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sunsun enhypen [Question]
aziel
17 05,2026
do u guys think sunsun is real i think they’re real and fucking
17 05,2026
crow 17 05,2026
recently read the novel, safe to say that i am throughly disgusted! but i did make them into miis just cuz   1 reply
17 05,2026
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Who the absolute FUCK is we??? Leave US out of this   1 reply
17 05,2026
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Taekook [Answer]
Mama_Agnus
17 05,2026
I was a tourist but I lowkey realized that whether they were together or not really didn’t make a difference in the broader context unless they came out or sum. And MOST k-pop ships nothing burger ass ships with two hot men.   1 reply
17 05,2026
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Taekook [Answer]
Fujoshi for Fluff only
17 05,2026
Grew out of liking the group, songs and generally I didn't see them actually liking each other...   1 reply
17 05,2026
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Is the website blocked for anyone else or just me??   reply
17 05,2026
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Taekook [Answer]
YoBologna
17 05,2026
And what made me realize it wasn't real is basically touching grass lmao as I got busier from school, I gradually realized I was just delusional.   reply
17 05,2026
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Taekook [Question]
YoBologna
17 05,2026
Any ppl here who used to ship taekook back in the days, and now have woken up? What made u realize that it wasn't real?


I would watch a lot of taekook analysis videos and it was literally my favorite thing to do as I get home from school TT namjin was my GOATTT, used to rlly believe they were tgt too. And honorable mention is yoonmin(and sope ngl), but I just felt bad tat the other members didn't have any pairings tbh LMAO
17 05,2026
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Idk abt all that, but I do like her music   reply
17 05,2026
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Honestly, with how the media usually treats female pop artists, I don't think it's right to criticize her when there are literally many male artists out there who have committed serious crimes and don't receive the same criticism that's my opinion.   1 reply
17 05,2026
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Reminds me of the girl making a video asking “why women read yaoi if they hate men who watch porn?” And it’s like well one is built on exploitation, fetishization of young girls and sexual violence. Not to mention the HUMAN TRAFFICKING. And the other is, yaoi.   1 reply
17 05,2026
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I think people read stories that are intriguing or interesting to them. It is a personal experience - so are the perspectives of others, which are equally complex. I don’t fully agree that all negative judgements, whether or not they are “shallow”, are misogynistic in nature   1 reply
17 05,2026
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was that post not asking for nuance and explanations of said complexities? or is simply asking any of that an attack on women somehow? women can be (and often are) misogynistic, to themselves and other people. it came free with the patriarchal system most of us live under. even in patriarchal societies, women have a role to play in maintaining and......   1 reply
17 05,2026
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I mean this whole post just boils down to using standpoint epistemology to argue that what, we shouldn't say someone's taste sucks?   1 reply
17 05,2026
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I'm curious as to what you have in mind when you mention nuance. Am i missing a context here? I would like to gladly engage in this conversation and I agree with you on parts about how there is a nuance to things. Not everything is black or white. But I wanna know what rights are we denying ourselves or other women, the ones you mentioned? Nuance ......   reply
17 05,2026
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Oh yes, it absolutely is Misogyny. But the people here aren't ready for that conversation. With every post on this site, I can see the Misogyny casually or just oozing out. And As a person who has been through the same torture in religious manner, the idea of "Pure women" "Modest women" is desirable to a certain group of people. But what hurts me ......   reply
17 05,2026
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Help me find this [Question]
Bol 17 05,2026
A manga/ Webtoon? That was adapted into a short series. Two male leads—not BL. They’re friends in university I think and they share an apartment? One of them wears glasses and the has hair around his ears I think. There’s this scene I recall where one of the is using the bathroom and the other accidentally sees him showering? It’s a running gag because there’s a window in the bathroom leading to the hallway. It was really funny. Help me please yall
17 05,2026
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I'm not trying to have a debate or a conversation about certain critiques in this post, I'm just asking straight up isn't this misogyny?

Isn't denying female readers nuance for what they read misogyny? As if we don't live or society wasn't built on patriarchy that has shaped how women lived, what experiences they had, how they cope with the world. Like I'm not trying to say critiques aren't allowed but when we don't take into account or try to care for the nuance of why women engage with or write certain stories, relying on one-note assumptions or assessments, isn't that just straight up misogyny? I think it's interesting how nuance is demanded with things like "not all men" but no nuance is considered for women, especially when it comes to the stories they engage with. Again im not saying critiques can't happen, I don't mind if critiques happen, but I don't understand why critiques must become sweeping judgements and generalization of women that becomes the general idea of how we view those women, despite whatever nuance they have or give, when also on the flip side people are more vigilant in generalizing men going "not all men".

I think critiques are valid to make and have but I think the nuance should also be engaged with, not to justify, but to address the root problems. Don't you guys think so too? And if we don't care to give women nuance or engage with their nuance, to the point where we rarely do and instead run on the sweeping generalizations we make of them, what does that say about us? Aren't we now the pawns of patriarchy, doing it's job for it? Blaming women, excerting most if not all our energy on deeming a 'bad'/'unpleasant' women and putting them down, deflecting from the primary boogeyman/puppet master the patriarchy.

I also think it's interesting about what rights we think we have to deny a group their nuance and their context of being under a systemic power. Are we saying or telling them they aren't /that/ affected by that system? Why do we feel the need to do that? To impose our judgements over their nuance? Isn't this a power play? I could go on but I'm stopping here.
17 05,2026
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phoenix-nmixx omg I'm obsessed with this song!!! it gets better the more i listen plz give it a shot :)   reply
17 05,2026
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I know in the utaite fandom that these guys aren't niche BUT I never see anybody outside talk about them. XYZ IS SO GOOOOOOD Original songs: 1. Secret Answer 2. CocktaiL 3. Finale 4. Mirage Call Covers: 1. Alice in N.Y 2. Valentine day Kiss (XYZ arrange vers.) 3. Deriheru Yondara Kimi ga Kita (XYZ arrange vers.) XYZ vs XYZ songs: 1. Straw (un:c,......   reply
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