no, dont do it, you will regret it later on, I know people who changed religions and traditions for their lovers but they regretted it, so its not worth it, love can come and go, its not lasting, especially if you are in your 20s. reply
If you gave up YOUR culture and identity, would you still best "you"? You still won't fit in and will start feeling trapped in marriage. Ultimately, your love would turn into resentment. So It’s won't be worth it. Please talk it out with your bf. If he truly loves you, he will understand and respect your decision and self identity. reply
girl, nothing is worth lising yourself, your identity. Stand your ground, if they do not respect your choice then fuck them. They weren’t worth it then. If he loved you fr he shouldnt be in davor for you to change your identity tf. Good luck sis reply
so i have been dating my bf for 6 years now and we wanna get married. my parents are happy and support our decision whereas his family will only allow it if i give up my identity i.e change my name to match their ethnicity, shift to their locality and totally integrate into their culture. no compromises. since this is a long standing tradition my bf is in favor of it but i am hesitant to do so bc i take great pride in the name my parents have given me, my culture and identity as a whole. what do you guys think i should do? would it really be worth it to give up my own sense of self for the sake of love?
My accounts pretty old and I read a lot on here so I'm not 100% certain, but I'm pretty sure I started with Attack on Titan cause I was too impatient to wait for the anime lol
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