should people who don't love themselves get into a relationship?

I've recently had this conversation with my bsf and we have different opinions. I'll make them short.

hers was
: There is no boundary in Love, they can enter a relationship if they want to. Not loving yourself doesn't imply that you can't love anyone.

while mine was that
: I don't agree because the most important type of love is SELF-LOVE. Why would you shower someone with the love you can't even give to yourself?

I think neither of us was wrong and we just had different approaches, we didn't agree abt this cause I always ask her opinions.

Can you guys share your thoughts on this one too? I'd love to read them too cause everyone has different opinions, the way I interpreted mine could be wrong to others but I'd like to know