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Yaoi PET PEEVES [Answer]
ChrolloLucif
21 08,2020
> when uke is super femenine > when all female characters are portrayed as villainesses > when seme plays with uke until uke leaves, and then is suddenly so in love with uke he can’t stand to be apart from him > the number of nasty rapists that are all over the place > when uke doesn’t value himself and facilitates the seme’s shitty behavio......   1 reply
21 08,2020
Yaoi PET PEEVES [Answer]
astor 21 08,2020
Romanticizing rape. Also hate when they distinctly assign roles like “bottom” and “top”by appearance or height(it’s like they pretend versatility isn’t a thing and are hell bent on stereotyping and fetishizing those roles)   reply
21 08,2020
Zia 21 08,2020
I don't feel that reading Yaoi is fetishizing mlm relationships, I love yaoi with a good story and plotline, I don't really care about the sex scenes in yaoi either if the art and story are good anythings fine with me. The important thing is to know where to draw the line if you are normalizing rape in yaoi than there is a problem. I don't feel co......   1 reply
21 08,2020
Yaoi PET PEEVES [Question]
mirami234
21 08,2020
I'm 100% using this question to vent because there are
to many things I'm tired of in this tropey genre but I would aboslutely love to hear other vents aswell.

1. When the uke is raped, saved by the seme, and the rapist is (RIGHTFULLY) commended and scorned for his actions but then in the SAME manga the seme will repeatedly rape the uke and faces absolutely NOTHING and it's just completely forgotten about.
and it's just like,
"Don't worry darling :), I won't let any bastard scumbag treat you the way same way I treat you"
2. When the uke APOLOGIZES after being raped by the seme like it's completely his fault and this is played 100% straight and not problematic in the least
3. Unrelated but when the seme goes "Hmm... things have just gotten interesting >:)"
because I can't imagine a person in real life saying this line out loud and it not being cringe. Bonus points if it's to some completely mundane, normal reaction like being flustered when your personal space is invaded.
21 08,2020
Citrus
21 08,2020
1. Form your own opinions; if you don’t like it just stop reading. 2. Don’t tell people what kind of porn you like period.   1 reply
21 08,2020
It’s completely up to you if you wanna stop reading yaoi if you dislike rape scenes I would recommend shounen ai but if you wanna quit completely that’s fine too. And second it’s ok to like yaoi and only reading yaoi for explicit scenes isnt fetishizing it but I do agree that fetishizing gay men is when you think yaoi actually portrays real g......   1 reply
21 08,2020
I agree with this dude on practically every ruddy count. Like, 100%. Luv, don’t try to preach to the mob. Not-a-one will listen, because people HATE being told they’re in the wrong, because they don’t want to think about potentially correcting their behaviors. Seriously tho ladies, for fucks sake, STOP EXCUSING RAPE.   1 reply
21 08,2020
Okay so a couple things here: If someone doesn't do the things that people on this site get called out for all the time, they're the exception, not the rule. Most people here exhibit at least one or two of the, shall we say "problem behaviors". If a lot of mlm people say that yaoi fetishizes them, and someone "100% supports the lgbt community", I......   1 reply
21 08,2020
I understand how depictions of people in the media and fiction can create unconscious bias in people. Black people have literally been dealing with this forever. So I'd imagine it would not be that much different for LGBT.   3 reply
21 08,2020
No. Fetishising it would be obsessing over the relationships and just enjoying seeing two guys dating whatever. If you’re a straight cis girl of fucking course you’re gonna wanna watch two guys fuck. Dumb ass. Smh   4 reply
21 08,2020

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