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04 11,2024
I feel like I’m depressed but not at the same time? I don’t feel sad or anything like that, just a lil unmotivated to do anything. But sometimes I’m completely fine n shit. I get so confused cuz idk if I’m fine or not? I’m probably just overthinking
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04 11,2024
Okay- for the context- I went to a bar with few friends and there was a group who was being super loud and I do not like loud people and also it was a bar for ffs!
Anyways- the group was of guys who seemed gay? and my friend said that she hates loud gays and I kind of understand the sentiment too cause I detest loud people in general but all my friends started attacking her and when I defended her called me and her homophobic.
Am I being homophobic..????
Anyways- the group was of guys who seemed gay? and my friend said that she hates loud gays and I kind of understand the sentiment too cause I detest loud people in general but all my friends started attacking her and when I defended her called me and her homophobic.
Am I being homophobic..????
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04 11,2024
like why. surely you've seen some scenes depicting the struggles same sex couples in these stories faced because irl we live in a hellish heteronormative society, thanks to some troglodytes refusing to move forward. ya'll act like those annoying faceless extras
it's just embarrassing these people have the audacity to boast about reading BL in public and then claim to be homophobic.
i REALLY hope they're not the majority.
it's just embarrassing these people have the audacity to boast about reading BL in public and then claim to be homophobic.
i REALLY hope they're not the majority.
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04 11,2024
every ml is stoic, cold, has mommy/daddy issues, rich and has black hair where is the spice?? the personality?? the originality?? like damn at least give them something that makes them stand out it's like the can i copy your homework meme but it keeps getting worse shout out to ml's who aren't bland boring basic ctrl + v
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04 11,2024
Hi please help me come up with something meaningful I need to submit a comic in like 5 hours and I have nothing because I have like 4 other projects where I'm the lead but doing the work solo, I just need to kick start my brain please help
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04 11,2024
Yall so I'm confused. So I'm a guy and studying in college and I have this one classmate who's also a guy who keeps approaching me and complementing me and stuff. At first it was like normal, he often complements my looks and my brains. We're not that close so whenever he compliments me I feel icky.
Recently, we had a debate on a law sub (Oblicon), and fortunately, I won. Later, I found out that he lost on purpose so that I could win (he admitted it to me). Funny thing is that he has a girlfriend yet he's acting like this. What do I do yall, I hate confrontations.
Note, we're kinda rivals when it comes to academics since our university is strict when it comes to grading.
Recently, we had a debate on a law sub (Oblicon), and fortunately, I won. Later, I found out that he lost on purpose so that I could win (he admitted it to me). Funny thing is that he has a girlfriend yet he's acting like this. What do I do yall, I hate confrontations.
Note, we're kinda rivals when it comes to academics since our university is strict when it comes to grading.
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04 11,2024
I’m out of options, I wanna read anything there just can’t be any toxic bs. Gl, Bl and straight works I just want it to be interesting and non toxic but enemies to lovers is fine just I don’t want any assholes.
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04 11,2024
Well he just kept asking me why i havent had a boyfriend before like i dont know how to answer his "why's" what do you guys think? Does he have an ulterior motive or he just plain curious idk how to handle these
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This is for the people who are still unsure, in denial, or are having a hard time coming to terms with their sexuality.
Have you ever felt that it would've been so much easier if the world isn't what it is? I know it's generally more accepted and supported now, but there's still a 'they're different from us with normal sexualities' connotation to it. I know this is such an awkward comparison but whenever I read fantasy stories in societies where it doesn't fucking matter who you love because it's all the same (apocalypse, omegaverse, wuxia, etc.), I just think, it would be so much easier if things were like that. If men and women could have biological kids all the same even if they're the same gender, if the gender of the person you loved doesn't really matter because love is love and we all die the same anyways, if nobody thinks about each other's gender when it comes to love.
I'm not homophobic, nor am I naive, I know it's possible to get surrogates, love whoever bc you gotta stand up for ursel yada yada etc, but I'm not looking for logic. I'm looking for people who are also struggling with the same feeling. I admire people who proudly act upon their feelings/sexualities, because I still struggle with the fact that people don't view it as 'natural' that the world didn't accept such things in the first place, that if I choose that path I'll face becoming an 'anomaly', that I won't be able to get the same biological joys as those people, that I won't be 'normal'.
I wish gender didn't matter, I wish things were equal, I wish we didn't have to lose anything just because we chose to love who we wanted to love.
Maybe then I'd still be able to accept myself, maybe then I'd be able to come to terms with it. I know that I probably am, but I don't want to be.
Have you ever felt that it would've been so much easier if the world isn't what it is? I know it's generally more accepted and supported now, but there's still a 'they're different from us with normal sexualities' connotation to it. I know this is such an awkward comparison but whenever I read fantasy stories in societies where it doesn't fucking matter who you love because it's all the same (apocalypse, omegaverse, wuxia, etc.), I just think, it would be so much easier if things were like that. If men and women could have biological kids all the same even if they're the same gender, if the gender of the person you loved doesn't really matter because love is love and we all die the same anyways, if nobody thinks about each other's gender when it comes to love.
I'm not homophobic, nor am I naive, I know it's possible to get surrogates, love whoever bc you gotta stand up for ursel yada yada etc, but I'm not looking for logic. I'm looking for people who are also struggling with the same feeling. I admire people who proudly act upon their feelings/sexualities, because I still struggle with the fact that people don't view it as 'natural' that the world didn't accept such things in the first place, that if I choose that path I'll face becoming an 'anomaly', that I won't be able to get the same biological joys as those people, that I won't be 'normal'.
