I am a young adult person who is bi, I hv never dated before as I come from a pretty orthodox family. I do want to be in love, or be in a relationship with, ig women cus like idk men aren't really interesting these days. But only issue is I am in this lgbt server but every single woman that I talk to just want one thing, a relationship. Now look, I do too but not like that. I am the type of person who would like to get to know them first, start off as friends but no one is interested. I don't mean the the I'm not serious let's flirt or sext kinda friend. I want to fall in love slowly or just have a genuine connection. I have many times told this to people straight up right after meeting them but STILL they ask me stuff like do u want engage in intimate relations, or they ask me send pics. One of the issue with me is I'm a really insecure person, my insecurity stems from not being conventionally attractive. So tell me am I wrong here, is it just my insecurity speaking because I just don't understand why people (I mean any of them) not interested in being friends first. And ONLINE DATING is a huge cliff, u don't really know if ur parashute is working or not but the view is def beautiful, won't u wanna know if it works first tho? Sorry for the long rant.
Focus on making friends - you seem pretty young so I’m going to tell you this: boyfriends/partners are a lot of work. Every functioning relationship is one giant conversation and you will need to have the emotional strength to get through all of these. Things will be good and things will be bad at times, and if you have the maturity to work throu...... reply
having a boyfriend fucking sucks in this generation because majority of men are not ready to commit and there's an oversaturation of beautiful women out there that are lowering their standards for men who look like a hybrid between the grinch and baby yoda so even mid ass men have ginormous egos....plus the facts like they need attention 24/7?? Do ...... 1 reply
unpopular opinion: BFs are overrated and aren't generally worth it. i know you feel like you're desperate but please, don't ever make a BF js bc you're desperate. it won't end well. honestly, i'mm pretty #4B so i recommend NO one to get a boyfriend. 1 reply
lowkey focus on ur own self growth and get some hobbies and the love interests will come if ur young, have smth to talk about and a nice person
the more work that u put in on urself and the more u put urself out there without expecting too much, the more likely you’ll probably fall in love and have it reciprocated
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girllll you're so real, in my friend group im the only single one i want to be in loveee, i want to be loved... i understand why im single tho, i want to have partner that just another "me" ifykyk but people around here.... meh, not even single person here have the same interest as meee.
tho, dont date random just because ure desperate.. reply
Also the fact that they don't fight more, cause first miss ma'am is out there looking ready to have a romp and second how is she starting to like being forced so easily? I don't like that at all because lord have a bit of mercy and give just a little common sense and authenticity. It is indeed all our fault for even wanting the to have some sort o...... reply
Idk but DONT date just about anyone in your desperation. Surely there are other average people similar to you around as well. You'll find someone suitable eventually. If you think you have no talents, focus on developing one or two. That'll add to your charm and probably help with finding a boyfriend as well. Good luck! reply
I want a boyfriend. I've never dated anyone. But I'm too damn ugly. My personality isn't that interesting. I'm not talented. I'm just average. So what should I do ( I'm desperate at this point) ╥﹏╥
My friend used to have a toxic ex then years ago they reached out to her and asked for forgiveness and if they can start over again she accept their forgiveness and now they're dating healthy for 2 year and a half so yeah i think its possible to forgive someone who once hurt you from the past as long as they really mean their "accountability" towar...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!