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am i dumb?
ok, so, I'm going to tell y'all my problem and I want your opinion to be HURTFUL as HELL (like I'm going to be awake from my delusions).
So, I have a crush on this guy, let's call him “J”. I have a crush on this guy for 3 or 4 years now (this is unusual to me because if i have a crush, it will just stays for less than a month) and then, when I was in the 8th grade I finally got the courage to confess my feelings for him by creating some dummy account. Fast forward, he accepts my feelings and told ME that he will think about it (my feelings for him). We chat and chat for hours. Fast forward again, I finally have the courage to tell him my real identity and this is when things gets mess up. He will give me some mixed signals because he will talk to me in some days for hours and he tell me some sweet things then some days he will just ignores me (ik he's ignoring me because he's online in every socials he have).
I finally have the courage to ask him “what are we?” and then he just replied “ewan ko, ano ba tayo sa paningin mo?”/ “idk, what are we in your POV?” (something like that). Then, he deleted his ig account. I have been trying to communicate with him for sometime now in his fb account. so, am i dumb for loving him even thought we are not in a relationship? T_T
I could probably give a thoughtful answer here but who has time for that. So the short version: yeah girl, you dumb as hell. Let the feelings exit your body via your tear ducts and then move on to better and brighter things 1 reply
Brokiwoski, brosquito, bronana... open your goddamn eyes. First of all, you aren't 'dumb' for having feelings. Falling for someone isn't a crime, and it's not your fault that you stayed loyal to your crush for so long
But you need to see the situation for what it is, if a guy likes you, you’ll know. if he doesn’t, you’ll be confused. the fac...... reply
No you're not dumb, liking someone doesn't make you dumb. I would say stop liking him cause from what I can tell he has no intention of liking you back, he's just leading you or taking advantage of your feelings, maybe because of his ego that kept giving you mixed signals even though he doesn't like you. A guy who enjoys playing with other people's...... 1 reply
why are people lying to you? youre a fraud, madame.
"I finally got the courage to confess my feelings for him by creating some dummy account"
???? im dead. 2 reply
Talking from my own experience, no it's not your fault and you're not dumb. You can't control your feelings after all. I had an ex who acted exactly like your crush. Sometimes he would be affectionate and close, next day he would be cold, treat me like we were complete strangers. He ghosted me when he didn't need me, he hurt me plenty of times and ...... 1 reply
Nah you aren't dumb, though just because someone's online doesn't mean they're like being active there and stuff. Still though, a guy who truly likes you will talk to you every single day but at the same time it doesn't need to be every day to be real. Just confront him more about it like ask him if he's serious. This is a complicated matter that c...... 1 reply
First of all, tangina talaga ng mga lalaki. Second, no it was not your fault for hoping and assuming of the situationship you had with him kasi third, he led you on knowing there are feelings involved from your part. Mahirap mag move on sa ilang years of liking someone, but I hope you heal from what you experienced! ^^ reply
You aren't dumb he's just not emotionally available and a total loser who can't commit. Don't stick around just move on there are better guys in this world reply
Your not dumb for feeling that way but he is stupid for giving you a mixed signal if he doesn't like you he could've just said so but no instead he avoided your question and made you guessed kung ano talaga kayo, and heres the thing if he deleted his socials just cut contact with him dont talk to him, forget him because its pretty clear taht his no...... reply
