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16 05,2026
I need a new site to watch c and k dramas so you guys have any that haven’t been taken down yet?
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16 05,2026
If you guys ever had a bl panel as your wallpaper, what was it? My first ever one was a panel of Pearl Boy where it was Dooshik and his old friends posted up by the sign Peter Pan
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i personally do not understand why there's so much rape in yaoi. and it's not a recent thing either. alot of older yaoi(finder series, gravitation, dakaichi, etc) have rape in it. and some of the older resident fujoshis still talk about those in nostalgic way, even though they know it did have rape and SA and other problematic elements in it. all the popular yaoi have mostly been filled with rape, no matter the time. why do you think this normalisation of SA comes from? if yaoi is mostly catered to women, doesn't it make more sense that women would feel negatively about rape in stories since women are victims of such crimes irl more than men?
so what could be the possible reasons? is this some kind of sick rape revenge mentality? or is it a sick fetish of wanting to rape men if they were a man?
it's something that feels so misogynist even though i cant put down a finger where.
i want to know this from a person who's been a "resident fujoshi/fudanshi" and was in the yaoi genre early on (late 00s or early 10s maybe?) I have been in the BL community since 2018-19 and rape is something i have never understood. i personally don't read yuri this much, but overall yuri doesn't have this much normalisation of rape (as much as i have seen atleast). that doesn't mean yuri genre doesn't have problematic stories, it just isn't as mainstream to have a rape scene in yuri.
so why do you think yaoi has so much rape and SA? what could be the reason behind it?
so what could be the possible reasons? is this some kind of sick rape revenge mentality? or is it a sick fetish of wanting to rape men if they were a man?
it's something that feels so misogynist even though i cant put down a finger where.
i want to know this from a person who's been a "resident fujoshi/fudanshi" and was in the yaoi genre early on (late 00s or early 10s maybe?) I have been in the BL community since 2018-19 and rape is something i have never understood. i personally don't read yuri this much, but overall yuri doesn't have this much normalisation of rape (as much as i have seen atleast). that doesn't mean yuri genre doesn't have problematic stories, it just isn't as mainstream to have a rape scene in yuri.
so why do you think yaoi has so much rape and SA? what could be the reason behind it?
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16 05,2026
hi guys i would love to discover more unique music or even the one that is your personal fav so feel free to drop some recs below
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i genuinely don't understand localising over translating.
is it really that hard to put a small t/n in the footnote explaining hyung or noona? gege or jiejie? instead of removing it entirely.
or to explain national festivals and holidays, like chuseok?
it's not.
esp when the localisation is american bc ik many kor/jpn/chn lingo, or currency, but not this americanised equivalent. translating shouldn't solely focus on the source language but source culture as well.
anyway. fan translation and t/n supremacy.
is it really that hard to put a small t/n in the footnote explaining hyung or noona? gege or jiejie? instead of removing it entirely.
or to explain national festivals and holidays, like chuseok?
it's not.
esp when the localisation is american bc ik many kor/jpn/chn lingo, or currency, but not this americanised equivalent. translating shouldn't solely focus on the source language but source culture as well.
anyway. fan translation and t/n supremacy.
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16 05,2026
I remember this manhwa where the FL says smth along the lines of “You’re telling me I’ve had your love from the beginning? Looks like your love is poisoning me. Stop loving me.”
Any help would be appreciated tyyyy
Any help would be appreciated tyyyy
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16 05,2026
What do you guys think of the "feminism" Sabrina Carpenter promotes?
One where it confuses you on whether she likes men or hates them. One where she mocks trad wives or just wants to be one (the Man's Best Friend album). I don't consume pop music or Sabrina Carpenter music. I just know bits and pieces from here and there. So I don't have an opinion. However I'm trying to make an opinion without consuming her content. I surely don't like her take on feminism, but I might change that if she's actually doing something for the movement. I also saw some posts of her Cochella thing where she said she doesn't like a cultural whistle that a woman in the audience was making.....
So what do y'all think?
