Sofia's Topics (448)

This is a real thing..
i heard once about a woman, her husband divorced her, thinking that this way she will feel like she cant live without him and that he is important
Ans when he found out she is working and living well, has a boyfriend, he got angry saying that she used him
This arrogant ppls minds work differently, they think the world revolves around them

I mean,I do get that some men think their woman wouldn't survive without them,but that's the thing with Mincheol and Na heeso.SHE WAS THE ONE TAKING CARE OF HIM.She was the one working to pay the bills and the debts,she was the one cleaning and cooking.So clearly she was able to take care of herself and he was the useless one.That's why I don't understand from where he takes his confidence from

what I understood about his 360 personality change.

-In high school, he was the most popular, intelligent and deeply admired by everyone in the school and old folks. Which it gave him a hero confidence.
-He considers himself the saviour to Haesoo, he took her away from an abusive household and decided to use his university savings to build a home with Haesoo together.

-He understimated adult life. He considered himself a hero and he thought that without studying and working hard will help both, but once the reality touched him, he became more bitter. There are moments he said when he was a teenager "I can do everything" but that was just his inner narcissim which was covered by heroism.

- Once poverty knocks the door, the love leaves

-He wanted a child with Haesoo, when he learned that Haesoo was unable to have kids because of her weak body, that was his ultimate breaking point. He resent her for everything he considered "a sacrifice".

I think the real problem about having kids was Mincheol, I'm almost sure he is infertile and not Haesoo, but he doesn't know.

-He considers himself special, because he has still the image of himself from highschool. He understimates constantly his coworkers, He thinks Haesoo is inferior and a dormant because she was bad at school, He thinks he is handsome because everyone told him.

-He thinks he's the only one that made sacrifices but Haesoo always worked and probably overworking made her body weaker. Haesoo

Mincheol is the withered flower.

He is a man.
The majority of men are like him. Nice on the surface to get the ladies they want, and later mistreat them.
He has always been selfish, and was attracted to Haesoo's beauty and poverty.
He knows that she is very beautiful and most men with money want her either physically or emotionally.
Think how he viewed her as a prostitute.
Prostitutes are unfortunately victims of sex trafficking or/and poverty.
Haesoo is extremely poor. So he bought her with nice words

He is a man. Typical of them

I also have the theory that minshit is the one who cannot have kids.

it's not unnecessary, it's the story Euja wanted to tell!!

I understand but it's Literally ALTERNATE universe. Many writers do this to experiment with ideas they aren't completely dedicated to, so they don't wanna draw it as full fledged story. Just a short ride.

Rape will always be unnecessary

the act, the crime we abhor, yes - but ofc no one means that.
we mean as one of the tragedy elements for the story to set the mood for the story (rape, death, murder, torture, loss of a limb, loss of a sense, loss of a s/o, etc)

all of these are, by your definition, unnecessary. but then, nothing would ever happen in fiction (￣∇￣")

Again, rape will ALWAYS be unnecessary
EVEN in fiction...but ofc if it were a stranger that raped the MC you'd be singing a different tune


Death, losing a body part, murder, torture, when are these ever done by the main characters towards the love interest or vice versa and it's okay???
But I guess according to you it's okay because the love interest is good looking, the story is cute and it's fiction.

You can include those tragedies...but when the love interest/mc is the one whos supposed to be the other's "happy place/home" then it'll always be unnecessary.

It's true, the story is cute and adorable but the only reason I'm looking past the rape part and ANYONE should be looking past these things is because it is fiction.
Doesn't mean you get to excuse it ever
You can can literally, "this story was soo cute, I love it sm but the rape part was so offputting"

I was already put off when MC started bleeding and the LI didn't care, almost dropped it even.

Not to mention the story could've still survived if he didn't rape him, creativity is endless.
These things are just wayyy too normalised in this community


But I won't start something under someone else's thread, forgive me

i wouldnt be saying any differently if Euihyun were originally raped by a random 68yo mob, i repeat: it's the tragedy the author composed for the story, so it is necessary. it's not up to you, hun ╮(￣▽￣)╭

when these atrocities are done to MC by the ML?
all. the. time, girl. never heard of dark romance??
just finished reading an update of one where the MC finally comes to terms that with his feelings for ML, who is the same guy who murdered and destroyed his entire village, including his MOTHER, then later MC even eats one of ML's fingers (he isnt human)

watching characters being betrayed then killed by loved ones; or just ppl getting murdered in general in movies all these years hasnt normalized murder for us (as we've seen from the shock from those ICE murders, for ex.)

so manhwas sure as he'll won't normalize rape, come on.

and yes, the story is good, it would've survived without ch2 rape scene, but again, it's the story the author wanted to tell. and in a/b/o settings, you'll rarely see something else.

yeah same i wanna see seojun and joohan focused only

wot- there are couples in this thing????