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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
I don't think it's normal to fantasize about other people while you/anybody is actively in a relationship, it may not be actually "cheating" but if you truly loved or liked your partner you wouldn't think of other people and fantasize about them. And if my partner told me that they did fantasize about someone else while we were in a relationship I ...... reply
