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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
I think the point is you each have your own expectations in a relationship and just need to make sure they align. I personally point out hot women to my hubby when I see them because that man is oblivious as heck. I don’t mind him having fantasies and actually encourage them. I don’t want him putting me on a pedestal. But that’s my marriage. ...... reply
