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Hello to the community!
I'm a 22 years old french girl and I've just moved to Germany, in Baden Wutemberg. I have now a new school and a new room, but... no friends :(, because I have difficulties in german, I find it really hard to engage a conversation with the other german students.

And so I was thinking, would fellow yaoi/BL fans, who are in Baden Wutemberg, like to meet? It could be really nice and fun (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ !

Ach Kartofelsalat!!!!
02 11,2018
PandaRosie
01 11,2018
I've been thinking, what are the weirdest/ most bizarre/ funniest tags you read on this site?

I saw a one not long ago and it cracked me lol
"pent up seme fucked another dude even though he said he fell in love in uke"
01 11,2018
Lizz
31 10,2018
Who is feeling, say... Not good,
negative or even depressed?
And are you reading Manga to
escape that feeling, or to find your answer?
No? What helps you best to recover?
Yes? Which ones helped/do you expect
to help (genres, storyline or
even specific manga/Anime)?
31 10,2018
Have you ever woke up crying?
29 10,2018
about penpals
Hello guys, I need help about a serious matter: love and relationship.

For a better understanding of my behavior, here are some points about myself:
- I don’t have any experience in love,
- I don’t have many friends,
- I’m more like a side character to whom friends tell their love stories,
- I’m really realistic and logical concerning this matter,
- I would never date a married man (a big no no for me), I think it’d be disrespectful regarding myself, the wife of said married man and their children.

So, here’s the story:
I have a childhood friend who’s dating her previous college teacher. He is married with two children. He likes her, she likes him, I hate him (whereas I never met him).
In the beginning, when we were in our second to last year in college (not in the same major and university/college), she would tell me about this teacher who became her university tutor for her internship and master’s thesis. Everything was fine, until she told me about how close they had become in a short amount of time. They had exchanged numbers and were texting without respecting the teacher-student status (he began first she told me). I told her that it was weird and that I hoped she would be careful and restored some distance in their relationship. She didn’t tell me whether she was interested in him or not, I assumed she wasn’t until she told me a few weeks later that they had seen each other for a drink (and a little more), which confirmed her interest for him.

I was disappointed in her honestly, she knew he was married and was careless about the whole situation. I mean he was biased towards her, as he was her tutor and wasn’t as involved with his other students that he was with her. Besides, I was scared for her, what if her classmates and friends in her university knew about this or even the teachers ? She had to write a master’s thesis and he helped her more than he should have and was one of her teacher… In my opinion, the consequences could have been terrible.

Some facts about this teacher-married man: almost 40, has 2 children, said he never experienced anything like this before, he’s quite nonchalant about the whole thing (knows it’s his fault, he shouldn’t have but still carries on with my childhood friend…tf), will not divorce even though he said that his wife and him are no longer a thing...

I sincerely think that he has a midlife crisis and that my childhood friend is just a past-time.

Then, I asked my childhood friend to stop this relationship because I was worried of the consequences for her as a student and as a young woman.

She told me she would but lied during several months. While she was telling me that everything was back to normal, their relationship deepened and became more serious. He even introduced her to his children (not as a lover, as a student she said). Because I was disappointed and hurt, I was quite childish, I didn’t want to hear about him, so she and I didn’t speak for quite some time, until she contacted me and then I told her what my problem was (aka him). We did as if he didn't exist.

Now, she’s no longer a student, they’ve been together for almost 2 years. So she might not be a past time…but the thing is that he’s still married and will not divorce nor end anything. I think he’s a very selfish man and I want to punch him.

Furthermore, she’s not happy. As expected, she wants more of him now and became jealous of his wife/family life. Yet, she’s unable to leave him, she is too dependent.
I honestly wonder “why him” ? Is he the paternal figure and boyfriend she was looking for ? Did she feel lonely at some point to be this dependent ? (unlike me she’s quite surrounded, I know it doesn’t mean anything, but still…) Did she hold onto him because she thinks she’s unable to do anything without him as he helped her a lot previously ?

During her birthday, he left for a weekend to have a little holiday with his family. She’ll never be his number 1, except when he wants. That’s why I asked her to try to be less dependent, by texting him less.

I have this annoying role of rambling by telling her what she doesn’t want to hear/do, because I care and want her to be happy.

What would you do if you were me ? Would you let her be as it’s her life, knowing that she’s not happy ?
Can you relate ? She knows I want them to be apart, but am I right to behave like I did ?

I feel guilty to be this annoying.

