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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
So, between me and my husband we joke about it most of the time like "oh yeah I would fuck her/him" like jokingly as it's our way of saying that character is fine af (we only say it with fictional characters with actors or real people we say it in a respectful manner) but we don't ACTUALLY fantasize about it bc it would just put both of us off and ...... 1 reply
