I was 15, with a guy in my neighborhood that I had a crush on, but he wasn't interested in any kind of relationship - so I felt used after. I also didn't have any adult role models I looked up to, so I think I was being careless and acting out a bit. I wish I had waited longer. I think young people are so influenced by media into thinking that se...... reply
Be careful when you want to have sex and don't rush. If you feel like it masturbate. I masturbate a lot lol - buy dildo or soemething like that. It's fun. reply
I lost mine at 14. It wasn't fun at all it was actually very weird and awkward and very painful. The pain actually pertained to the fact that my partner had no idea what he was doing as well. There was jazz music in the background and SpongeBob was on TV and it was just two awkward ninth graders going at it. My friends in my circle lost theirs fro...... 1 reply
My first time reading yaoi I immediately liked it. I was 13 at the time (4 years ago). Before I started reading it I was a fan of the series 'Supernatural'. I first found out about the shippings for the characters, which were all gay by the way, then I was introduced to anime then manga and I found my way to yaoi. I can't seem to read shoujo and s...... 1 reply
I'm an uber seme but I'm female, so frustrating. Finding a straight male uke seems impossible in my corner of the world. It seems I've been this way from birth, I am girly and will wear pretty dresses and heels and makeup but I just have a really dominant personality. It's even worse when sex is involved, I just have no pleasure in being pushed d...... 11 reply
It's really comforting seeing all of these other virgins in the answers. I've always felt like the fact that I'm 18 and still a virgin was something unusual or shameful but honestly, what's the rush? If you can't trust someone to make your first experience comfortable then you shouldn't feel pressured to do it. It's not fun if it's not comfortable....... 3 reply
