I never make those posts, I dont like being involved in drama, because I usually promote the idea that to each their own and that anyone has right to hold their opinion.
But I will not stand for the transphobia my friends are facing because of disgusting pieces of shit like this. I will not stay silent for people who face the same oppression as any minority. You can't support a group while taking the right of another, stop reading BL you piece of shit, me, and as I'm sure plenty of gay CIS men, don't want you reading stories representing us as a community.
No trans person wants to be treated as special, what those poor people want is to be treated like the normal human being they are. No wonder our society hasn't managed progress in so long, there's fucks like you that think trans people are the problem. Go ahead, join your other MAGA pieces of turd. You're not welcome in this community, or frankly any community that attains common sense.
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"i dont give a shit about trans hardship" babe i dgaf about your straight cis man problem wrap it up
As if there's any to begin with. The biggest hardship I had to go through being a white man is accepting the reality that most people who share my skin tone and gender are awful people
If a person uses a toilet, it's a need. Whoever that person maybe. Wtf is the issue? It's not like they're shitting in your mouth just let them use the toilet bro. Are we serious?
cis people wanna be oppressed so bad i cant just let us breath man
Wdym "assault"? Having consensual sex with the person you love can never be assault. wtf
"rights to be straight" are straights oppressed or something? why do they want to be oppressed so bad
This og poster must've been high when she wrote that
The trans bathroom thing is a bit controversial bc let’s be honest there’s has been cases with people who claims to be trans has sexually assaulted/harass cis women when the bathroom is supposed to be a place where you do your business and leave. We can’t favour a minority of people over the other and there’s needs to be some type of balance which is why I’m pro trans washrooms. Is there’s none then it would be best to go to washrooms based of your biological sex and you can sue whomever that stops you.
As for when it comes to relationships I agree with the other woman too. Trans people should tell the person their dating if their trans. Like would you know want a partner that’ll love you and don’t care if you’re trans? It doesn’t make sense to hurt yourself and the other person if you lie.
Also gays and lesbians have the right to be with bio men and women I mean people who call themselves gay,bi, and lesbian should date the bio sex no? And if they date trans people is that not pan?
omfg but that’s not the POINT !!! you can’t blame someone for being trans, just because they SAed someone. are you hearing urself ?? it’s transphobic because it’s the same thing racist use to be xenophobic.
them being a sexually assaulter has NOTHING to do with them being transgender.
Okay I'll try to kindly reply, giving you the benefit of the doubt, ppl are nitpicking shit cause they want to hate, now,
new transphobic added to the list
The problem with this argument is that you’re taking the existence of individual offenders and using it to justify restricting an entire group. Obviously, if someone sexually assaults or harasses someone in a bathroom, they should be held accountable. Being trans doesn't excuse sexual assault. But that applies regardless of whether the offender is cis or trans.
And the evidence doesn't really support the idea that letting trans people use bathrooms matching their gender creates a measurable increase in danger to cis women. A 2025 review from the Williams Institute found no evidence that these policies increased stranger victimization, while trans people themselves consistently report harassment, assault, and being denied access to bathrooms, if we're talking statistically here, trans people are facing far more danger than cis people are. Also, “if there’s no trans bathroom, use the bathroom based on biological sex” isn't a neutral compromise. A trans man being forced into a women's bathroom and a trans woman being forced into a men's bathroom can create exactly the confrontation you're supposedly trying to prevent. The research I mentioned earlier also found trans people can face more harassment when using bathrooms corresponding to their sex assigned at birth.
As for dating: I agree that people should be honest with partners about things that are relevant to the relationship, but “trans people should always disclose before dating” isn't as simple as you make it sound. Being trans is personal medical information, and nobody is entitled to someone's private information merely because they're attracted to them. There is a difference between having a conversation about sexual compatibility and informed consent and treating trans people as if they have an obligation to announce their medical history to anyone they're interested in.
