Are you a virgin because no one has really approached you. Or did you do a lot of rejecting?
Personally, I am a virgin because I haven't really met the one. I have rejected people in the past, but recently not very many guys approach me. I feel like if a guy approaches me, and is somewhat my type, i'd probs lose my virginity to him, just out of curiosity.
I hope this question doesn't offend anyone. I am genuinely just curious in knowing!
Honestly, i also have similar mindset as you, tho not as far as being disgusted. I find it very peculiar that some people act like virginity is like a disease that they have to get rid of, especially during the teens. Some regard virgins as not being normal(?). I feel like sex should be more special and meaningful with the right person. I feel like...... 1 reply
I feel like I am 100% a masochistic uke
why: because I like it when a guy takes the lead, pushes me down, and knows what he's doing, it's just a major turn on for me 1 reply
I am a completely hopeless romantic so I'm always a little sad when I read romantic manga that portrays characters who have found "the right one" after they've lost their v-card. I feel the same when I hear stories like this in real life, even if sometimes they have no regrets losing their virginity to someone they don't love.
I don't consider myse...... 1 reply
I don't value virginity as I think that if you want to have some fun, have it. What you do with your body is your choice. Waiting for 'the one' or marriage to have sex doesn't seem like a bad thing, but what should matter more is the first time you do it with THEM and not your first time ever. Virginity shouldn't matter as much as it does, like eve...... 3 reply
I have the same mindset as you. I am always shocked to hear when people lose their virginity as a teenager (although I am not against having sex before marriage). I think it was just the way I was raised. My parents are Indian, and in India it is pretty much mandatory for a girl to remain a virgin before marriage (this is so stupid and the sexism i...... 1 reply
Hmm, I see why you think it's best to wait until marriage (I have a friend who thinks so too), but I really do believe the whole "marrying virgin" thing is heavily romanticised, and I'd like to warn you before you make that decision (again, totally up to you).
Sexual compatibility /is/ important in romantic relationships (well, unless you and/or yo...... 1 reply
well if i had a bf he has to be a uke cuz i just love cute boys and i don't want him to control me i wanna be the one in charge instead ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
if my bf had such a friend i'd definitely get them to do poses for me or kiss each other and be all lovey dovey but only in front of me :3 and of course he'll still be my bf cuz i'm really possessive...... reply
I think the importance of virginity is just a social construct to keep people (mostly women) in line. It's really not that big of a deal. More emphasis should be placed on doing the right thing for yourself and being emotionally and mentally readyto have sex and then how to do it safely. It's nothing of "value" and a person isn't less valuable or m...... 2 reply
As someone who's waited until 26, I can honestly say it was a waste of time. It was a very disenchanting experience and I wondered afterwards what the all the fuss was about. I regret not experiencing more as a teen, as now I found the one I want to spend my life with and I can't explore anymore without hurting him.
Also to quote Hal Sparks, "you...... 2 reply
