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what you think about envy?
Hey girls, I'd like to know what you think about envy. Lately, I've been feeling envious, not in a bad way, but when I see girls who manage to finance their studies thanks to associations, donations, or scholarships, I really wonder what I'm doing wrong. Sometimes I start crying and get depressed. I just tell myself that I want to do what I love, but unfortunately, my efforts aren't enough. And I hear things like, "You have to be content with what you have," but how can I be content with that? I just want to study and succeed.
I envy people who can socialize and basically can present themselves to a high number of people, please take away my shyness, stage fright and nervousness, I also want to confidently sing in front of a huge audience reply
feeling envy is fine. acting upon it in a harmful way, that's a no.
now what I'm most envious is that super rich people who can buy anything in the world without a second thought. me when?（￣へ￣） reply
everytime i feel envy i feel like I'm the ugliest, I became so frustrated with myself especially when i feel envious of those who are close to me. What helped me was writing down my frustrations then sleep, I'll forget what I wrote and when envy surfaces again, I'll write it again then forget. By doing this, those feelings did not accumulate and wo...... 3 reply
Well I'd probably go crazy if I think too much about this emotion. I've already convinced(still trying) myself that I am satisfied with my life, so no, I will not let myself dig my own self pity hole for trying to think about all the things I am envious about. Been there, done that, not a good place to be. reply
i try not to get upset other things that i can't control and tbh, it works pretty well. but im also saying that as a person who is detached from general life and is kind of expecting to end up a homeless bum sooner or later.
unfortunately, unless you're pretty and smart and rich and funny and kind and healthy and fit the beauty standard of the are...... reply
Ngl I used to have a massive crush on Envy from FMA:B when I was a kid (I was allowed to watch it with my older sister bc she told me to look away when there was the overly violent bits - with my parents permission).
The fact that I couldn't tell what their gender was and still liked them anyways should've been a dead giveaway that I was pan.
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Envy is okay to feel, it’s a human emotion. It’s how you respond to it that can make a difference. You need to force yourself to have a positive outlook (if you struggle with this, affirmations can help trick your brain into thinking more positively over time, especially when you say them out loud). Once you start getting hope again, figure out...... reply
I envy people who are good at math. I think I have dyscalculia, when I worked as a cashier in a laundry shop and coffee shop before, I couldn't calculate fast. Counting the change gave me anxiety. It made me slow at counting, and the customers were annoyed because I couldn't give their change fast. I do have bipolar disorder, but I didn't know at t...... reply
I envy middle class white American childhood cuz it always seem prevalent in movies
But yk its whatever I managed to get over it and appreciate my culture more, I still feel a bit of bias but im working on it, genuinely. reply