And the last point is a bit contradictory. You say gay and lesbian people have the right to choose who they're attracted to, but then ask whether dating a trans person makes someone pansexual. Sexual orientation isn't determined solely by the gender identity of every individual person you've ever dated. A lesbian dating a trans woman doesn't suddenly become bisexual any more than a straight man dating a trans woman suddenly becomes gay.
you must’ve used a forbidden emoji, ur reply was cut off (⊙…⊙ )
lmaooo
I’m not blaming them being trans though?
I’m thinking of an alternative that is best for anyone. If those cases didn’t happen I would of been pro trans people can use whatever washrooms they want but sadly that’s not reality.
Okay I'll try to kindly reply, giving you the benefit of the doubt, ppl are nitpicking shit cause they want to hate, now, idk why it got posted, anyways, what you're doing is generalizing, you're saying that they MAY lie, this it'd be sa and bs okay, you say that cause you want to justify the inner hate you have towards trans ppl, you do realise that in general ppl can be cunning and deceiving, that's not a thing TRANS ppl will do, also, usually, this is about morals and respecting wishes alright, so, if I am trans and I know that someone doesn't want to be with a trans person, I WOULD NOT GO OUT OF MY WAY TO BE WITH THEM, some can be said of any ANY XYZ preference, like wanting to date someone with same religious beliefs etc, so I hope you think about this, and think how may e you're just molding the idea of trans ppl in a way that is disrespectful to them. About the wc thing, trans ppl are ATTACKED in their wc, cases have been recorded so what are we on about, yk female and male assaulters exist right :) what you gon do bout it, take a step back, and think, these issues are issues that exist IN GENERAL irrespective of trans ppl, I don't even know what I'm saying my head hurts, pls just stop trying to push this bs, cause ppl use this as justification for hateful comments
I guess I’m transphobic then. I want what’s best for trans people because right now they’re being hated on a lot.
these cases happened because of cis men who used trans identity as a cover to assault women and not actual trans people babe it's time to wake up
your last line is not helping trans people at all no it's not for the best for us you're participating to the discrimination we face rn
Your second paragraph is why I’m conflicted because yeah there’s cases with them being assaulted anyways. You research also shows why trans washrooms should be mandatory because that way trans people won’t get attacked for being trans.
I don’t think trans people should be obligated to tell someone they’re trans unless your willing to date the person your interested. Like if you’re getting to know someone I don’t think they need to tell. Only if you want to date them.
Sexual orientation isn't determined solely by the gender identity of every individual person you've ever dated.
You know what I do agree with this because labels shouldn’t matter but there’s problems when there’s gays and lesbians who’ll feel pressured from some members of the trans community who’ll call them transphobic if they refused to date a trans person and only wants to date cis men and women. That was my basis of my reasoning
Yea please, because I’m being called transphobic despite that i’m not.
I do care for trans people but I can’t disregard the other side arguments.
I will also admit that I am a bit clueless about what’s trans people go through daily and only learned based of what I’m taught in school (which is vague) and social media (which obviously could be biased)
I’m on the side of what could be beneficial for all
so your alternative is segregation ? really ?
And the mfing fact that these ppl don't know shi and act like they do, as if anyone even wants them, they must be so much into the habit of lying and deceiving ppl that they think trans are the same, gotta project somewhere no mfs, UGH SOMEONE TELL THEM NO ONE WANTS THEIR BIGOTED ASS
:') I think I'll just log out before i shot my head off, this is my safe space wth :) mfs, as if the op in that post wasn't enough, and then this :)
"i have my own hardships" YOURE A CIS STRAIGHT WOMAN ??????
I guess being called a Karen hurts their egos
the concept of calling having sex with a trans person "assault" is genuinely so crazy and disrespectful to sa victims.
not even surprised anymore. The UK did it like last year.
No cause who let these roaches have the audacity WHAT ARE THE MODS DOING