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Does this count as cheating on your lover?
So uh this is abit NSFW and I'll put a TW just incase but I've ranted before to ppl that I felt like a cheater for kissing someone else while I was drunk thinking it was my bf but it's actually my obsessive ex. Thing is... It didn't stop at just kissing but it went on that other level AKA sex. I've seen in tiktoks that "even if I was drunk I wouldn't mistake my lover for someone else" but I genuinely thought it was my bf cus I literally got drunk cus I missed him so badly and my love language is physical touch + quality time. Now my bf forgave me for the kissing part but I'm now thinking of adding more details... I feel guilty. I'm so afraid to tell more details cus tbh I did like the sex but when I learned it was my ex I felt disgusted. Abit conflicted cus i still had feelings for my ex at that time like what if it isn't because I missed my bf what if its because the fact I liked him. I don't rlly remember anything from that night I blacked out drunk and I just woke up feeling the worst person on earth.
girl u got sa’d… your ex had sex with you while you were blackout drunk… you could not consent to that… i think if ur bf is worth it he would understand 2 reply
what is wrong w the ppl in the comments. you got raped. you were black out drunk and taken advantage of. thats rape. it doesnt matter that it was someone other than ur bf. its rape. so no you didnt cheat. you, in the moment, thought it was ur bf. u were black out drunk. if ur gonna tell ur bf, please please please tell him how insanely drunk u were...... 7 reply
genuinely so confused by the comments here saying that you cheated... but you were literally black out drunk, how could you have properly consented to sex? depending on how drunk and aware your ex was that can also be considered sa. am i just missing smth cuz imo u didn't cheat? 3 reply
pooks no, it isn't. you got sa'd/rped, also, please stop drinking. it is your obsessive ex fault since he went along with it. nothing is your fault. i'm sure your bf would understand the situation your in. again, make sure to not drink that much. (〜￣△￣)〜 reply
Its clear the yaoi has started to rot your brains- you got sa'd and if your bf does not understand then that's a HIM problem and you should move on, ex knew you were with someone and continued whilst you were blackout drunk(he's a shitty person - just don't associate with him) 2 reply
All the people saying that u cheated r insane… you were blackout drunk and couldn’t tell the difference between your ex and boyfriend, you couldn’t have given consent and your ex literally took advantage of you.
I think you should tell your bf and it’ll be understandable if he gets a little upset (you did kinda keep this from him) but if h...... reply
This is something you should tell ur partner? things like these should be discussed one on one no matter how much advice you get from others. talk it over with THEM. Keeping something like this from them is horrible DOING THAT is horrible but yk that reply
