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alright ima try to keep this short. my girlfriend and i have been dating for over 2 years and this shit is still bothering me, idk what i need from this either, whether it’s reinsurance or someone who relates but i’m a virgin; or was a virgin idk but my gf is the only one who’ve i’ve had sex w and im not her first and it makes me feel sooooooo bad. knowing she’s been with more than one person sexually kill’s me inside and i know she can’t fix it and i know it’s not her fault and i should be a big girl but not only was it with other people it was with men…. twice her age…. god all i do is hyper fixates on what it made her feel like or if she liked it or what they looked like. idk but it bothers me sk fucking much like actually. AND THENNN I FOUND A SNAP FROM LIKE 3 YEARS AHO RECENTLY FROM HER SAYING “HAPPY BIRHTFSY TO THE ONLY GUY THAT MADE ME CUM” BUT MIND YOU SHE TOLD ME IM THE ONLY ONE WHO MADE HER FINSIH. Anyways im not breaking up with her cus of this but it effects me a lot idk what to do lol

I wanna discuss mangas I like and get recommendations and just talk w people who like the same things as me :) is there any out there?

So I have a few online friends on Discord, and we were just talking normally, but one of them—who’s a guy—sometimes makes random misogynistic jokes, like making fun of women and stuff. I usually tried to tolerate it, but one day I finally told him I didn’t like those jokes, hoping he’d understand. My other friend, who’s also a girl, agreed with me.

But instead of listening, he called me out, saying I’ve made similar jokes—just reversed. Basically, I’ve made jokes about men, but honestly, I only did that to fight back when he started it. Still, he said it was hypocritical, like, “If men can’t make those kinds of jokes, then women shouldn’t either. It goes both ways.”

I tried to explain to him that it’s not the same thing. Women have it way worse, and misandry doesn’t even carry the same weight or impact as misogyny. Then he asked me if me or my friend ever experienced any of that stuff directly and told me to give examples. I don’t go out much, so I didn’t have a ton of real-life stories, but I have experienced some stuff online in games with voice chat—like just chatting normally and suddenly getting asked by some dude to marry him, or random guys pretending to hump me from behind, stuff like that.

But before I could even explain, he left the call upset.

Later, when my friend and I tried to call together, he said we should call privately instead of the group chat. So I added her to a different group chat that I had with another girl friend (it was just me and her). That group chat, by the way, was originally created by him when he got upset that we were talking too much about topics he didn’t like. He literally made it so we could “talk in private” without bothering him, and then he left the group.

I didn’t delete the group chat mostly out of spite, so now me and my friends use it when we want to talk without him. But when I accidentally mentioned that “secret” group chat to him, he got even more upset and called us assholes for having a group chat without him.

I do feel a little guilty about it, but it’s not like we trash-talk him there or anything—it literally exists because of him in the first place.

So… AITA for having that group chat without him and not telling him? :')

I remember when I was young my mom made this soup. It was a yellow and orangish color, smelled like sweat and tasted like unwiped ass. It was like sour and putrid and I thought I was gonna throw up. My mom forced me to eat most of it and till this day I STILL remember the taste.

for anyone out there who tasted possey before, what is the first thing u do? what does it taste like? was it worth it?

I used to run a fujoshi/bl hate page.why? Because I had the misfortune of reading some of the worst bls out there when I first discovered it back in 2019..stuff that people recommended btw, back when dark romance was all the rage..still kinda is...and so I thought that rape and abuse was all there was to "Bl" and so after being traumatized I created my first hate page on Instagram then i moved to tik tok when it got popular...I only got back into bl about 2 years now..I really do feel sorry for the other people who end up reading all that slop....

I’ve been told I give pretty advice, and though I have no qualifications by degree (I’m a forensic science major), I do have a lot of friends, been through shit myself, and an unbiased stranger. Feel free to share whatever, and I’ll reply, if you’re uncomfortable to share in a public form, message me.

what’s something small but frustrating you deal with often (in life or work), that you wish a smart helper could do for you?

I’m building an AI tool and just want to make sure it solves real everyday annoyances.

DOES anyone know this genre of music like the start of your idol from the kpop demon hunter or whatever and scara's boss fight song like they're heavenly

Recently I noticed some ppl are being bored of like genres and SPECIALLY BL what's something new that you want authors to like experiment on? What's a story you wanna see?

Personally for me I want them to do more of like different jobs trope. It's always like assistant x ceo or something. Honestly I'd want a CEO x CEO (if yall got recs gimme) but other than CEOs. I want maybe a Fashion Designer x Model, Idol x Manager, Chef x Waiter, Writer x Editor and etc. More of those! I'm tired of these office jobs, baristas and convenience store. Like come on now what's fun about these is their uniforms!

just entered a cutesy woosty rabbit hole I'm looking for completed Cakeverse's

so far i've found only cute stuff ( and I want that) but im also looking for one's where they eat them

( like I'm talking legs on a table kind of eat ) NOW I'm new to this so maybe I'm wrong in all of this legs on a table stuff.

all in all I need those who have read or read this stuff I'm interested and probably gonna regret it but oh-well THANK YOU

I wanna watch the series like fr but all I see is that they're all already dead? Wtf?

Could either be in fiction or irl

Can yall share some of the weirdest titles you've seen or read? I swear I've seen some unhinged ones before or just a mouthful to say... in general just weird titles?

y'all know any bls with face sitting? also any with switches, but mainly face sitting

Some people probably know, but I'm talking about forbidden, colorful hair, accessories, etc. If you get me.

Show what you THINK might be considered a "hybrid gacha character"

MINE IS SHADOW LADY (THE FIRST MANHWA I READ SO IM ATTACHED)...
THE ART IS THE BEST, THE STORY PEAK

Yall imma cry tears of blood rn. I was absolutely in LOVE with this manhwa
It was cancelled due to plagiarism
Not much but small details he copied off other art work because of deadline pressure....
Anyway..he issued an apology...and posted the end of the story on his blog.
I will go cry in a corner now..