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Anyway... He's my junior ... I'm 2 years older than him but like he's way taller ( well not the point but ok) .... So we're super friendly and he's kinda like a dog cute time always calling and talking to me... And then we got holiday and suddenly he texted love you ( which btw he have never said before) and even said it on phone call.... And he asked if I was not interested in dating or currently dating someone and i said I wasn't dating anyone until I get a job? Which would be like after 6 months and he also kinda now the timeline .... But I do like him and now he's hardly texted me... I mean it's still friendly but now he doesn't initiates the text unless he's drunk?? So am I cooked or was he just looking for a substitute for his one sided love ( he asked a girl out which btw has a bf before we became close)
He sounds like he has dismissive avoidant attachment. He got too intimate and things started to get real, so he pulled away and shut down. Do yourself a favor and learn about attachment, it will change your life! It would have saved me years of heartbreak had I learned sooner. 1 reply