My parents made me pay for my studies and pay for rent too; it didn't teach me anything I didn't know already and only made me resent them. Getting a job was a good thing, making me get one because they didn't leave me any other choice and I had no say in it wasn't. It's the opposite of treating you like an adult BTW. It's "you're my kid and you'l...... reply
I don’t find this unreasonable. Is it the move I personally would make as a parent? Is it the best decision you could make as a parent? Maybe not, but they made their decision nonetheless. Rather than trying to convince or change their mind accept they made it your reality and make your choice. The excuse of not having income won’t work. You’...... 2 reply
In my opinion, it’s unreasonable. Parents are responsible for their children, but that doesn’t mean their children can be a bum and leech off of them though.
You’re still young & just graduated from hs so it makes sense to still be dependent on your parents. Maybe they just want to motivate you to get a job by saying that?
But if you still ...... reply
The only time I feel like killing everyone, including myself, is on a plane. I hate it. But it's just a fleeting intrusive thought. I won't cry if an asshole dies but I don't want to kill them. I also don't care if we become extinct as a species so amoral in a sense but not immoral. I actually care a lot about the moral rules I have for myself. reply
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Mooch off parents, not friends. How are your parents gonna collect from you? Tell them to start a tab :) When you do get a job whenever, tell them you will slowly pay them back....don't say how much, but later, maybe a buck a week? And when ya get a job, then go live with a roommate/friend and pay your fair share for your new life. What your p...... reply
No. I grew up with kindness and caring and a happy funny family so I had more happy times and never really went toward darker situations or issues. Just what went down for me which made me have a positive good person attitude thru my whole life I guess. Type that saves kittens, don't torture/kill them LOL reply
Yk, I get the whole reason behind it; You wanna teach them the responsibilities of paying bills and other stuff along with that. But I still find it fucking WILD that some parents have the nerve (not meaning this in an ungrateful or sassy way, mind you) to charge you when you, yourself had nothing to do with being born/alive into this world. It was...... reply
Nope, lmao, I learned how to discipline myself when I was younger, considering that my parents were not strict at all and they were supportive of whatever I did. Here I am, managing a cafe with my bf lol. 1 reply
Is it worth it? I understand having to pay for your own groceries maybe paying a portion of rent but are they gonna free up some rules for you Are you able to do what you please?
They should at least give you a 6 month buffer to save some money So even if you're planning to leave at least save a couple thousand But rent prices are looking pretty t...... reply
When I started to pay to live somewhere I had a personal hierarchy of requirements. First a place I'm safe, second a place that's cheap and lastly a place I want to be.
So if your friends place is safe, free/cheaper or happier for you skedadle. It sucks for me to talk things out with people who have this invisible hierarchy of I own your life and...... reply
Is it possible to sue them for giving birth to you without your consent? What I said is dumb but your parents charging you is also dumb. It’s unreasonable. You’re still young. If you’re 25 and still there jobless doing nothing it’s understandable. The least they can do is to support you for a while until you can feed yourself and get a prop...... 1 reply
Is there any other reasons other than the fact that you've graduated HS..? Because that's unreasonable considering the fact that you don't have a job nor stable income to support yourself. If you can't convince them to live with you until you got a job, just go live temporarily with your friends until then. reply
I don’t think it’s unreasonable. When you’re an adult, you should be able to get a job and pay for yourself. Not saying you have to be working a super high paying job, and living on your own is pretty hard in this economy, but being able to hold a job and not be a bum is something you should do when you’re an adult. Ofc, if you have a disab...... 1 reply
No BUT I did have homicidal impulses that i never wanted to act out on, but i was worried that if i told an adult to ask for help then they’d believe i was amoral! reply
When I was a kid I was lowkey amoral and grew up to be the moral person I am today. I might have to thank Covid for that, it gave me time to actual reflect on myself and what type of person I am. reply
i just graduated high school and my parents want to charge me for living in the house and for eating at home. i don’t have a job so i don’t have income. i feel like this is super unreasonable but they won’t change their mind. should i just stay with my friend instead of living here?
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