Thanks !
29 10,2018
about penpals
My DM's are dry and I'd love to make some new friends who are LGBT+ friendly.
Will gladly trade pet pictures!
I am 16 tho, for people who might be uncomfortable with that.
Add me on line: extremelygay
29 10,2018
Want to make a group on rabbit , line or viber as fudanshi and fujoshi then be friends who wants that ?!ヾ(☆▽☆)
28 10,2018
about penpals
So here is what is going on: My therapist says I have become too isolated and need people to talk to. I am looking for people to put in small Line group chats of up to five people so people don't get pushed out. We can talk about anything as long as we talk. It could be fun and it would really help me so if interested leave your line or whatsapp id below and I will message you.
27 10,2018
What is beauty to you?
If you can't find an answer, share something you think is beautiful.
(^_^)
25 10,2018
about penpals
Hello, I'm looking for some new friends hehe. I have line, winmongot97x
If you have kakaotalk I can add you (⌒▽⌒)
We can talk about whatever. I like listening to kpop, reading manga, writing, and sleeping lolol I'm very antisocial so its easier for me to make online friends heh >.<
23 10,2018
I know I sound fucking stupid and there are millions of websites on which I can look up advice, but I feel super comfortable in this community. I recently started high school and Im worried and uncertain about a lot of things. I want to know if high school is as horrible as people say it is. I'm just finding myself obsessing over everything, how I look, how my grades are, how people see me. I feel like it's not very healthy and all. I am genuinely curious about how much my grades really matter and how important is my image. I also want to know about everyone's experience.
23 10,2018
I'm really, really, curious about bondage. The ropes, the adrenaline, I'm going insane, I even look at stuff on websites, tutorials on how to tie the ropes, I'd love to experience everything. BUT, "what's the thing that made you write this?" you ask, well my boyfriend doesn't like this idea AT ALL.
Do you know how frustrating it is for me to hear him say "I would never tie you up or even do it blindfolded"? God damn it, Richard, sorry for my words but bondage stuff make me horny as fuck and I can't control my desire of being tied up in the bed and don't have any idea of what you're going to do with me. Ugh, even manhwas show a lot of it (like Momentum, BJ Alex, From Points of Three, etc) and IT HURTS, man, it hurts that I can't do that with him. I'm even embarrassed to admit how pervert I am, sheesh. The thing is, I do like him a lot, it's been a month since he confessed to me and a year since I like him. I wouldn't leave him because I can't please my desires of bondage...
22 10,2018
Okay so how do I start?
Well, I am 21 years old, bisexual, a woman, virgin and... insecure as fuck. 95% of my friends (or maybe 98 or 99%) already had sex. They are always talking about how being an adult means you always end up having sex with your crushes and it makes me feel even worse and more afraid. Most of them have no idea I'm still a virgin so sometimes I have to pretend I know exactly what they are talking about, which is kinda exhausting and makes me fear they will figure out eventually. To worsen things, right now I am developing feelings for a friend (we already kissed and sometimes it makes me feel like I have a chance) and I am hella worried about being a virgin. I mean, what if eventually he wants to have sex – he certainly will. I mean, he already had sex with one of our friends (lol this is becoming even more complicated, sorry) and he talks like he enjoys sex, so. Besides, what if he wants to have sex and I run away out of fear? I mean, it’s gonna hurt, right? What if I start bleeding on the sheets? Lmao. I am laughing like crazy because I am so nervous… I don’t know what to do T_T
22 10,2018
about penpals
Hi I love mo dao zu shi and would love to talk about it with others who like it so, If you read the manhua/novel or watch the animation and would like to join a mdzs gc comment your line ID and we'll add you!
let's be friends :)
22 10,2018
Myfyie 22 10,2018
Please join my server. For hentai lovers , arts, yaoi, game and more thank you!
22 10,2018
about penpals
Are there any Yuri groups I can join?
22 10,2018
about penpals
I thought it would be interesting for people to drop the link of their discord chat over here.

Let's regroup the ones that are still active.
22 10,2018
about penpals
(●'◡'●)ノ
( i'm Italian and i hope my english is not too shitty.......... )

i've seen a lot of different people creating groupchats on Line, but still haven't found someone who wants to use Kakaotalk

so, for the ones who want to talk about a n y t h i n g just tell me here your kakao ID and i will add you

or just text me instead, my ID is "itsjulxhz"

any age accepted ! thank you ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
21 10,2018
about penpals
kikifrancis
21 10,2018
please add my line kikichan_

i study japanese and I'm 19

I'm hoping to study in japan someday
21 10,2018
I've already read "I will be waiting for you in 1999"
And I only want a shounen-ai manga, possibly a one with a good plot ^_^
Obviously the one where the seme eventually finds out that his uke is being bullied maybe from the wounds on his body or something else...
20 10,2018

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yo how tf do you report this michi troll? i keep seeing that trash everywhere talking abt sum rape shit like its funny, BAN HER ASS BRO

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