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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
Why would you fantasize about someone else when you are in a relationship. It's a form of cheating. It just means you are fantasizing about fucking someone else because you cannot fuck them irl because of legality and morality. You would rather just go and cheat on your partner properly than fantasize about it. reply