One where it confuses you on whether she likes men or hates them. One where she mocks trad wives or just wants to be one (the Man's Best Friend album). I don't consume pop music or Sabrina Carpenter music. I just know bits and pieces from here and there. So I don't have an opinion. However I'm trying to make an opinion without consuming her content. I surely don't like her take on feminism, but I might change that if she's actually doing something for the movement. I also saw some posts of her Cochella thing where she said she doesn't like a cultural whistle that a woman in the audience was making.....
So what do y'all think?
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16 05,2026
Hi I saw a tiktok about Jester x Princess, is there any BL version of that? Idk but reading straight stories ick me the same way I hate patriarchy. Please don't question me abt that, I just hate it. But yeah, is there any Jester x Princess here?
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16 05,2026
Hello, to everyone who's library got messed with, do you guys have any update?
I still haven't gotten my library back.
I'm getting so stressed, because I don't really remember what, I'm reading and already read, so I'm having a hard time finding the stories. If anyone got theirs back, could you please tell me any details? Huhu
HELP GUYS!!! PLEASEE, I'M BEGGING!!!!!!!
I still haven't gotten my library back.
I'm getting so stressed, because I don't really remember what, I'm reading and already read, so I'm having a hard time finding the stories. If anyone got theirs back, could you please tell me any details? Huhu
HELP GUYS!!! PLEASEE, I'M BEGGING!!!!!!!
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16 05,2026
Did you guys ever play a game or watch something just to ship two characters
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16 05,2026
Any manhwa or manga recommendations where 2 person is having sex but they get caught by another guy and that person joins for a threesome? It can be straight or yaoi too please :3
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16 05,2026
I used to be a kpop fan...I was in the trenches of shipping wars... still love woosan </3
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Does anyone know of stories with this trope or something similar? Such as MC having a first love but ending up with a different person. The usual unrequited love is also okay, like when MC likes ML who is in love with another person. I need BL where the "2nd option" gets chosen. Thank you.
P.S. I've already read "Sankaku Twilight" and fell in love with pseudo-love triangle plots, hence this desperation.
P.S. I've already read "Sankaku Twilight" and fell in love with pseudo-love triangle plots, hence this desperation.
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16 05,2026
Okay i wanna know whats yall first EVER bl, i dont wanna hear no manhwa/hua/ga (unless it is your actual first) bl. Like the first ever gay shit u saw, on youtube or wherever as long its the first. Okay mine is Tucked by Katy perry the Smile series
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16 05,2026
yk what I've noticed for a long time in yaois, is that in a stories characters never really say i love you, well they do but when its like one person saying it first n then the other goes to say "me too" like why is that. i feel like its rare too see like i love you being said in a proper way rather than saying me too n stuff. like does anyone get what im saying (ᗒᗣᗕ)՞
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16 05,2026
Steam has a massive discount on DMC games right now. To be honest, I don't know anything about the series but i still want to buy them since the characters look cool. Personally, how would you rate each DMC game? Which one should I start with if I've never played one before? Also, is the story continuous across all games, or can I jump in anywhere?
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16 05,2026
Real Yanderes only please. Ones that actually scare you (kind of like the ML from Unchanged Man).
Someone not afraid to confine their beloved.
MC can be the yandere or the ML.
MC can be the top or ML can be the top.
Even better if there’s a runaway arc.
Even better if it’s omegaverse/ABO.
You are free to suggest else.
Someone not afraid to confine their beloved.
MC can be the yandere or the ML.
MC can be the top or ML can be the top.
Even better if there’s a runaway arc.
Even better if it’s omegaverse/ABO.
You are free to suggest else.
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So i was playing adopt me with my baby causin and some kid sent a trade request to me and started talking bout how they bisexual so i replied cool and ask them what they want me to trade to them then they outright told me "You" "Can u" like im probably old enough to be yo momma tf
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ngl I'm thinking some of y'all are secretly reading it. Every tiktok or ig reel abt jinx will have comments on how jinx is trash and everything but I know y'all secretly reading it. As for me, I think I woulda eaten that shit up myself if it was released when my frontal lobe wasn't fully developed
