Agree, hell even a priest outfit is sexualized and i can name more outfit that are sexualized
The japanese pe uniform which are worn by kids/teenagers
The maid outfit
School uniforms that is also worn by kids
Even kids halloween costumes are sexualized like this one for example Dorothy from wizard of ozz
And the nurse outfit reply
I just want to rant about what I'm experiencing right now. I know it's better to talk about this to someone I'm close with or my friends but I feel more comfortable saying this to strangers who I know I share a preference and hobbies with and doesn't know me personally. I'm 18 years old who's I would say experiencing my quarter life crisis. Ever si...... 2 reply
Fr though, I'm not even catholic but it's genuinely so disrespectful because they're sexualizing a group of people who wear those things specifically to NOT GET SEXUALIZED it's such a disgusting thing to normalizes. Like what if you did that to someone wearing a hjab? That would be all over the internet but for some reason I'd it's nuns its okay?! ...... reply
You need to talk back, they will just keep treating you like a doormat if you stay quiet. I also recommend to you to make some friends, it will make your life so much easier. Try seeing if anybody from the class has similar hobbies. A lot of people watch anime and read manga nowadays, I bet there are some in your class. If you don’t want to talk ...... reply
im sorry ur going through this :( every time i hear about anything bullying related i get reminded of my past experiences and how miserable i was. my advice is to not let it get to you!! easier said than done, i know. it's so incredibly easy to get wrapped up in self-hatred and self-deprecating thoughts, but u should know that anything they say or ...... reply
I think forgiveness not always equals accepting the person back into your life. Like, I forgive so I can let go of the grudge and let it stop hurting me. It doesn't mean there'll be a second chance to come back to my life because our story ended. reply
By analyzing your behaviour in front of you he wants to show that he knows what you do and your behaviour. He wants you to know that he’s in control sorta and knows everything about the way you act. It’s to reassure himself and further elevate him self. Reject him. He is just a common egotistical male who can’t accept rejection and wants to p...... reply
As someone who been through shit that includes a parent of mine, I would just say from personal experience, it is possible for people to forgive people but it's impossible to forget.
I think with time people emotions tend to change (of course that depends on the circumstances as well)
A lot of people hold on resentment, anger or sadness even th...... reply
What I did was to change myself.. there was a saying that we have 3 sides.
First is for the friends
Second is for the family
And third is between yourself
It was a long time ago since I read it so I can't be sure but it's what I remembered.. it's one of the beliefs that I hold till now. reply
Bro they specialize everything even school uniforms. It’s females being sexualized due to misogyny and sexism it’s been around. Very sad to think about I hope these crimes against women can stop reply
Change yourself and the way you appear in school. Turn more “normal” really the only way for them not to bully you. You could tell adults but it’s not like they can stop kids from giving you looks. 2 reply
If you believe that you aren’t good at anything even when you didn’t apply yet you are going to get denied. Many times believing in yourself from the start will make everything easier like manifesting and manifesting only works if you subconsciously want it reply
You should speak up and actively try to participate and speak with them as you get older many stop trying to speak to others they don’t know well about it’s all up to you. reply
Forgiveness is to accept their apology and basically end all the bs that’s happening or to me at least. It depends on what they’ve done to you tbh. Would you want to keep on remembering them and the bad things they did to you or would you forgive them and go back to normal? reply
I think forgiveness sometimes means accepting/coming to terms with what already happened, even if that person never took responsibility outright (and perhaps still committing the said-acts without me knowing), all for sake that by doing so, it provides the clearest, most controllable and most desirable outcome for all those involved.
Stories and m...... reply
Yes you can forgive someone u loved! When people are hurt deeply by someone I feel like usually they either 1. Let go and heal or 2. Heal but seek revenge or hold hatred in their heart. 9 times out of 10, #1is more optimal and sure #2 is satisfying to see but think about yourself in 50 years, will you really still care? Will you have so much free t...... reply
Hello ! I have no idea if I'm late to the party or not, but I'm happy to help out.
1. I realized I was trans when I was 12-13-ish?? years old. Back then, I knew I had some sort of disconnection with my body but I thought I was agender rather than a trans man. I've only started exploring my gender recently again (I'm 16 now) after my friend came ou...... 2 reply
They want to take accountability now? So they are directing this at you right now? Hmmm.....obvy depends on what happened to require forgiveness cause each of us have different levels of what a person might do to us that can be classed forgivable or not. (Forgivable is a weird concept cause one can accept and be at peace with others actions agai...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
