Honestly I never cared about the whole virginity thing; is it important to you, or just because of what society says abt girls who start having sex early?
I had sex for the first time when I was 16, in the back of a dance floor in a club. It wasn't as glamorous as fiction makes it out to be, physical contact is quite simple and direct, I'd even ca...... 1 reply
The best way to answer your question would depend on other questions that YOU would need to think about... why do you value virginity in the first place? Is it a social/religious/family/peer norm or belief? What exactly do you think of yourself after you "lose" it? If it's about the fear of unwanted pregnancy, birth control (in its various forms) i...... reply
Hi! I'm a 26 (almost 27) virgin girl. Honestly there's not a "proper" age to lose your virginity, it really is when you feel like it. Have into consideration that wanting to lose your virginity really changes a lot from person to person due to different factors: gender (is more socially accepted for a boy to lose his virginity early than for a girl...... reply
I respect culture, first. dont believe in movies. their idea of youth is too powerful. second, if your culture says when its 18 you had to experience sex, then go with what your self would do in that situation. maybe because I grew up where your first is after marraige but what I think I would do is, "when we both wanted it" ...third Im at the age ...... reply
I'm 22w, lost my virginity at 18 after 1 year and about 7 months of relationship. I simply didn't want to have sex, I didn't feel the urge nor had an interest in it. I was also afraid of getting pregnant. But if you are using protection correctly and act responibly, there shouldn't be any harm. I eventually had sex with my then boyfriend, because ...... 1 reply
I'm 20 and I have no plans whatsoever to lose it anytime soon! Straight and 0% experience with irl romance. It's normal. 1000% normal.
For me it's something you preserve until idk you're completely sure that you want/its okay to lose it. Like when you're married or the right person comes along??
Tho ofc I come from a very conservative country so h...... 1 reply
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I'm 24, straight girl, and a virgin too.
I think a girl should choose when she wants to lose her virginity.
We are influenced a lot by society and the country we live in. For me, in Belgium, there was a lot of pressure about sex since I was 16. Like its "normal" to do it when you're around 18. I know there are countries a ...... reply
I am a 21-year-old straight virgin girl. I say, keep it until marriage. If you have sex with a guy there is ALWAYS a chance that you will get pregnant. There is also the risk of catching an STD. If you're willing to take the chance then okay. However, I really don't think it's worth it. For the sake of my future children and for my own sake, I'd r...... 2 reply
hii, I'm also 17 and I personally think sex at this age is normal. we all went through puberty and have more sexual desires when we are 16/17. its not wrong to think that it's to early that's just a personal look at things. I have friends who already did it and we can talk about it normally and stuff so I also it depends on the people you hang arou...... 2 reply
So I'm a 17 year old straigh girl, and I have 0 esperience in sex, love, relationship and in dating. But I question it. The thing that I want to know the most is when is the time to lose your virginity. I know that 'it's when you feel okay with it'' but I want a more especific thing, I want to know from where it is fine and 'okay' to lose it. When I was 10 and watch a movie where the couple had sex and they where 17 I thought like ''wow they are teens so I guess is fine'' but now that I'm 17 I always get chocked when I see people in my age that have already had sex. I don't feel that it's wrong, you do you boo, but I just don't know if this feeling of ''it's not the time so stop'' is somehow okay or am I wrong and having sex in my age is COMPLETLY normal. Tell me your experience pleaseeee
