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Help I need to know about virginity
So I'm a 17 year old straigh girl, and I have 0 esperience in sex, love, relationship and in dating. But I question it. The thing that I want to know the most is when is the time to lose your virginity. I know that 'it's when you feel okay with it'' but I want a more especific thing, I want to know from where it is fine and 'okay' to lose it. When I was 10 and watch a movie where the couple had sex and they where 17 I thought like ''wow they are teens so I guess is fine'' but now that I'm 17 I always get chocked when I see people in my age that have already had sex. I don't feel that it's wrong, you do you boo, but I just don't know if this feeling of ''it's not the time so stop'' is somehow okay or am I wrong and having sex in my age is COMPLETLY normal. Tell me your experience pleaseeee
This is the worst place to ask that type of question?! seriously. from bored and sexually frustrated housewives, scared to death virgins calling themselves asexuals, sexually frustrated virgins (some waiting for marriage, poor things), etc, etc. this is not the place to get a proper answer. most people here are immature youngsters and underage. you...... 3 reply
I am a 21-year-old straight virgin girl. I say, keep it until marriage. If you have sex with a guy there is ALWAYS a chance that you will get pregnant. There is also the risk of catching an STD. If you're willing to take the chance then okay. However, I really don't think it's worth it. For the sake of my future children and for my own sake, I'd r...... 2 reply
Honestly I never cared about the whole virginity thing; is it important to you, or just because of what society says abt girls who start having sex early?
I had sex for the first time when I was 16, in the back of a dance floor in a club. It wasn't as glamorous as fiction makes it out to be, physical contact is quite simple and direct, I'd even ca...... 1 reply
Aside from the fact that you can get pregnant or catch an STD if you dont protect yourself, virginity is essentially a social construct. It is not a tangible thing, yet people act like after you have sex for the first time you are going through a physical and psychological transformation, when literally all that might happen is that your vagina is ...... 3 reply
Hello (●'◡'●)ﾉ
I'm 24, straight girl, and a virgin too.
I think a girl should choose when she wants to lose her virginity.
We are influenced a lot by society and the country we live in. For me, in Belgium, there was a lot of pressure about sex since I was 16. Like its "normal" to do it when you're around 18. I know there are countries a ...... reply
I'd say waiting till you're out of highschool is actually quite nice.
(Chances are that then no one's gonna put the wrong parts in the wrong hole, or not know where the clitoris is, no one's gonna have weird expectations out of you and should make you more comfortable to take in what's going on and participate more. Of course there's always inexpe...... reply
Hi! I'm a 26 (almost 27) virgin girl. Honestly there's not a "proper" age to lose your virginity, it really is when you feel like it. Have into consideration that wanting to lose your virginity really changes a lot from person to person due to different factors: gender (is more socially accepted for a boy to lose his virginity early than for a girl...... reply
There are studies, if you really are interested: http://chartsbin.com/view/xxj
But "normal" is just not an adjective that really should apply to this question. Having sex has just too many variables to measure it, everyone develops at a different pace, has different circumstances etc. Most people have their first time while tey're teenagers or youn...... reply
hii, I'm also 17 and I personally think sex at this age is normal. we all went through puberty and have more sexual desires when we are 16/17. its not wrong to think that it's to early that's just a personal look at things. I have friends who already did it and we can talk about it normally and stuff so I also it depends on the people you hang arou...... 2 reply