I wish gender didn't matter, I wish things were equal, I wish we didn't have to lose anything just because we chose to love who we wanted to love.
Maybe then I'd still be able to accept myself, maybe then I'd be able to come to terms with it. I know that I probably am, but I don't want to be.
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04 11,2024
ever since i read Where the Heart is nothing else i read is as good as it and i wish i could read it for the first time again please send me more smut recommendations preferably with a hot female lead thank you
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04 11,2024
Ok so this is like my first post or thing but I have like a question does anyone know this manga because it’s been stuck in my head for the past couple of days and I read it in 2022 so I don’t remember much and basically the fl and ml and childhood best friends and I think they may or may not be together and basically like he’s the silent type and she like loves him and stuff but he doesn’t really give back the affection but in the inside we find out her absolutely loves her and everything (so cliche ) and stuff and I think there’s a part when like she’s drying his hair and stuff and she’s in her pajamas and she hugs him from the back and she realizes she doesn’t have a bra on and it’s super embarrassing and awkward and stuff and I think like in the later chapters they decide when they are 18 they will get freaky deaky idk why like the thing is fluffy and it’s not explicit or anything that I remember and I’m pretty sure we actually get his pov in another story that the author made but yeah I just remember it being really cute and like cliche idk sorry for the long yap session
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04 11,2024
Post your hear me out, but this time, it has to be something hear me out worthy. That means NO VENOM, NO GHOST FACE, AND ABSOLUTELY NO BASIC HOT PERSON NO MATTER HOW CONTROVERSIAL THEY ARE THATS NOT WHAT A GOD DAMN HEAR ME OUT IS OML!!!!! no numbers or letters or punctuation or !?$&@(whatever these are called) either
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04 11,2024
Guys I’m so bored and I want a fictional man so badly and I have school tomorrow and I want money I’m gonna cry
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Ok so you might be thinking what the hell is wrong with this person and this is probably the most basic ass question but seriously I’ve done the most fucked up shit and got back together with him and I know I shouldn’t but he was the only person that I talked too and I told him like everything and even my fucked up past, he kept wanting to talk to me and he even wrote a whole paragraph to me which NO ONE HAS DONE to me then again this is my first serious relationship or was but everything was going well till I messed it up again and I was gonna explain myself then HE BLOCKED ME I will admit I was so like ugh I was so disappointed in myself then I isolated myself and deleted every account so I wouldn’t read old messages butttt I may have looked at his repost today and I didn’t like what I saw I mean yeah I fucked up like big time I know that myself but why am I like this seriously all I do is just isolate myself and don’t let people in like I don’t have friends and now I don’t even have a boyfriend that now my ex and I can’t stop thinking about him so now I here venting cause I have no one else and I’m just a mess well that was kinda good that I let it out of system now I’m gonna go cry cause THATS ALL I GOOD AT.
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03 11,2024
I found this quiz about which strawhat member you are, yeh that's it
https://uquiz.com/quiz/JK40TG?p=1185137
https://uquiz.com/quiz/JK40TG?p=1185137
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03 11,2024
I had a coworker rec a manga to me last week. He’s older(50s) and used “loli” to describe the main character.
Honestly, I haven’t heard that term in so long, I kinda forgot what it meant but I’m worried that it is associated w shota. Esp since I work w the dude
I’m I being dramatic or is it a gross term?
Honestly, I haven’t heard that term in so long, I kinda forgot what it meant but I’m worried that it is associated w shota. Esp since I work w the dude
I’m I being dramatic or is it a gross term?
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03 11,2024
There's only 4 possible results but this quiz is pretty interesting. Share who you get.
https://uquiz.com/JhvVm3
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03 11,2024
since I was a child, I would sit far from the beach and play with the sand instead of getting into the water, and once, when my uncle walked me near the water and put my legs in it, I climbed on him and cried, my mom took the video lol,,
and lizards or any kind of reptiles. I hate it, not because it has done smth bad to me, but when I see them in general, I'd freaked out and my body feels shaky, it might looks like I'm overreacting when people make fun of me and purposely throw or bring a lizards right in front of my face but hell, I can't stop my heart from racing whenever I see one
and lizards or any kind of reptiles. I hate it, not because it has done smth bad to me, but when I see them in general, I'd freaked out and my body feels shaky, it might looks like I'm overreacting when people make fun of me and purposely throw or bring a lizards right in front of my face but hell, I can't stop my heart from racing whenever I see one
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03 11,2024
since I was a child, I would sit far from the beach and play with the sand instead of getting into the water, and once, when my uncle walked me near the water and put my legs in it, I climbed on him and cried, my mom took the video lol,
and lizards or any kind of reptiles. I hate it, not because it has done smth bad to me, but when I see them in general, I'd freaked out and my body feels shaky, it might looks like I'm overreacting when people make fun of me and purposely throw or bring a lizards right in front of my face but hell, I can't stop my heart from racing whenever I see one
and lizards or any kind of reptiles. I hate it, not because it has done smth bad to me, but when I see them in general, I'd freaked out and my body feels shaky, it might looks like I'm overreacting when people make fun of me and purposely throw or bring a lizards right in front of my face but hell, I can't stop my heart from racing whenever I see one
