the medieval times not current times. He was forced to go to war both times. He never went willing. Maxi even followed him the second time secretly because she didn’t want to be apart either. Maxi isn’t leaving for months but minimum 3 years. They don’t know what can happen in 3 years. They can’t meet and they can’t communicate during that time. She made the decision without even telling him first let alone discuss it. They were already separated for 3 years and he went through hell just to be reunited with her. They’ve hardly been reunited for 1 year and they’re separating again. He’s valid in feeling hurt and betrayed that his beloved wife is leaving and there’s no certainty they’ll ever be together again.

My brother… I had added this to be extra clear:

“Note: If you say “ohh but Maxi didn’t leave Riftan whem he went off to war?”, that’s irrelevant. There’s a diff between Maxi not leaving of her own choice and Maxi being forced not to leave, which we have no evidence of.”

Yeah that is a really good point. Maxi is leaving partly for her own growth and partly because she thinks this is the best way save the kingdom. Riftan was made to fight the war because Maxi’s garbage excuse for a father coerced him to, it’s not like he had much of a choice lol.

And the point still stands: had Maxi decided “I don’t want to wait for my husband for years while he’s fighting a war”, she would have been just as valid to get a divorce. Just like how Riftan is also valid in deciding he can’t wait for Maxi to train at the mage tower.

Exactly, and the whole argument that Maxi could have just gotten a divorce tells me people aren't understanding the time period in which this is set. Maxi is a WOMAN in MEDIEVAL times, she has ZERO rights. She is in the eyes of every noble in that kingdom, her husband's property. The fact that Riftan even allows her to study magic is blasphemy to most of them. She literally wouldn't have been able to divorce Riftan without HIS permission.

Riftan's reaction and ultimatum is actually reasonable for men of this time period. Most men would have simply stated "You aren't leaving because I'm telling you." because the men OWNED their wives.

Riftan's trauma is so severe and he's clearly never once fully found a way to process it and it's coming to bite him in the ass with his marriage. But I agree with the earlier comment about if this was in reverse and Maxi was the one to give the ultimatum, there'd be no problems because some of the readers here would congratulate her for being a "Girl Boss".

I think he does have some deep rooted issues that are a heavily toxic trait in this relationship that will need to be addressed, but let's be honest, Maxi has her own issues too that contribute to the toxicity. She is taking advantage of the fact Riftan is so lenient with her, which allows her to grow that backbone, but she's also disregarding Riftan's feelings too, just as much as he is with her.

Her main goal right now isn't that Riftan is suffering over the idea that he's going to lose ALL contact with his wife for the next 3 years MINIMUM, a wife who is rather frail and he knows he can't storm Nornui and the magic tower if she ends up being bullied. Her main goal is achieving this sense of new found freedom and gaining that self-confidence (which again, she's entitled to grow herself as a character), but she's ignoring the blatant issue here.

The fact that she chose this path for herself without even considering her marriage at all. There's two people in a marriage and a massive decision like her going to Nornui is something they should have discussed together, a long hard conversation of what it would mean and for them to come up with ways in which they can both come to terms with their separation, TOGETHER. She didn't consider this and now there's conflict, but this was the only outcome when she makes decisions about such important things without considering that there's two people that make marriages work.

And before many of you bite my head off over "It's Maxi's life, she should be allowed to live as she pleases", I have two things to say. 1. Yes, she is entitled to live as she pleases, but she must accept the consequences of those decisions because her actions often don't just affect her, they affect those who love and care for her (like when she ran off to war behind Riftan's back and ended up injured and miscarried). And 2. Again, this is set in a time period where women didn't have any rights and the simple fact that she's allowed to study anything outside of etiquette and wife lessons is extremely rare - the princess even said had she not been a mage, she'd have been sold off to the highest bidder for an alliance marriage.

Like Nanjo my guy why you so eager to ride that dick when you be mad as hell